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Inherited nightmare house - what to do?

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TomHanksintheMoneyPit · 23/11/2020 11:36

Last year I inherited my late mother's upper floor maisonette, which was in an appalling condition due to my mother being disabled and mentally ill and a hoarder, and a squatter living in the house for five months after her death who trashed the place.

The place is basically structurally sound and does not have any mould or mildew, and no problems with insect or rodent infestation or anything like that. But it's in a terrible condition and has not been touched since the 1970s. The bathroom and kitchen both need to be ripped out and replaced. It probably needs a new boiler. Every room (even the bathroom!) has stained, threadbare carpets. I've pulled some of the carpets back and the floorboards underneath are in reasonable condition albeit would need a fair bit of work (sanding, staining and varnishing) to make them look good. All the rooms except one have ancient tatty wallpaper. The doors, door frames and window frames are filthy and yellowed and would need to be deep-cleaned then re-painted white. The massive garden is a jungle with knee-high brambles and at least two fallen down sheds. The garage is so jammed with stuff you can't even get inside.

I have health problems, do not drive, and it takes me 90 minutes on (free) public transport to get to her house. I don't have anyone to help me and earn a pretty small salary, although I do have a generous cash inheritance which is in an ISA. I generally can only visit her house once a week, twice at most, and spend perhaps 7 hours there. It's taken me a year just to clear out her personal possessions and furniture. On the other hand I'm not bad at DIY/decorating and feel confident in being able to do stuff like prep and paint walls or put down laminate flooring.

I'm now at the point of having to decide when to put it on the market, and how much work to do in advance. People with experience in selling houses, and in particular selling or buying fixer uppers, would you recommend:

  1. Putting it on the market as-is, as a fixer upper, in the knowledge that the sheer look of the place is so off-putting.
  1. Doing superficial DIY work to make it look more appealing, eg. stripping the old wallpaper, giving the walls a fresh coat of paint, cleaning and re-painting the doors, ripping up the carpets and putting some cheap laminate floor tiles down, just so that the property looks clean, neutral, and not totally neglected. But leave the kitchen and bathroom and sell it with the understanding the new owners will need to do some work in installing a new kitchen and bathroom, new boiler, fixing the garden, etc.
  1. Invest the contents of my ISA into paying someone to do it up properly including installing a new kitchen and bathroom, before putting it on the market.

I'm leaning towards #2, but I'm uncertain exactly what I should do, vs what I should leave. I keep thinking of new things that need fixing or replacing, like the garden fence, and going AAARRRRGGGHH! Any advice?

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Embracelife · 24/11/2020 14:15

Clear it and sell.
Not worth your time and effort to do more.

yellowhighheels · 24/11/2020 14:28

I've not RTFT and am no expert but given the investment for you in terms of time and effort I would only do the bits that are disguising attractive aspects of the property, clear it, maybe pay to give it a deep clean if not a fortune and sell as is.

Your health and time are valuable too.

So, easy wins would be to remove carpets so the good quality floorboards can be seen and have the garden cleared as it will look much bigger when it's not a jungle.

TatianaBis · 24/11/2020 14:44

It doesn’t need a deep clean. I’ve bought flats that look like that and the first thing I do, after finalising the plans, is get the builders in and take the whole place apart.

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FreddieMac · 24/11/2020 15:16

Sell sell sell Brexit is coming and job losses from covid, people are moving out. The property market is tanking.

Then if you can’t sell, do it up slowly.

I used an online auction house and they were great. So much less faff than the usual method.

Mummyoflittledragon · 24/11/2020 15:28

After your pic updates and once again, sell as is. As before, I am someone, who’s renovated a couple of properties.

UsernameRebooted · 24/11/2020 15:57

@PropertyDEV

Hi *@TomHanksintheMoneyPit*

Sent you PM.

On mumsnet we share and dont PM

I do hope that you are not trying to rip the OP off

BigBadVoodooHat · 24/11/2020 16:17

I do hope that you are not trying to rip the OP off

I'm pretty sure that's EXACTLY what is happening here.

SoupDragon · 24/11/2020 16:19

@BigBadVoodooHat

I do hope that you are not trying to rip the OP off

I'm pretty sure that's EXACTLY what is happening here.

