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What's the most heartbreaking film you've watched?

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LudoBear · 22/03/2021 11:40

I've just watched Mums List. Proper sobbing watching it and I don't even have children.

Eight Below, Haachi and Marley & Me are sad too.

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winewolfhowls · 22/03/2021 17:44

Yes, the twelve days of Christine is a prime example!

Anyone said big fish yet?

Tinpotdictator · 22/03/2021 17:45

@middleager

I can't remember the name, but it's a film with Angelina Jolie, directed by Clint Eastwood telling the true story of a mother whose son goes missing and then seemingly returns.
The Changeling
winewolfhowls · 22/03/2021 17:46

I sobbed repeatedly watching the series its a sin on channel 4 recently too

TrexDrip · 22/03/2021 17:47

The Champ
Philadelphia
P.S. I Love you
Notebook
Beaches
All make me sob!

MMM2 · 22/03/2021 17:48

Beaches.
P.s. I love you.
Forrest Gump.

SilverGlitterBaubles · 22/03/2021 17:48

Beaches always gets me

titbumwillypoo · 22/03/2021 17:54

Wonder
The fundamentals of caring
Unbroken
Welcome to Marwen

All tearjerkers but uplifting as well.

DidgeDoolittle · 22/03/2021 17:55

Out of Africa. The music, the plane, Robert Redford 🥲

Also agree with Ring of Bright Water and Dumbo.

RelaisBlu · 22/03/2021 17:57

A Hungarian film called "White God".
I had to stop it at one point and cry properly for 10 minutes before I could go on

Phoebesgift · 22/03/2021 17:58

Life is Beautiful
The Boy in the striped pyjamas
Leaving Las Vegas
The Champ

PumpkinsMum18 · 22/03/2021 18:00

@Pinksmyfavoritecolour

I Daniel Blake and sorry we missed you, both so real. And the Magdalene sisters has continued to haunt me.
Agree about the Magdelene sisters 😭
AnneShirleysNewDress · 22/03/2021 18:04

Atonement 😢

Nuitsdesetoiles · 22/03/2021 18:08

Never let me go
A film based on the book by Kazuo Ishigiro... About a dystopian future where people are bred as "duplicates" from prisoners and the underclasses specifically for the purpose of having their organs harvested for the rest of society. At the end I just sat in the cinema and couldn't move. Very powerful and frightening as you do think it might actually happen.

The 3rd episode of it's a sin with Colin still has me in tears at the memory of it.

PloptheBarnOwl · 22/03/2021 18:12

Just saw that Empire of the Sun is on Iplayer. I can never watch that again- so traumatic. From my poor scarred childhood memory:
-Heartbreaking song as main theme of film
-Near the beginning, Jim (Christian Bale) gets separated from his parents in a crowd

  • Ends up in a Japanese prison camp. They get sent on a death march. The lady who has been looking after Jim, Mrs Victor, dies. Jim thinks he sees her soul going up to heaven but later finds out it was one of the nuclear bombs that was dropped on Japan.
  • There's a bit when Jim makes friends with a downed kamikaze pilot, who is barely older than him. The pilot offers him a peach, but is then shot. I can vividly remember the visual of the blood running all over the peach.
-Technically it has a happy ending because Jim is reunited with his parents at the end, but he has PTSD and is such a hollowed out husk of a boy that there's no joy from his side. This film is a PG and it's one of the most upsetting films I've ever seen!
muddyford · 22/03/2021 18:17

Marley and Me. The last bit when the dog is PTS. Much to close to home at the time.

Chooseausernamenow · 22/03/2021 18:17

@minou123

Sleepers - with Brad Pitt, Robert De Niro, Kevin Bacon, Minnie Driver and others.

Watched it years ago but too heart breaking to watch it again, even though it is an excellent film.

It was so hard hitting wasn’t it. It really upset me.
GreyHeron · 22/03/2021 18:19

Dancer in the Dark. It's a masterpiece of a film but I can never bring myself to recommend it to anyone because I was genuinely traumatised by it. It strongly affected me for weeks afterwards. No film has ever upset me so much, before or since.

Gottalovesummer · 22/03/2021 18:21

Lion

The boy in the striped pyjamas

Cried buckets at both

kerkyra · 22/03/2021 18:22

A dogs purpose. The last five minutes get me weeping,luckily in a good way.

middleager · 22/03/2021 18:26

@kerkyra

A dogs purpose. The last five minutes get me weeping,luckily in a good way.
I was in bits! I can no longer watch sad pet related films.
happytoday73 · 22/03/2021 18:28

Cold mountain...surprisingly depressing. It haunted me for days.. Possibly because didn't expect it.

Anything about the holocaust.. The pianist being particularly one I remember. Books more so though. Boy in the striped PJs didn't get under my skin though... I feel no more sorrow for that innocent child than any other killed in it..I'm not sure why people seem to connect more to him than the others that died.. And absolutely no sympathy for his parents at all...in some ways I'm not displeased commandant finally got a little understanding of what he was doing to the Jews...

I'd read marley and me on a long flight.. The film didn't upset me as much as the book which I really struggled not to make a fool of myself about.

MissBattleaxe · 22/03/2021 18:29

I watched Sophie's Choice before I was a parent and I have never forgotten it. Now that I have two kids I genuinely have nightmares about this film. Meryl Streep was extraordinarily in it.

Also, I can never watch the Green Mile, The English Patient or Philadelphia again. They're beautiful films but I just can't go through that again!

I was horrified by The Bridge to Terabithia. I was reading it with my then primary aged son and found it devastating.

AnyFucker · 22/03/2021 18:29

It’s A Sin

I swear my brain chemistry has changed forever since watching that.

Janaih · 22/03/2021 18:33

Cant believe nobody has mentioned Kes yet!

Not as traumatic as a lot of these, but News of the world on Netflix with Tom Hanks had me shedding a tear recently, girl with shit luck eventually gets a happy ending. A good Sunday afternoon film.

Didyousaysomethingdarling · 22/03/2021 18:33

The Kite Runner