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Where were you on 9/11?

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JorisBonson · 10/09/2021 12:40

I was 16 and at college, having a rip roaring time in the student union bar with my fake ID.

Noticed a few people gathered round a small TV after the first plane hit. The union ended up pulling down the projector screen usually reserved for football, just as the second plane hit. We sat there for hours and hours just watching and not believing what we were seeing.

Can't believe it's been 20 years.

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YouDoYouBoo · 10/09/2021 17:50

School, then choir practice. Only heard very vague rumours of something bad happening in New York. A bit worrying as my dad was in New York at the time! Luckily he was fine and actually, nowhere near the World Trade Centre at the time of the attacks, but we didn't know that at the time.

MouseholeCat · 10/09/2021 18:05

I was in year 6 at school and didn't know until home time. When my Mum picked us up from school she said that there wouldn't be the normal kids TV on because something bad had happened in New York and the news was showing that. I remember her telling us about the Twin Towers but I didn't really have a frame of reference for what they were or the significance.

DH lived in the US and was 4 years older than me. He remembers them pulling the TVs out for everyone to watch and then people's parents started picking them up, and they eventually closed the school early. There were people in his school whose relatives were in New York or worked in the towers- I can't imagine how distressing that day must have been.

Wowcherarestalkingme · 10/09/2021 18:10

I was in my car. It was the week before I started uni and a friend and I had been shopping. They said on the radio, ‘a plane has flown into the world trade centre’ and I very clearly remember turning to my friend and saying, ‘what an idiot, didn’t they see it?’. We got home and my mum was watching the news and we walked in to see the second plane hit.
My parents were due to fly to New York ten days later for a holiday which was the cancelled and all the America students were a good few weeks late in starting uni.

DubiousGoals · 10/09/2021 18:19

I was at home, just back from a dentist appointment with an infected wisdom tooth, lying on the sofa feeling sorry for myself. My flatmate rang me from work saying "Put the news on now!" and I watched the coverage while on the phone to him.

MercyBooth · 10/09/2021 18:28

I was 28 and working nights in a sex chatline office and had the TV on that afternoon while eating a meal before going to work. My DB was here too as well as DH as we watched it unfold on TV knowing my parents (especially DM who loathes flying) had flown out there the day before (September 10th) to visit my aunt and uncle cousin who had moved there from Italy. Employer let me use the work phone to phone the emergency number as i hadnt heard from parents at all. They were fine and flew back two weeks later as planned.

itsgettingwierd · 10/09/2021 18:28

@Crunchymum

I was in Cyprus (lived and worked out there for that season)

Rest of family in London

Future MIL and FIL were in NYC and due to go up the viewing tower that evening.

I was living and working in Tenerife.

We had a lot of arrivals diverted that were on their way to Mexico.

Everyone (bar 1 lady who shouted at me she didn't have a clean thong Hmm) was really lovely and extremely grateful we got them landed, put up 5* and out again. Lots of honeymoon couples and amazingly considering the circumstances a huge whip round for us all who worked straight for 24 hours to care for the guests.

I think people were so shocked by events the real lovely side of human nature came out.

You never expect anything extra for doing your job and it was one of those unknowns we were just doing what we could and for many many hours we had no idea if guests would be staying for days, weeks - flying back to U.K. or onto Mexico.

I'll never forget watching that plane hit the second tower live on TV and working in the travel industry wondering what the future held.

onthinice · 10/09/2021 18:29

My mum and I were shopping in our local city centre for outfits for an upcoming family wedding. We'd had a lovely day and were walking to the bus stop to catch the bus back to the park and ride car park. A girl about my age walked past on her mobile phone and said to who ever she was talking to "have you heard what's happened in America?". My mum and I looked at each other and remarked that we wondered what might have happened.

About half an hour later we got back to the car and had radio one on. Chris Moyles kept saying in between songs that they're just playing music as a sign of respect. By this point me and mum were really desperate to know what had happened. A little later in our car journey Chris Moyles said the twin towers had collapsed. I had never heard of them at this point in my life so my mum explained and for the rest of the journey we were talking about what on earth must have happened. Was it an earth quake? Surely they would have said so?

It wasn't until we got home and put on the TV and saw the images of the planes striking the towers that we had our answer. Of course we could never have in a million years thought that might be the reason why they'd have collapsed!

A truly shocking moment in history.

