Why is your ex your ex?

[RosieLemonade]

My ex who I was really in love with at university was a medical student. I was really immature at the time and not supportive at all so I didn’t deserve him to stay with me as I wasn’t at all understanding about the situation.
Why is your ex your ex?

Because he's a prick.

Because he was a controlling abusive bastard!

I fell out of love with him. He's the father of my child and he's not a bad man, we just got together too young and grew apart.

Because he was a moody, passive aggressive, hypocritical cock lodging slob. Of course this only became evident once I'd married him and he let his true colours show.

As the name suggests, he couldn't beat his addiction. We tried everything for years eventually I just couldn't go on.

He refused to get a job.

He's a porn addict.

Because I found out while on holiday in Cuba with him that he had had a one night stand with someone and got her pregnant! Even went for her scan on my birthday.

Because I had an affair

I was taken ill at the wheel and rolled his car. When he arrived on the scene his first words were "oh my god my car" while I was sat in the back of the ambulance.

There is a lot more, but that was the final nail as they say.

Because he was emotionally abusive and made me believe i was nothing. I left because I didn't think I was good enough for him. The irony.

Because we werent suited.

Financial abuse , domestic violence , crap father. I could go on 🙄. I've moved on thankfully.

Because he decided he didn't want the baby that took years to have and left while I was pregnant for a woman he knew from work.

He beat me multiple times

Abused me constantly while pregnant

Tried to force me into a marriage
And assaulted my DD

Never been so happy to be single in my life

Going to bed and knowing I won't be hit while asleep is a joy to me every single night

Because he's a complete wankstack.

His drinking, mainly. Lack of common interests once we’d gotten past that, probably.

Ex 1: was a violent alcoholic, and it was either leave him or be killed by him.

Ex 2: lovely bloke, we simply didn't work together as a couple. Still very good friends.

Ex 3: coercive, narcissistic, bullying, lazy, feckless, irresponsible arsehole who didn't give a shit about anybody except himself. Genuinely couldn't understand why I ended the relationship after suffering months of abuse, stalked and harassed me for several months after I asked him to leave, pulled numerous stunts to try and frighten me into taking him back... radio silence when he finally realised there wouldn't be a reconciliation, then came to my door 6 months later to announce he'd forgiven me for all I'd done to make him act that way towards me. (Just in case I needed any affirmation that I'd made the right choice in ending it with him).

Current P: likely soon to be ex because as kind as he is, any intimacy is non-existent and his blatant lack of interest makes me feel worthless.

Because he was abusive and violent, oh and he was having an affair with a man

He slept with my best friend

Because he buried his problems by drinking too much rather than facing up to them and I was fed up with him pissing everything we had up against a wall

Because he abused our children.

Because I found out about the other woman he’s been shagging for the last two years 🧐

Because he was abusive.

Ex 1. We simply wanted different things in life, it was a reallg hard break up for both of us, we’re still best friends.

Ex 2. Bit of an idiot so I had been thinking about leaving as he had jealousy issues and convinced himself I was cheating, he made my decision even easier when he decided to use his fists to try and get his own way. Eventually I learned he had been having an affair for the last six months of our relationship.