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Do I need to "do" anything for DH?

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SnowySheep · 15/12/2020 21:38

This is all getting very distressing.

He's been in major pain for a couple of days, after fixing a leak under the kitchen sink!

He (and I) also has Covid.

This morning he was very distressed with chest pain and telling me he couldn't breathe. I can't take him anywhere because of the covid so I called an ambulance. Whilst I suspected it was muscular we also gave the covid issue and he's a higher risk age group.

They were brilliant, arrived very quickly, checked his heart, lungs, blood pressure and decreed that it's a muscle strain and it's not that he "can't" breathe but that it hurts to breathe, take stronger pain killers.

So, he's since been taking 30mg codeine and paracetamol.

He's still sobbing in pain and panic stricken that he can't breathe.

The man is an ex soldier and not at all prone to over reaction, normally. He's usually, take an aspirin and press on, regardless of the injury.

I'm not concerned for his safety, as he was so thoroughly checked this morning, but can/should I "do" anything for him? Should I be asking "someone" for better pain relief? What he's taking is left over from an op he had earlier in the year and pretty strong, I think? The paramedic said they were good for him to take with paracetamol.

I don't know what to do.

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Mrbob · 15/12/2020 21:39

I think he needs to see a doctor. Chest pain should not be diagnosed as muscular and left at home by paramedics 😮

Mrbob · 15/12/2020 21:41

And by a doctor I mean A&E where he can have ECGs, X rays, bloods

(Doctor)

00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:41

Ring 111 for advice.
Or go to hospital.

Mumsnet isnt the place! :)

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SnowySheep · 15/12/2020 21:41

What would a doctor do differently? He had an ECG. Paramedic was very thorough. Here for almost an hour.

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TokyoSushi · 15/12/2020 21:42

I'd call back. If he's not usually one to make a fuss and he's crying in pain there must be something going on.

Hope he gets sorted soon Flowers

MrsDeadlock · 15/12/2020 21:43

Fucks sake just ring an ambulance. He clearly needs to be seen again.

notapizzaeater · 15/12/2020 21:43

That was this morning, I'd want him checking again tbh. A fully grown adult doesn't normally cry in pain with breathlessness

Clockstop · 15/12/2020 21:43

Can he try that covid breathing stuff, ive heard there are videos and it helps. Buy yes, I would seek more medical advice too

peboh · 15/12/2020 21:44

He needs to be seen. Anything could have changed over the last few hours.

SnowySheep · 15/12/2020 21:44

Surely the paramedic is best placed to decide if A&E is necessary and he's said, in the notes he left, that it isn't.

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generallygenial · 15/12/2020 21:44

Oh no your poor DH Sad

Agree he needs to be seen by a doctor.

In the meantime-
A warm bath? A heat pad on the affected area?

SnowySheep · 15/12/2020 21:45

Plus, I don't think I can rock up to A&E with covid, which is why I called the ambulance?

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00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:45

Stop asking us.

and ask 111

00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:45

Or 999

peboh · 15/12/2020 21:45

@SnowySheep

Surely the paramedic is best placed to decide if A&E is necessary and he's said, in the notes he left, that it isn't.
That was this morning. Do you understand how quickly covid can affect somebody? He needs to be seen again.
00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:45

Or take him to A&E

00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:46

Do something.

NOW.

peboh · 15/12/2020 21:47

Also you can show up to a&e with covid, I did when my daughter had it as I knew I'd get her there quicker than am ambulance would and she needed to be seen.

bubblesr · 15/12/2020 21:47

Ibuprofen if it’s muscular?

SnowySheep · 15/12/2020 21:47

That was this morning. Do you understand how quickly covid can affect somebody? He needs to be seen again

But he's no different now to he was then

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00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:48

CALL A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL FOR HELP

00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:48

CALL FOR HELP NOW

Sunnywithchanceofshowers · 15/12/2020 21:48

All medical advice comes with the caveat that if the advice doesn’t work then ask again. If he has taken the painkillers he was advised to take and is no better I would ask for further advice.

peboh · 15/12/2020 21:48

He may not be any different than he was acting, however he clearly isn't better therefore the medicine he's using isn't helping. He needs to be seen so he can be prescribed something that will help him. He more than likely needs a chest X-ray too.

00100001 · 15/12/2020 21:49

Don't leave it

Imagine if the worst happened and you'd done nothing. Because he was seen 'this morning'. Would that help you?