LST · 10/09/2021 18:30

I was 11. 1st year of secondary school. We were in a citizenship class and the teacher rolled a TV in. We watched the second plane hit. I have the same feeling everytime I watch the footage now.

TheVolturi · 10/09/2021 18:40

At work and boss mentioned there was something happening on the radio. We shut shop and listened to it until we went home early and put the TV on and saw those awful scenes.

escapeyou · 10/09/2021 19:22

I’d had an accident on holiday in Italy. I had just been admitted and watched it on TV. Didn’t understand a word but understood what happened clearly.

OffTheShelfElf · 10/09/2021 19:38

It's fascinating reading such different recollections.

I was 28 and was shopping in Oxford (skiving from working on my doctorate and nervous of bumping into my course director who was pretty fierce about such things). I was trying on a leather jacket in a shop, and there was a little TV switched on in the corner which the two staff were watching. It was talking about a plane crashing into one of the twin towers. Then as I watched, it was announced that another plane had crashed into the other tower. That was the moment when I realised that something monumentally awful was happening. I remember the two men who worked in the shop laughing at the news. And I remember being surprised they laughed because I suspected that whatever terrorist atrocity was taking place could lead to a backlash against people of Islamic faith. (Both men looked as though they were of Pakistani heritage, so I made an assumption that they were Muslim.)

It felt surreal. I wandered around in Oxford for a while, and bumped into my best friend. We talked about what we'd heard. She's done research in the area of such 'flashbulb memories', but I don't think she yet knew that this would be such an event...

CBB2021 · 10/09/2021 19:40

We had been on a family holiday in New York three weeks before. There’s pictures of us on the ferry with the towers in the background. We went to the towers as we had planned to go to the viewing platform but the queue was so long we said we would leave it. We then flew an American Airlines flight over to the west coast a few days later from New York.

When it happened I had just started secondary school and my mum had picked me up and told me what had happened. We were in complete shock as we had only been there recently.

cptartapp · 10/09/2021 19:53

On honeymoon in The Maldives. We were married four days earlier.
We sat at the beach bar drinking cocktails surrounded by crystal turquoise ocean and watched the destruction in New York on TV which seemed completely surreal.

Watchingyouwazowski · 10/09/2021 20:07

I was at work in a large office for a financial services company. We had just had a team brief and as we left the meeting room, another manager came running over exclaiming that the twin towers had collapsed. We thought she was messing around. Our offices were full of screens that usually showed the teletext style share price info. Instead, every screen was showing the events unfold. We were stunned. The second plane hit after that and we couldn’t believe it. As others are saying, the news websites were down. It didn’t seem real. I went home and watched it over and over. I honestly thought WW3 would break out. Like many others, I knew the world had changed for good that day.

IsFuzzyBeagMise · 10/09/2021 20:31

We had got married the previous month and were just beginning married life in our sparsely-furnished house. My DH sent me a text to say what happened. I didn't realise what it really meant until I watched the footage on television later on in my parents' house. I found it hard to go to sleep that night with the images in my mind. It seemed as if the world had turned upside down and would never be the same again.

TheSilveryPussycat · 10/09/2021 20:45

DD, then aged 10, arrived back from school unexpectedly, saying something had happened in America. So we put the telly on. First plane had hit.

Meanwhile, someone doing market research knocked at the door, and DD was just the right subject for it. So she and the researcher sat in another room, and she answered the question - how many chocolate bars can you name? It was a long answer.

Somehow this made everything more surreal. Researcher came and watched for a bit. We all just stared...

NothingIsWrong · 10/09/2021 20:50

2 weeks into my first graduate job in London. In a structural engineering consultancy, some people I worked with knew the engineer who designed them. I was told it was serious when the senior partner allowed us to have the TV on, it didn't have a licence and was strictly for training DVD's only.

We then got sent home and I walked for hours as the tubes and the buses weren't running or completely full and I had no idea how to get from central London to home. My then boyfriend (now DH) hadn't got round to getting a mobile phone at that point so I just had to go home eventually and wait for him to appear. Very surreal. There were hundreds of people just walking home and it was so quiet

Onelifeonly · 10/09/2021 20:51

I was at work and a colleague told me a plane had hit the World Trade Centre. That evening we were meant to be going for drinks with some neighbours but we agreed we were too shocked to do that. I went to the gym and just watched mesmorised the towers falling repeatedly on the large tv screen they had then. It all felt very weird.

