I'm sure they do.
It doesn't mean I should express my opinion or that they shouldn't express theirs though.
We are allowed to have different opinions.
The problem for me is when we don't discuss how different people view the events of 9/11.
9/11 came about precisely because of the US (and others) intervention in other countries and using them for various proxy wars. You can't talk about US international policy and international islamic terrorism without acknowledging the lack of cultural sensitivity and understanding of how actions would be understood and affect people around the world.
I remember in the 90s doing media and there being the comment about how 1 white western life was worth more than 100s if Africans or Asians in terms of how it was reported. Its partly due to distance and relevance but also part of a dehumanising process and a deliberate political strategy of trying to sanitise certain actions. As i say the term 'collateral damage'.
This isn't a new feeling for me. I was at home watching neighbours whilst talking to friends on a forum and on ICQ (i think it was!) as it happened, and that was my feeling even then. It remains unchanged.
I remember Bush's first speech and how it rankalled with me as I found it so tremendously hypocritical and knew that it would almost certainly result in many deaths of civilians elsewhere.
20 years on, i find watching footage of 9/11 utterly heartbreaking still. I do feel for people caught up in it, precisely because I've lived through that moment of utter terror on the streets of where I lived.
I just happened to think then as i do now that, guns and bombs wont solve this. Its understanding how different people have these very different world views born of their own personal life experience and knowledge and trying to find a war forward despite of that.
In the 20 years since, i think we've firmly gone backwards with that, with a fracturing world where difference of opinion are shunned and people self select into groups that only agree with each other.
I can't change how i felt then or now. Telling me I'm wrong/insensitive or whatever doesn't change it either. It just tells me that my life experience isnt important and my views shouldn't be listened to. It compounds the tension and alienation.
Imagine that magnified in other ways across the world.