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Can I have a little moment to be grateful for DS1?

46 replies

DailyPotion · 20/12/2020 14:52

In common with an awful lot if people, DS1 has had a rotten year.

The first lockdown started the day he was supposed to go to the pub for his 18th birthday.

At that point he was well progressed in the selection process for a job he set his heart on when he was 11yo, his whole school career was based around meeting the criteria and, not being naturally academic, he had to work incredibly hard for it. Then they cancelled all recruitment.

He'd been working at McDonalds as a temporary measure while the other thing went on, then he was furloughed.

Signed up as an NHS volunteer. Did that ever happen, he never heard anything?

Was first to volunteer to go back when McDonalds reopened but has done two periods of isolation since, without complaint or pay!

With most of his friends away at uni, he's had little social life, he'd expected to visit and them to come home. They'd planned a number of festivals through the summer etc, all cancelled. He's hardly seen anyone outside of work.

DH, his Dad, was diagnosed with cancer in the middle of it all.

He's followed all the rules, kept in touch with his grandparents, taking grandma out for a walk when it was allowed.

Kept cheerful throughout and developed quite a repertoire of family meals and baking for us all.

Today he's been given a selection pack as a Christmas present at work and he is chuffed to bits. Genuinely really thrilled to get a small gift from someone who "didn't have to".

I cried Smile

OP posts:
Cherry321 · 20/12/2020 14:55

He’s sounds lovely. Smile

SinkGirl · 20/12/2020 14:56

He’s brilliant OP and clearly you’ve done a wonderful job. I hope next year is better for him Flowers

user1471519931 · 20/12/2020 14:57

💓

DartmoorDoughnut · 20/12/2020 14:58

What a lovely man you’ve raised Flowers

bluebellation · 20/12/2020 14:58

Well done OP, be proud of your lovely boy. I'm sure he'll make a success of his life with that attitude.

CodenameVillanelle · 20/12/2020 14:58

He sounds like a smasher Star

JazzyGeoff · 20/12/2020 14:59

He sounds fab, I can see why you're so proud of him. Well done Smile

NoGoodPunsLeft · 20/12/2020 15:00

Aw, he sounds fab Xmas Smile

Backbee · 20/12/2020 15:00

He sounds wonderful, and to look for another job despite being dissapointed at his dream job being taken off of the table shows really admiral qualities. It is really crap at the moment, but it sounds like he is equipped with a lot of the skills and qualities to open a lot of doors and opportunities when this is 'over'. Enjoy your Christmas.

louisejxxx · 20/12/2020 15:00

Well done to him! He sounds like a lovely young man - you should be proud of him, and he should also be proud of himself.

Side note - my dh works in a frozen food distribution warehouse so has worked throughout, classed as a keyworker etc, today in the post he got a €20 Amazon gift voucher from his employer. I, like you, cried! Sometimes it’s just nice to know you’ve been noticed isn’t it.

Gooseygoosey12345 · 20/12/2020 15:03

Well he sounds like a wonderful young man. What an absolutely brilliant job you've done of raising him and he's done of choosing to see the best of everything. I wish there were more people like this around!

Witchend · 20/12/2020 15:09

That's lovely. He sounds like he's got so much going for him.
Tell him we all think he's fabulous!

lipsticklovley · 20/12/2020 15:09

He sounds like a diamond.
You should be very proud, bless you both x

Twinpeaksdancingman · 20/12/2020 15:10

He sounds lovely ❤️

mollscroll · 20/12/2020 15:11

He sounds great. Well done that young man.

UglyHoose · 20/12/2020 15:12

He sounds lovely, well done for raising such a lovely young man. Be proud of yourself and of him Flowers

bloodywhitecat · 20/12/2020 15:14

What a lovely young man Star. I wish you all well and many more happy Christmases.

Lovemylittlebear · 20/12/2020 15:14

Oh I hope my boys grow up to be like your son - well done OP, such a lovely read. You must be so proud of him x

Dinosauraddict · 20/12/2020 15:17

Well done to him. I wonder if you shared what his career ambitions are/were some of us could help with ideas of how to make that happen in some way despite recruitment freezes? Sounds like this is the sort of person we'd all want to help excel!

Neolara · 20/12/2020 15:18

Sounds like you have grown a very resilient young man. Well done to you and him.

Inastatus · 20/12/2020 15:21

Well you just made me cry! What a lovely boy you have. You must be v proud OP!

MsIreneWinters · 20/12/2020 15:28

That's really lovely - he sounds like a sweetheart.

catsareme14 · 20/12/2020 15:32

He sounds lovely ! Be proud of the man he has become. Wishing him all the best for 2021

Pandabuzz · 20/12/2020 15:35

He sounds lovely and it takes good parents to raise a son like him so well done you

Xerochrysum · 20/12/2020 15:36

Such a wonderful person. He has bright future ahead of him. You should be very proud to raise a person like that. All the best for your ds. And thank you for sharing lovely story.

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