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If you're an introvert..

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timothytoeseatenbyaghoul · 25/10/2020 21:57

Could you happily live alone.forever?

I've been split up from my ex for over a year now and love it. I have children but once their needs are met I go to bed alone and get some time to myself (which I love) no ones following me to bed. I get the peace and quiet that I've longed for for so long Smile

I've recently been seeing a lot of my ex (the children's father) as he's been helping me out with lifts and school runs since my car broke a few weeks ago and on the odd nights he's stayed here to help out with the kids and it's made it set in stone how much I just want to be on my own for the rest of my life.

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Gingernaut · 25/10/2020 21:59

Yes

BobbinThreadbare123 · 25/10/2020 22:01

Also yes.

MayFayre · 25/10/2020 22:01

Yes.

AgeLikeWine · 25/10/2020 22:04

Yes, I have very happily lived alone in the past, and could do so again.

Fawking · 25/10/2020 22:05

Yes. I have a few friends who have new relationships where they don't live together and have no intention of living together. They're genuinely really happy. That's what I would what.

QueenOllie · 25/10/2020 22:05

Yes. Always lived alone since uni and I'm 35 now

SpeedofaSloth · 25/10/2020 22:07

No.

Crystal87 · 25/10/2020 22:09

No, but I do need time to myself every so often and don't get enough.

BexR · 25/10/2020 22:10

Yes. Cohabiting involves so many compromises. Once you adjust to living alone you can really appreciate doing exactly what you want at home.

My only downside is that holidays are better as a couple. Company on the beach/pool, enjoying restaurants etc. But that's only 2 weeks out of the year!

Itchybush · 25/10/2020 22:13

Yes! Never, ever want to live with a partner again.

Twitwooooooo · 25/10/2020 22:13

No. But my DH doesn’t drain me like other people do. Me being alone and me being alone with him are the same thing 99% of the time (from a recharging POV).

ShrimpSymphony · 25/10/2020 22:14

Yes

DramaAlpaca · 25/10/2020 22:14

I'm the same as @Twitwooooooo.

InFlagranteDerelicto · 25/10/2020 22:15

Yes. I used to stay alone in my student house over the holidays, my housemates would all go back home & I'd be alone for several weeks at a time. Loved it.

Crinkledbeetroot · 25/10/2020 22:16

Yes!

BiarritzCrackers · 25/10/2020 22:20

Yes, I like being around people in small doses, but I don't get lonely being on my own, and can happily not see anyone else for quite long periods. DS10 is lovely and fun company, so maybe I'll feel differently when he's a bit older and more independent.

arethereanyleftatall · 25/10/2020 22:20

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to respond, as I'm not an introvert, but goodness me, I've discovered I LOVE living on my own (with my kids). Divorced now for a year and omg, it's bliss.

Limpid · 25/10/2020 22:22

No. I have, however happily spent long periods living alone in very isolated conditions — on an uninhabited island, and being an out of season caretaker for a retreat house in a remote area.

Fortheloveofgodwhy · 25/10/2020 22:23

Yes I loved living alone, I’m currently married and living with the second mr Forthelove and there will not ever be a third, I could not train another one.

timothytoeseatenbyaghoul · 25/10/2020 22:24

Glad I'm not the only one. I thought it was just me being a miserable bitch Grin

I'd happily be in a relationship for the sake of dates and watching a good box set, but only on the grounds that he was on the same page as me and agreed to never wanting to live together.

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jay55 · 25/10/2020 22:26

Yes.

It has been hard the last 6 months but i always think easier than dealing with someone else.

BlackLetterDay · 25/10/2020 22:27

Yes, but tbh apart from the kids I have literally nobody to talk to. Over the years (including the years I was with ex, he was a non communicator) I think Iv probably gone quite mental.

sociallydistained · 25/10/2020 22:27

I'm with someone but yes!!

ragged · 25/10/2020 22:28

Live alone yes, but not be a hermit. I am pretty sure I'm very introverted. Little bits of social contact does me great good & stops me being a total nutter.

Yohoheaveho · 25/10/2020 22:29

Yes! Never, ever want to live with a partner again.

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