HelloDaisy · 10/09/2021 20:56

I was at work in a day hospital for early onset dementia. We were watching the news on tv for discussion group when it came on.

The patients were all very distressed and could not work out watch they were watching and kept remembering when WW2 broke out.

It made the situation much harder as some of them were very distressed..

Emmelina · 10/09/2021 21:02

At my summer job, about to head back to university. I was sat in my car eating lunch when news of the first plane broke on the radio, then live panic when the second hit. We then listened to the news on the managers little radio she kept in her office for the football.

SingleHandSue · 10/09/2021 21:25

DS1 was 6 weeks old. I’d met up with my SIL in town, we had tea and cake in a cafe.

As the weather was so nice I decided to walk over to my mum’s house as I knew she finished work at 3pm. I remember walking in and shouting “hello! Only me” as she wasn’t expecting me. She shouted back “Oh God you need to watch this!” I had no clue what she was watching or talking about.

We were both just stood watching in horror.

After that I became a little bit too obsessed with 24hour news while up doing night feeds.

Pinotpleasure · 10/09/2021 21:34

I remember that day so vividly and with such clarity. We were living in the New York metro area in a New Jersey commuter suburb, 18 miles west of Manhatten. Many, many people in our township took the NJ Transit trains to ‘the City’ to work, lots of them downtown in the Wall St financial district and the WTC. That morning I took my son to school (the school day begins earlier than in the UK) and the sky was brilliantly blue.

My husband’s office was in Times Square where he worked for the Reuters news agency (now Thomson Reuters) but that morning he had to meet clients for Goldman Sachs at the World Trade Center and they were all going to the Reuters main technical centre in Long Island.

I was getting ready to go the the local Newcomer’s Club meeting as I was the membership secretary and was in the shower when the phone rang. It was my husband. He was in a limo with his clients and he said “Quick, turn the TV on....the car radio isn’t working and we can see a lot of smoke coming out of the World Trade Center...can you find out what’s going on”?

The radio (station WOR 710AM) was on in the bedroom and the radio jock said ‘we’re getting reports that a plane has crashed into one of the twin towers...it’s probably one of those small planes which take tourists on leisure flights around the city’...then another guy at the station said...’we’re getting reports from our chopper that there is a big hole in the building...that was no small plane’. (Helicopters fly around the city and major highways to report on traffic and to get to the scene of breaking news quickly). I turned on the small TV in our bedroom and was shocked to see the size of the hole. I told my husband and he terminated the call.

The radio jock was also an amateur pilot and said “on such a clear day I know that a pilot can see the twin towers from 50 miles away. This can’t possibly be an air traffic control mistake, it sounds like it could be something deliberate’. Then someone on the radio or TV - I had both turned on - said that it was thought to be a Boeing 767. I’ve been a passenger on those planes and was aware of just how large they are.

I went down to the kitchen to get the car keys and put the radio on for a few seconds....to hear the radio jock cry out in alarm as the second plane hit the South tower. I remember driving in a state of shock to my meeting - which was promptly cancelled but some of the women whom had arrived had no idea what had been happening. One woman fainted when she heard as her husband was working at the WTC and she couldn’t get in touch with him. Someone had put a TV on and we saw the first tower collapse.

I drove home but I was shaking. The radio was reporting that air space was closed, all flights were being grounded and international flights not allowed into the US, but that 8 flights seemed to be missing as they were not responding to air traffic control. Our cell phones weren’t working but our landline was; there was a message on our answerphone from the house parent at my daughter’s boarding school in England (we relocated from the Far East to the US when she was 16 so she went to boarding school for sixth form). My daughter was hysterical as she thought her dad had been killed (a few weeks earlier she had gone up to the viewing gallery on the roof on one of the towers with her dad). Also messages from friends in Singapore and France. Then I put the TV on to see the North tower fall.

I then had a call from the school to collect my son as they were closing. I walked with a neighbour whose husband worked for the British firm ‘Eurobrokers’ on the 84th floor of the South tower and she was worried as she hadn’t heard from him. My son said that all the kids thought that the teachers just wanted to watch TV. Many children had parents working in the city of course. By the time I got home we had lost a number of TV channels as they were transmitted from the huge antennas on the roof of the WTC.

