My one year old DD is very exhausting at the moment and I'm wondering if there's anything I can do. She always wants what she can't have and cries and throws tantrums when I don't let her have stuff. So much so that I just end up letting her have stuff or play with stuff ( like my phone or the remote ). She literally whines all day unless she gets her way. She does not listen to no and just keeps doing stuff even when told no ( I think she does this as it gets her attention ). I don't tell her off at all and always try to explain why she can't do something and I try to distract her with other things. But once she has it in her head that she wants something, she just won't stop and she doesn't forget. When she gets upset I don't scold her but I tell her that I understand why she's frustrated and give her a cuddle. ( I understand that's what you're supposed to do, rather than invalidate their feelings or scold them for being upset / doing something wrong ). She always rips her bib off and chucks everything around and off her high chair etc too. I think it's all normal ? Can I do something different ?