Yes, me too.
TatianaBis · 24/11/2020 16:41

PM: “I’ll give you a good deal darlin”

claremmm · 24/11/2020 18:01

My house was a do-er upper (similar story of previous owner poor mental health etc) still had 100 offers from buyers (in Scotland). It was in a shocking state. The only thing that was important to me was that the rubbish was removed and a little bit of fumigating / bleach so that it didn’t totally stink when we saw it at first. When it was empty we could totally imagine the potential. We ripped it all out including the efforts that the seller had made to make it more presentable (cheap floor tiles, badly fitted new windows)
I would look after yourself and do the minimum. Estate agent should be able to give good advice about what you should try to do. It might be that house prices crash next year with the state of the economy anyway and you’re best trying to sell quickly...

threatmatrix · 24/11/2020 18:02

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Pickpick101 · 24/11/2020 18:04

@threatmatrix

Aren’t you lucky to have inherited your mothers house even though it’s obvious you didn’t give much care to her. Maybe if you’d have helped keep it up you wouldn’t be in this predicament now.
That's an incredibly stupid thing to say
Mesoavocado · 24/11/2020 18:05

@threatmatrix

Aren’t you lucky to have inherited your mothers house even though it’s obvious you didn’t give much care to her. Maybe if you’d have helped keep it up you wouldn’t be in this predicament now.
What a bitch
claremmm · 24/11/2020 18:05

@threatmatrix

Aren’t you lucky to have inherited your mothers house even though it’s obvious you didn’t give much care to her. Maybe if you’d have helped keep it up you wouldn’t be in this predicament now.
What a nasty comment on a relationship you know nothing about
Emmapeeler2 · 24/11/2020 18:05

Sell it as it is! Someone will snap it up as a doer upper and it takes you 90 mins to get there on a bus. Any other option sounds needlessly stressful.

Aworldofmyown · 24/11/2020 18:05

threatmatrix hmm I'm not sure how you got that impression 🤔

sparklepink · 24/11/2020 18:12

I think threatmatrix is jealous of OP inheriting and trying to find a way to bring her down! sad.

SoupDragon · 24/11/2020 18:13

There's always one 🙄

TatianaBis · 24/11/2020 18:14

Threatmatrix is a either locked down lorry driver called Barry, or a locked down stray teen gamer called Jayden.

Either way they don’t seem to be happy OP is inheriting a flat.

myblackboots · 24/11/2020 18:15

I inherited my late parents house 2 years ago, complete with 50 years worth of belongings. Took me a few months to sort through their personal things and sell some of the furniture as it was 50 miles away. I did tidy the garden and give some of the rooms a lick of paint to freshen things up, but left everything else including the old-fashioned kitchen as most buyers prefer to choose their own. The estate agent cleared out the last bits and pieces and took them to auction/the tip, all paid for by proceeds of auction and a massive help to me. Option 3 sounds like a mammoth task and buyers would probably change things anyway - I’d go for a watered down version of option 2. Good luck!

FelicisNox · 24/11/2020 18:16

Get the estate agent to quote you for 1 and 2, if it's negligible just sell it as is, if it would make a huge difference just magnolia and gloss it and put some flooring down.

I reckon it will be negligible if you're not putting new kitchen and bathroom in so save yourself the aggro and flog it.

Oscarsdaddy · 24/11/2020 18:17

My advice, for what it’s worth

No matter how much you spend on it someone will want to knock the price down as how you personally decorate it may not suit their taste

If I were you I’d go option 1 and just get it off your hands if you feel you can do that

No point in risking your health so you can invest money in an attempt to make a few thousand extra.

Also it’s a good time for people to buy with the Stamp Duty situation at the moment and a lot of people do like a fixer upper

GabsAlot · 24/11/2020 18:19

the next owner will redecorate anyway just put it up or auction it

ERFGLA · 24/11/2020 18:19

Sell it as is. Just more stress for at least another year (through all this palaver ) once it’s sold, it’s sold. Go a nice little holiday when this is all over.
Moneys not everything, and it’s not like you’ll make zero.

Leedsfan247 · 24/11/2020 18:19

Put it to auction and let a developer take the pain and any risks.

Once you start you’ve no idea what you might uncover.

It’s not worth the stress.

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