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Do you have a That was Close moment?

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Daleksatemyshed · 05/05/2021 18:58

Local news had a gas explosion in a house, terrifying footage of part of the house going up like a rocket, several people were hurt and the house is a complete wreck. Some years ago my DM (who was elderly with Dementia) turned on a couple of burners on the cooker but didn't light them, I arrived pre work to drop something off to a house reeking of gas!
I got the house aired out and had a Gas fitter cut off the supply.
Watching the news brought home how close my DM was to disaster and probably serious injury. I still feel guilty I didn't sort this before hand.
Anyone else care to sooth my guilt?

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GrandmasterGlitchsMoustache · 06/05/2021 19:09

Two for me involving children and cars .

I was driving slowly on a busy road at school pick up time. Children from a local primary were walking home and also catching buses. I saw a kid around 7 yrs old walking ahead of me and for some reason I just thought "you're going to do something stupid" even though he was walking normally and there were lots of other kids around. I started slowing the car down even more while keeping an eye on him and managed to emergency brake just as he dashed out in front of me to catch a bus on the other side of the road. I so nearly hit him, I was really shaken afterwards.

Then several years later my toddler managed to escape out of the garden. I was distracted by the older DC inside and was checking the toddler wasn't climbing on the garden table then I suddenly realised I couldn't see him anywhere and went to check. He'd escaped through the side gate (the lock had stopped working) and I found him being held by a random cyclist who had seen him about to wander into the busy road. Lots of tears and heart stopping at the time and I still shudder years later. I can only think we were saved by some good karma earned from the earlier near miss.

garlictwist · 06/05/2021 19:15

I was in Nice the night of the terror attack a few years ago. We had planned to go out to the town centre but had cycled a long way to get there and were knackered so stayed in.

mineofuselessinformation · 06/05/2021 19:21

Nearly running over a kid who ran out from the front of a minibus they had been dropped off by. It was still parked and I was driving slowly (thank God!) around it.
Being given an electric shock when I went to turn in a lamp in a villa we had rented for a holiday years back. I was lucky it wasn't a higher current, or I would have been killed.
Dc1 jumping into the deep end of a pool when they were little (I have recently told this story on another thread.) Again, happened long ago, but it still re-plays like a video in my head when I think of it.

PotterHead1985 · 06/05/2021 20:04

I have 3. All involve feckin cars!

1, driving to college in the overtaking lane. Suddenly this massive concrete boulder is flying towards my windscreen. I had nowhere to go in the traffic. Luckily it missed by inches.

2, driving to college again. Fast lane of a 3 lane plus merge lane motorway. Doing 70. Tyre blew out. Managed to safely navigate to hard shoulder.

3, driving to work. Outside lane of a 3 lane. Just gone through lights (green) at 45. Woman all in black walked across 3 lanes. Braked and swerved. Still hit her. Shattered windscreen, her umbrella embedded. Nerve damaged to finger from glass lacerations for me and ptsd. She got a broken leg. Surprisingly she didn't come off worse.

MaitreKarlsson · 06/05/2021 20:06

@Atmywitsend29 Shock Did you report him? What a bastatd

Spaghettio · 06/05/2021 21:05

I've had two.

  1. Driving to Uni (in Australia) and following a lorry with a crane on the back. Don't know why, but I slowed down and didn't flow the lorry as closely as was normal. Lucky, as the crane was too high and hit the overpass as it went under. Concrete chunks crumbled off the bridge and fell all over the motorway (and would have landed on my car).
  1. DS and I lived in a terraced house with a tiny front yard and picket fence. As I turned to lock the front door, he (aged about 2) bolted through the gate and ran between two parked cars. Thankfully he tripped on the curb and fell. His head was about an inch from the rear wheels of a passing car - and there's no way they would have seen him or stopped in time.
HunterAngel · 06/05/2021 21:34

On holiday in Malta with my parents we took a ferry trip to a nearby island. We were walking off the ferry when the ramp started to rise. As I was slightly ahead of my parents I managed to jump off the ramp on to the dock and they backed up. One woman was caught and almost fell in the harbour. Luckily someone caught her by the leg and managed to haul her up. The Brits turned the air blue yelling at the crew who realised their mistake and hastily lowered the ramp again!

Bigoldmachine · 06/05/2021 21:57

Not me but my auntie was parked waiting to pick a friend up, and spotted a bearded man crouched down at the back of her car in the wing mirror. Luckily she had a massive German Shepherd in the car who obviously noticed the man too and started a right racket barking. He ran off. This was in Yorkshire in the 70s at the height of the Yorkshire ripper’s murders.

