Hi a while back under a different name I spoke about my son coming out as gay. And that he was meeting people. The only thing was that he was meeting older men. Late 30s + I think I can't 100% remember but ds is 18. I spoke to him several times about meeting older people are that he was vulnerable due to his age and that he had just come out. A few days ago ds told me he had been raped by the man he kept going to see. He never used the word rape but he described it. It happend several months back. He does not want to go to the police. He tells me he's having nightmares about it. And it's effecting hom quite badly. He's wants to work for the police and he's scared if he gos for any help the police might someone find out what happend and he won't be able to work for them. Which he has his heart set on.
At the moment he's emailing the samaritains. But I don't know how I can help him. He's so depressed and upset I want to take it all away for him but I can't.