It was years ago, I wonder if the bride cared enough to still remember?
I was unexpectedly invited to a wedding of someone I was part of a mutual interest group with. Both of us, I'd say were on the fringes of the group, not particularly friends, hence my surprise.
Anyway in the days leading up to the wedding, just making conversation and pretending to be more excited about the wedding than I was, I asked what colour the bridesmaids were wearing. "Pink". In my head that meant pastel pink, although there's no sensible reason why I thought that.
Seperately, I was deliberating over what to wear. As it wasn't the kind of wedding I wanted to spend £££ on, it came down to a black and white dress or a fuchsia dress I already owned. I ruled out the black/white on because, wedding (yes inspired by another thread).
On the day I turned up in exactly the same colour as the three adult bridesmaids. It was just a coincidence, but OMG I'd specifically asked what they'd be wearing only days before.
I've hardly seen the bride since and I often wonder if this is why! Would you have been very offended?