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I've been furloughed until March! Kids aren't at home. What now?!

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MrsMiaWallis · 05/11/2020 19:36

I've just found out I've been furloughed until March.

Two kids at uni and one at boarding school (this has all happened in the last month, dc bursary kid at local independent, wasn't supposed to board but due to covid he has been offered a full boarding place as the day option would mean he couldn't do the thing he went there for - music).

So I have the weird feeling of having nothing to do with my life until March!

Any ideas on what a 54 year old woman can do with her life until then?!

OP posts:
Oblomov20 · 05/11/2020 20:19

What I wouldn't give to be furloughed.
Some staff have been furloughed since March, till March. A year off.

What I wouldn't have given for a year off.

I've been doing accounts. HR. Furlough. Paid staff. I've worked like a dog.

meringue33 · 05/11/2020 20:20

Google “Voluntary Action [your city/county]” or contact your local council. There are loads of voluntary opportunities at the moment ranging from picking up groceries/prescriptions for people self-isolating to helping out at a care home.

RhubarbBikini · 05/11/2020 20:23

Are you any good with getting teens to log onto Teams at the right time? I just found out about 20 mins ago that the school is shut tomorrow due to too many staff self isolating, I could do with a hand making sure they log onto their lessons

CatToddlerUprising · 05/11/2020 20:25

covidmutualaid.org/
You could volunteer to help the most vulnerable in your area- picking up prescriptions/food etc

Marcelduchamp · 05/11/2020 20:27

Must be nice. When people are grafting their arses off. Be a bit more sensitive op.

I was just thinking today the extension of the furlough schemes hole great in many ways is definitely going to create some resenment. I'm not saying it's right but we're all paying for this and while loads of people have had a nice holiday many people are working harder than ever.

userxx · 05/11/2020 20:27

I've been doing accounts. HR. Furlough. Paid staff. I've worked like a dog.

Been a bastard of a year hasn't it 😞. Trying to keep on top of the daily changes is a full time job in itself.

Duemarch2021 · 05/11/2020 20:28

Drink loooads of alcohol and dance around the house and bake cakes!! 😂 join tiktok and make silly videos!!! Lol

Clymene · 05/11/2020 20:28

Volunteer - use your finance skills, do deliveries for people,
Learn a language
Learn a new skill and become good at it (make a scarf/piece of furniture/shirt)
Do more volunteering
Buy a campervan and drive round the coast of Britain (post lockdown)
Take up yoga/weightlifting/tai chi.
Plan your world travels for when you retire

I worked all through the last lockdown and I will work all through this one. I would love to have 5 months off on full pay.

Temporary1234 · 05/11/2020 20:29

Volunteer for the NHS ?

feelingfree17 · 05/11/2020 20:29

I did 4 months on last lock down. My advice would be to walk every day. Getting out in the fresh air amongst nature. Take some time for you, and if you are able perhaps you could volunteer. I must say after 4 months I was so pleased to go back.

Thewinterofdiscontent · 05/11/2020 20:29

You realise everyone will have to pay the trillions furlough cost back? I think it’s terrifying. It’s a massive amount of money.
Paying furlough during an actual lockdown is one thing. If places are closing until March, people need to be on Universal Credit, not 80% of their wage. Especially if they are taking other work.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 05/11/2020 20:30

Oh god. I'm so envious.

If it were me, my list would be:-

  1. Dig out the sewing machine in the loft and work out how to use the same thing
  2. Learn some songs on the kids keyboard
  3. Sand and repaint the stairs/bannisters
  4. Learn a language (my nephews speak a second language due to their dad so it learn theirs)
  5. Bullet journal
TheNewLook · 05/11/2020 20:31

It's a seasonal business and should be unpaused in March

Seasonal? Winter or summer? Would you normally be on full pay at that time of year?

OzziePopPop · 05/11/2020 20:31

You could offer to walk dogs for elderly or self isolating people maybe? If you like animals of course. It might help with the weight loss goals you mentioned?

ohnothisagain · 05/11/2020 20:31

Study! There is loads of free or low cost stuff around.

TheNewLook · 05/11/2020 20:31

I don’t understand how your employer can be sure you’re not needed at work until March when this lockdown is only four weeks.

Etinox · 05/11/2020 20:32

Offer your finance skills to local charities- and your child’s school?

loveyouradvice · 05/11/2020 20:32

How amazing... lucky woman!

How about volunteering at a local school to give something back to those who are having a tougher time than your kids?

If I had spare time, it is what I would be doing... probably a primary because Covid risks lower .... I feel passionate about the fact so many kids have missed so much AND how much every kid benefits from having some 121 time with an interested adult supporting their learning.....

Look forward to hearing what you decide!

Marmunia1975 · 05/11/2020 20:34

I would be looking for new job opportunities as firms have demonstrated that people on furlough really aren't needed!

OverTheRainbow88 · 05/11/2020 20:34

Join the NHSs volunteering, can be a click and call volunteer, so you get a phone number and name messaged to you and you call them just for a chat. Usually elderly people living alone and lonely and want to chat.

FurrySlipperBoots · 05/11/2020 20:35

Look into fostering? It could well be that the process would take so long you'll be back to work by the time you're approved though! Or maybe foster animals?

ohidoliketobe · 05/11/2020 20:36

My list would be:

  • volunteer
  • declutter entire house top to bottom
  • create actual physical photo albums from the thousands of pictures on my phone
  • learn a foreign language
  • learn basic sign language
  • online course in something that interests me
  • get peleton and get fit
  • finally learn how to use my sewing machine as I'd love to make quirky little kids clothes (skirts and pinafores) in funky patterns
BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 05/11/2020 20:37

I don’t understand how your employer can be sure you’re not needed at work until March when this lockdown is only four weeks

The OP works in Finance so likely the budget for 21/22 is done now, and her next busy period will be Year End (late March-end april).

There is a natural lull over the winter in most finance depts so as long as the bills are being paid, which presumably they have that covered if they can spare her, then she can pick up the books on her return.

Of course, none of the above may be relevant depending on the role, but I can see how a business would choose to furlough in the above scenario.

Hope4theBestPlan4theWorst · 05/11/2020 20:38

Just because you are furloughed you can still work elsewhere - I'd get another part time job to earn some extra money but also meet new people and socialise a bit

Elderflower14 · 05/11/2020 20:39

How about learning BSL or Makaton? My son does some basic signs teaching on Facebook.

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