The trains had pretty much stopped. My husband called and had seen one of the towers collapse. The Goldman Sachs guys were trying to get to their Disaster Recovery Centre and my spouse was trying to walk across the Brooklyn Bridge to get back to his office in Times Square against the hordes of people escaping the city. Eventually he made it back to the office and all the huge screens in Times Square were showing the events unfold in New York, Washington DC and Pennsylvania. He was told that his office (a tower block, 3 Times Square which also had BBC TV studios) was being evacuated as it and the area was considered a potential terrorist target.

Meanwhile I was just glued to the TV. Manhatten was shut down, the mass transit was suspended into and out of the city and my husband was trying to find a way to get across the Hudson River. He didn’t get home until about 8.30pm. I remember President Bush addressing the nation. I took our dog for a walk at 10pm and the police had put chalk marks on the tyres of the few cars left at the train station, 2 blocks from our house. One train arrived and one person got off. He was discombobulated and asked me where the Short Hills Mall was it was the only place he could think of to get his wife to pick him up. It was at the far end of town, not walkable from the station, so we went back to my house and I drove him there.

Sleep was impossible. By the next morning there were posters up in our neighbourhood with photos of people who were missing. I bought a copy of the New York Times (and still have it, a piece of history). Collections were being made in our town for T shirts, food and drinks for the rescue crews and for dog food for the cadaver dogs. My husband volunteered to spend a day downtown handing out drinks etc. but there was very little for him to do as it was a recovery effort and not a rescue one.

He discovered that his boss was sick on 9/11 and was supposed to have gone to the Risk Waters conference at the Windows on the World restaurant floors (102nd and 103rd). He sent a guy - who had the same name - to replace him at the conference. He perished.

My neighbour who worked for Eurobrokers was aware that something had happened in the North tower, but wasn’t sure what was going on. The fire alarms went off on his floor (84th of South tower) and he didn’t feel comfortable and decided to leave. It took him well over an hour to get down the stairs....meanwhile an announcement came over the tannoy that it was a false alarm and that personnel could return to their desks. He said that almost all the Japanese colleagues from his floor returned upstairs. He chose not to. It turned out that the terrorist piloting the second plane ‘strafed’ (tilted) the wings to create more impact and the 84th floor was hit. The woman at the Newcomer’s Club meeting eventually heard that her (British) husband survived. Sadly in the next town over a British guy working at the WTC - I think his name was Ian Thompson or Thomson - perished.

Another British expat family resident in neighbouring Chatham, New Jersey, also suffered a personal tragedy. The husband (sorry I’ve forgotten his name) was killed at the WTC. The wife and young children discovered that they would have to be deported back to the UK; they had filed for Green Cards but were still awaiting approval and were therefore still on visas. The visas are terminated when the main visa holder dies. The wife and children wanted to stay in the US; they were very involved with the Jehovah’s Witnesses and the congregation were very supportive; they arranged meetings with the State Senator and other government officials and were given special dispensation to remain in the USA.

For many weeks afterwards the single bell would ring at the Roman Catholic Church 2 blocks behind my house. There were dozens of funeral and memorial services.....empty coffins as there were few intact bodies. The posters on the lamp posts and telegraph poles became tatty. If I was driving on the Interstate 78 near Newark airport or to go to IKEA I kept looking for the twin towers which were no longer there.....but for months afterwards there was smoke rising from the rubble.

I also remember the twin blue laser lights pointing into the sky every 9/11 afterwards. Our town put up plaques at Millburn and Short Hills train stations (as did all the towns on the train lines) with the names of the deceased, for ‘those that rode the rails that morning and did not return’ (or very similar words). Also a tree. Every 9/11 an American flag is placed next to the flag, with flowers, candles and a small pile of stones for the Jewish dead.

SquirryTheSquirrel · 10/09/2021 21:38

I was at home. I used to work weekends and have a couple of days off in the week. I didn't used to have the TV on so I didn't find out about it until a couple of hours after it had happened - when I fired up the modem and logged onto MSN chat, and everyone was talking about it, at which point I switched the TV on.

Iimaginethiswillbefun · 10/09/2021 21:50

I was at my office in London. Rumours started flying. Tried to get on internet it was down.

I was the office manager, staff started panicking, I closed the office and told everyone to go home immediately. There was a rumours that someone was going to fly into Canary Wharf??

I sat on the train home everyone was in complete silence. The train was rammed. My ex dick of a husband wouldn’t leave the pub. I left him there. Pretty much decided that day I wanted a divorce.

JorisBonson · 10/09/2021 21:51

Proper shivers reading some of these.

DH and I watched the ITV tonight that was on earlier this week. It still doesn't even look real.

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