I had one the other day. Driving down a 60mph busy single carriageway. Overtaking tractor, thought I had plenty of room before oncoming car got to me. I was wrong, and soon realised it was coming way faster than I thought and I couldn’t get the power to go much faster. Everything went slow motion and I thought very calmly “I’m going to crash”. And I saw in my mind the head on impact and the glass shattering everywhere - but somehow I squeezed through the gap between the tractor and the oncoming car, going 60mph, it must have been centimetres in it. It honestly felt like the world shifted and somehow gave me an extra bit of room where there wouldn’t have been any. Had 9 month old DS and 4 year old DD in the back (who was merrily still singing along to the radio).

The rest of my journey was me imagining all other possible endings to that scenario - the police ringing DH to tell him we’d all been in a huge crash, me dying and DH having to bring up the kids alone, the kids being in intensive care.... it really shook me up for the whole day but I felt so lucky, like I’d been given another chance.

I do now believe op as you say if it’s not your time it’s not your time.

NeverDropYourMoonCup · 06/05/2021 22:01

Skivving off one morning, I went shopping with my wages from my Saturday job and decided to go into school for the afternoon. As I was stingy with my wages, I decided to walk the long road past a building with a car park surrounded by a half height brick wall. Heard a revving noise and the wall exploded with a car emerging through it about six inches from me. I stepped around it, muttered 'smashing' and continued walking to school. Turned out that the man inside (it made the local rag without my presence being noted) that when the people at the bus stop the other side ran over, he was somebody who had just found out he was being prosecuted for domestic violence and had decided to go out in a blaze of glory by driving into the wall whilst several gallons of petrol were beside him on the front passenger seat. He hadn't allowed for the wall being about 80 years old and collapsing, rather than providing what he needed for a huge explosion.

School Leavers' Party on the Marchioness on a Saturday evening. For some reason, I felt scared on the lower deck where the music was and as it began a wide, sweeping turn, I decided Stuff This, This Feels Wrong and sat upstairs where I could see what was going on (and be first off the thing when it docked) for the rest of the evening. The following weekend, I woke up to hear it had sunk and later than it had been hit at what sounded exactly like the moment I had decided a week ago that wasn't safe.

Age 16, riding pillion on the boyfriend's Dad's moped. He stopped at a roundabout, knowing with the two of us, he didn't have enough oomph to pull out in front of cars going straight across, West to East. The woman behind us assumed his movement wasn't him putting his foot down, it was him about to pull away, so floored her accelerator so she could make it across as well. I flew up and forwards and landed with my feet on the roundabout's kerb and, as the back of my head hit the tarmac, I looked up to see the underside of the car come to a halt over me. Fortunately, we were just along the road from a hospital and an ambulance crew were approaching the roundabout as it all happened, so within seconds, they were there as I was kicking, screaming and generally losing my shit under there. They stayed with me at the hospital for hours as I wasn't actually badly hurt but couldn't stop shaking (I was about 7 stone wringing wet, so probably looked like I was even younger) and once I calmed down, admitted that it was so close as I landed, they had thought they were about to watch me literally have my head taken off.

Probably 85% of all trips in cars with boyfriends in my 20s were dicing with death as they were arseholes, would hide having been drinking/smoking weed/etc and because I did neither, I didn't have a clue.

I had a fridge freezer go bang and send out great clouds of smoke whilst it was red hot at the back. One of the ones that were later blamed for several fires. I was walking past the kitchen as it went, so quickly opened the electricity cupboard door and cut everything off. The company refused to accept there was an issue as it was out of warranty. fucking Beko

Ex's wiring skills were so 'bad' despite working in health and safety , an electrician repaired the live wires touching metal backplates and switches for free. Coincidentally, he'd known I had free life insurance and a massive Accidental Death in Service add on through my job. He didn't know I'd nominated a Trust Fund for the children on advice from the staff member responsible for enrolling me - the staff member said he would refuse to take nominations for unmarried partners where there were children. I called the electrician not because of an actual fault, but because I thought I could hear and smell something was wrong somewhere.

Moved into a house where the apprentice must have wired the kitchen after the sparks had gone home on a Friday afternoon. The cooker wire was a standard domestic cable and pinned underneath the element, where it melted. Once everything was taken out, the hardwiring hadn't been tightened, so the domestic rated cable was just poked into the slots and the dedicated breaker wasn't connected. The only thing that tripped was the entire fuse box, not the dedicated one. I was very glad of the original electrician fitting the consumer unit and the wiring regulations that meant there was still one last point after three separate points had failed due to incompetence. Where the cable had melted through, had that final layer of protection failed or been fitted by the twat that did the last bit, it would have been sending electricity directly through the metal oven body.

