Also have posted in legal thank you. Have been with P for 14 years not married.
We have one dc together.
We are both on mortgage and title deeds of house. We are tenants in common I believe, as we changed that so that if anything happened to either of us that half of house would go automatically to DC.
I always worked full time until had DC then went part time as he was high earner. I have stayed PT to accommodate his working pattern which is really unsociable hours.
He's always paid all bills but I've always provided extras holidays bought all clothes, clubs etc for DC as well as most of food.
He won't move, and to be honest I'm happy to go. It's becoming unbearable due to emotional and verbal abuse etc.
House is valued approx 400,000
We owe 100,000 on mortgage
He paid initial 50,000 deposit but this was not ring fenced etc. I furnished the house.
He wants to buy me out, am I right in thinking I would be entitled to half of equity approx 150,000
He's basically saying he'll give me 50 grand and I should be grateful as he's paid the mortgage all these years. I said I'd work out a childcare bill for every hour he was away for weeks on end end whilst I raised out dc over 10 years as my earning power was stripped!!
I will see solicitor, but I'm not too well at moment and wondered if anyone had advice?
Huge thanks