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Can I have a little moment to be grateful for DS1?

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DailyPotion · 20/12/2020 14:52

In common with an awful lot if people, DS1 has had a rotten year.

The first lockdown started the day he was supposed to go to the pub for his 18th birthday.

At that point he was well progressed in the selection process for a job he set his heart on when he was 11yo, his whole school career was based around meeting the criteria and, not being naturally academic, he had to work incredibly hard for it. Then they cancelled all recruitment.

He'd been working at McDonalds as a temporary measure while the other thing went on, then he was furloughed.

Signed up as an NHS volunteer. Did that ever happen, he never heard anything?

Was first to volunteer to go back when McDonalds reopened but has done two periods of isolation since, without complaint or pay!

With most of his friends away at uni, he's had little social life, he'd expected to visit and them to come home. They'd planned a number of festivals through the summer etc, all cancelled. He's hardly seen anyone outside of work.

DH, his Dad, was diagnosed with cancer in the middle of it all.

He's followed all the rules, kept in touch with his grandparents, taking grandma out for a walk when it was allowed.

Kept cheerful throughout and developed quite a repertoire of family meals and baking for us all.

Today he's been given a selection pack as a Christmas present at work and he is chuffed to bits. Genuinely really thrilled to get a small gift from someone who "didn't have to".

I cried Smile

OP posts:
omg35 · 20/12/2020 15:41

You should both be proud. I'm sorry he's had a rough year, well we all have, but sounds like some extra stuff has made his harder. Hope you have a lovely Christmas with him and that next year is so much brighter for him

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 20/12/2020 15:42

He sounds like a darling. His strength and resilience will stand him in good stead his whole life. You must be so proud of him.

HugoPhurst · 20/12/2020 15:43

He sounds a lovely young man and a real credit to you and your DH. I wish you all the very best Xmas possible xx

vanitythynameisnotwoman · 20/12/2020 15:44

What a star he is OP - I am sure he will continue to make you proud and I hope your DH is cured and you all have a wonderful Christmas Flowers

lofthouse · 20/12/2020 15:44

What a lovely guy. What area is he interested in - maybe some of us could help ?

Bloodybridget · 20/12/2020 15:44

Your DS must be a real smasher! Congratulations on having such a great son, and I hope he eventually gets to do everything he dreams of.

Nuffaluff · 20/12/2020 15:45

He sounds brilliant. I hope my two turn out like that.

Doidontimmm · 20/12/2020 15:45

Thats made me cry, what a wonderful young man!

Diverseduvet · 20/12/2020 15:46

What a motivated guy. Here's hoping he gets all the good things he deserves in 2021.

loumumise · 20/12/2020 15:52

He sounds like a real credit to you.

Rayshine13 · 20/12/2020 16:11

You have raised a wonderful young man. Well done to you OP. We all need something like this often.

TurquoiseDragon · 20/12/2020 17:08

He sounds lovely, I'm sure you're proud. Thanks

DailyPotion · 21/12/2020 09:12

Aw, thanks everyone.

The career thing could still happen. They usually recruit annually, so there's time for him yet and meantime, he seems to be enjoying climbing the ladder at McDonalds, with a possibility of a degree apprenticeship. Have to say, they've been very decent employers through all this, things could be worse.

OP posts:
ssd · 21/12/2020 09:13

Fab @DailyPotion

You have a good boy there

UntilYourNextHairBrainedScheme · 21/12/2020 09:18

That is lovely DailyPotion you're absolutely right to be proud of and grateful for such a lovely son.

I'm proud of my 13 and 9 year old boys today because they both voluntarily showered, unprompted, before I even got up (I woke to the sound of the shower running and the 9 year old singing "If you love me let me go, back to that bar in Tokyo, where the demons from my past leave me in peace!" at full pelt) Xmas GrinXmas ShockXmas Grin

NoGoodPunsLeft · 21/12/2020 15:23

McDonald's is very underrated as an employer, it was the best paid part time job I had in 7/8 years and you get free food 🤣

VividImagination · 22/12/2020 09:02

He sounds like a lovely young man. His positive attitude will stand him in good stead for the years ahead.

My ds1 worked for McDonalds for 2 years whilst at university and they were great employers.

seriousandloyal · 22/12/2020 09:06

What a dear, good boy! I wish you and your son a very happy Christmas OP.

JourneyToThePlacentaOfTheEarth · 22/12/2020 09:16

What a wonderful young man. Hard working, kind, determined, you've every right to be proud!

I'm proud of my 2 teenage boys too, and I know how hard this year has been for their age group generally

nosswith · 22/12/2020 10:17

You are proud of him quite rightly and thank you for sharing this with us.

purpleboy · 22/12/2020 10:27

What a lovely post, I think I'm extra emotional today but it brought a tear to my eye.
You should be extremely proud of the young man you are raising, and I'll have everything crossed the next recruitment process works out for him.

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