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Do I need to "do" anything for DH?

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SnowySheep · 15/12/2020 21:38

This is all getting very distressing.

He's been in major pain for a couple of days, after fixing a leak under the kitchen sink!

He (and I) also has Covid.

This morning he was very distressed with chest pain and telling me he couldn't breathe. I can't take him anywhere because of the covid so I called an ambulance. Whilst I suspected it was muscular we also gave the covid issue and he's a higher risk age group.

They were brilliant, arrived very quickly, checked his heart, lungs, blood pressure and decreed that it's a muscle strain and it's not that he "can't" breathe but that it hurts to breathe, take stronger pain killers.

So, he's since been taking 30mg codeine and paracetamol.

He's still sobbing in pain and panic stricken that he can't breathe.

The man is an ex soldier and not at all prone to over reaction, normally. He's usually, take an aspirin and press on, regardless of the injury.

I'm not concerned for his safety, as he was so thoroughly checked this morning, but can/should I "do" anything for him? Should I be asking "someone" for better pain relief? What he's taking is left over from an op he had earlier in the year and pretty strong, I think? The paramedic said they were good for him to take with paracetamol.

I don't know what to do.

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petitdonkey · 16/12/2020 08:27

@SnowySheep - are you okay? Sounds like a horribly stressful situation to deal with even if you were feeling 100% which you are clearly not. I hope you get some time to rest today xxxx

StickTheKettleOnAlice · 16/12/2020 08:36

In all fairness op, you asked for advice and people are giving you it and you're challenging it and keep saying he has been checked already. I underyaand understand this isnt common but I know people who have been misdiagnosed by doctors 1and also one that was sent home and died so don't take one check up as gospel. Also as people say things could have changed. If you're worried get your husband a second opinion as really not worth the risk when he is in severe pain like what you describe. You know your husband better than any medical professional and what is normal for him and if this isnt get him checked again.

StickTheKettleOnAlice · 16/12/2020 08:37

understand x 1

And good luck Flowers

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SnowySheep · 16/12/2020 08:39

I asked for advice on who to talk to about pain relief. I didn't ask for loads of additional panic, there was plenty of that here already.

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StickTheKettleOnAlice · 16/12/2020 08:44

Hope your dh feels better, you'd be best ringing up your doctors to discuss his medication I would have thought.

OhCormoranAllYeFaithful · 16/12/2020 08:55

@SnowySheep

He slept in the chair and he's taken more painkillers but he seems "OK".

I'll/he'll talk to GP today and see if we can get some non opiate painkillers. I think he got into a state yesterday because he's reluctant to take them, so left it too late.

Yes - I was once told when in severe pain to take the pain killers on the minute I could, not to hold off to see if it was sore enough to need them.

Managing pain will help control his panic.
Maybe speak to your pharmacist this morning for expert advice.

OhCormoranAllYeFaithful · 16/12/2020 21:20

How’s he doing @SnowySheep

LagneyandCasey · 17/12/2020 16:54

I hope he's feeling better now, op.

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