And one last one. I lived in a top floor flat on the top of a hill almost overlooking a small airfield used by private jets and the like. I wasn't keen on this after several years, as more and more seemed to fly directly over the block instead of using the official route of across woodland/a rural area nearby (in flight terms). One Sunday, we were sitting eating a late lunch with the balcony doors open and there was a really loud plane that I could tell was incredibly low - I shot out onto the balcony to see into the cockpit of a private jet go past just above the roof (the chimney pots were shattered and fell into the hearth). It sounded 'wrong' so I watched as it continued on its way. It finally went out of sight, so I turned to go inside, back to my food and looked out of the window to see a huge plume of black smoke in the distance. The jet has crashed into some houses near the airfield. I cringed every time a plane flew over after that and finally moved to where I am - where no planes are allowed due to nearby high rise buildings.

I figure that if something dramatically awful is going to happen, it will and there is nothing anybody can do about it. But the little voice that says 'this isn't right' needs to be listened to.

TooCloseACall · 07/05/2021 03:37

NC for this.

There's been a few but the one that gives me nightmares, now that I'm old enough to understand the implications, happened when I was 14. A man tried to abduct me on a quiet road.

He stopped at traffic lights as I walked past, I heard him calling over to me asking for directions and when I turned around he'd got out and walked around to the back of the van and I walked back towards him, he grabbed me and began to opened the back door just as another car came into view further along the road. He loosened his grip when he saw it and I managed to pull away from him. As I backed away, too scared to turn my back on him, the other car pulled up behind him and he starts shouting at me like he was my Dad "I'm not telling you again, you better get in right now" type of thing. At that point I turned and ran for dear life all the way home.

I now think it's possible that this man may be a very well known convicted serial killer/sex offender who is in prison. I have so much regret now that I didn't tell my parents at the time and it wasn't reported to the police.

FictionalCharacter · 07/05/2021 14:13

@SavannahLands Similar happened to me with a huge thick sheet of ice flying off a lorry in front of the on the motorway. It was heading for my windscreen and I thought I was about to die. There was nowhere to swerve to and I couldn’t brake either, because the motorway was crammed with fast traffic. Rush hour M11.

I braced myself and gripped the wheel, because all that was going through my mind was that I had to keep the car going straight. I figured in that second that I was done for anyway, but if I veered into another lane the resulting pile up would be worse. I was quite calm.

It missed my car by inches, crashing onto the road just between my lane and the next.

Thinking about it I’ve had a few near misses. I dare not count in case I’m up to 9!

CHiSOCG · 07/05/2021 14:15

Another gas one - we moved into our new home and it smelled really strongly of gas. Been closed for about 2 weeks - called out a gas man who condemned the oven the guy who lived their had connected the oven himself and was living with a slow gas leak.

Because the house had been closed it had built up! Thankfully we didn’t switch anything on!

FictionalCharacter · 07/05/2021 14:16

@TooCloseACall
That is terrifying. Reminds me that a lot of women had near misses with Peter Sutcliffe, the Yorkshire Ripper, only realising when his photograph hit the news.

AngeloMysterioso · 07/05/2021 14:42

I had a bag with some heavy books in precariously placed on a shelf in one of the cupboards in our bedroom. Baby DS had just started opening cupboard doors and we hadn’t got round to childproofing yet... he opened the door, the bag fell out and landed next to him on the floor. If it had landed on him it could easily have broken his neck.

ilovetea14 · 07/05/2021 15:47

My ds was 8 months old in bed we had a baby monitor with camera, he had been asleep a few hrs I had a strange feeling so looked at the monitor there he was with blanket over his face arms and legs going crazy trying to pull it off his face. I never moved so fast my heart was gone I couldn't stop crying as I held him. My dd was 6 months I had her sitting in an activity center with her new coat zipped up as put her out the back with her brother and cousin as it was a lovely day out. I walked back in to get something and my niece says what's wrong with DD face I look and she can't breath her face was nearly blue the new coat was too tight. If my niece didn't say anything I dred to think what could have happened. There both 10 and 5 now. I often think about it and get upset.

lonel · 07/05/2021 19:56

This thread is a lesson in listening to your instincts that I still need to learn! I was walking along the street going back to work with a colleague after lunch and there was a cherry picker with a man in the basket pruning trees. We both said "that looks off balance and like it's going to fall over" but we still walked underneath it. Blush Of course it tipped over completely and just missed us. The man in the basket was very shaken and a bit bruised but not too injured luckily.

theluckiest · 07/05/2021 20:22

Just remembered another one...was out for a hike in the wilds of the Scottish Highlands.

