How to incorporate my male best friend in my bridal party...

[whatashamee]

Hi!
I'm having a bit of a dilemma..
My wedding is summer next year, and so far I've got my two sisters, and three close girl friends in my bridal party.
I have a male best friend, he's been my best friend since primary school and is a huge part of my life. I'd love to have him as part of my wedding party, but I can't think of how best to incorporate him.
Has anybody got any ideas?
Our little nephew will be Paige boy, so I don't know what to do!

Any ideas are most welcome ❤️

He could be your best man?

My brother was my best man. I didn't have bridesmaids but I did have a flower girl. He walked down the aisle with her. He didn't make a speech but he did come to the hen do.

My closest male friend was toastmaster at my wedding.

Why can't he be a brides man but only just do the bit in the ceremony. He doesn't need to dress with you and no one should be separated from their partner afterwards anyway.

Why don’t you ask him whether he’d like a bridesman role, and explain what you would see it as involving, and check whether he’d prefer to do a reading or something less time-consuming and spend more time with his DH?