I needed a wee so strayed off the path to find a suitable wild-wee spot. There were quite a few other hikers about so I wanted somewhere with a bit of cover.

It was quite an open spot so no trees, just lots of low-lying heather.

I wandered a bit further & found a more sheltered bit down a dip with a small tree. So had a quick wee then turned around and realised there was a 50 ft drop right behind me. Started to lose balance & managed to grab a branch to regain my balance & haul myself up again.

That would have been a really embarrassing story to tell the mountain rescue...

Kezzie200 · 07/05/2021 20:38

I choaked on lamb. It was completely stuck. Husband hit me hard on back twice, nothing. I literally saw my life going in front of my eyes as I couldn't breathe.

He did the heindlich manoeuvre and it worked. I was in pieces. Whenever I think of it, I think of how close we all are, always, from death.

Scarby9 · 07/05/2021 20:53

I came off the road on black ice on a dark January night in the middle of nowhere.

I knew I was going to die as the car fell, but it just came to rest after what semed like minutes. My life really did flash past in slowmotion during the fall.

I realised I was alive, and okay, got out and climbed up the bank (hands and knees - proper climbing, through brambles) to the road. As I stood up, an ambulance pulled up and the ambulance person shouted, 'Are you the accident?'

Turned out that another car had come off the road just a bit further along and they had rung for help. While we realised this, another car came round the bend and lost control and went over the edge between me and the original accident.

A couple of other cars stopped and one gave me a lift on to home.

The next morning I got a lift back to the crash site. My car was a good 10ft down an almost vertical bank from the road, parallel to the road with a dry stone wall about 6 inches from the passenger side.

It turned out that we were near a farm and the farmer had come with a tow thingy on a tractor. He pulled out all three cars.

I drove mine straight to the garage. No damage at all, and not even a scratch on the paintwork.

Over 25 years later, I still remember that night every time I drive past the spot. So, so close.

Offerdecisionneeded · 07/05/2021 21:39

A few years back, we’d just moved house and I was busy unpacking boxes upstairs in a bedroom with my then 9 month old twins. I’d shut the door (or so I thought) as they were crawling everywhere and we hadn’t yet put the stair gates up.
One of them managed to escape the room and in a split second was heading towards the stairs. I got there just as he started to roll down the top step so I threw myself in front of him in a sort of leap to cushion him. He was fine, I broke my wrist.
Still have nightmares about that.

TotalBastardBollocks · 07/05/2021 23:14

My DH and DSS were in the village where Derrick Bird went on his rampage but left one hour before he began to go walking.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/05/2021 00:02

I nearly got blown over by a helicopter. Hospital stewards had not ushered people back far enough as the air ambulance came in to land. (That more unusual than very dangerous, can you imagine the conversation in a and e?)

Fell downstairs age two

Nearly got run over as a child. Remember the green car going past so close

Been punched in the head several times

Took a corner too fast twice (poor signage on strange road, once DV was involved)

Had an implement thrown at me, I ducked otherwise I would be seriously injured. Just got a scar where it hit bone not eyes or veins.

Been in several bomb scares.

Someone left the gas on in one of the flats.

Stepped off a shelf in the sea and cold water stopped me breathing.

There but for the grace of God go I.

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 08/05/2021 04:54

Long one. When my family emigrated to Australia there was an outbreak of measles on board the ship which I got, so put in quarantine. I was 3. Woke up and walked the whole way back to the cabin, down stairs and across open decks, sea was very rough.No one was supervising the hospital. I could have fallen down stairs or overboard.(there was up roar and parents were threatening to stay over in the hospital.

ScoobySnacker · 08/05/2021 08:36

Woke up late one weekend not feeling to good. Decided to grab a cuppa and head back to bed. On the way back to bed I passed out on the stairs, fell backwards down half the stairs and knocked myself out, swallowing my tongue and stopping breathing.

DH was supposed to be out but had changed his mind and stayed home. DD 8 at the time found me blue and fitting in the hall. She called 999 while DH rolled me over and then breathed for me. I guess it wasn't my time.

LunaNorth · 08/05/2021 09:52

The birth of DS2 was a close call.

I was 37 weeks and my scar from the previous CS was hurting.

I mentioned it to my sister on the phone who had a friend over - who happened to be a midwife.

She said if my scar was hurting I should ring the hospital ASAP - so I did.

They brought me in for monitoring, found that the baby was in distress and when they opened me up (crash section) my womb was just on the point of rupturing.

I was told we were very lucky to have survived.

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