Two mums meet at soft play with their 8yo girls - MumA & ChildA, and MumB & ChildB.
The slot is 2.5 hours, and after 2 hours ChildA comes to the adults crying because ChildB isn't playing with her anymore. ChildB approaches the table and MumA says "ChildA is upset because she says you won't play with her." ChildB responds "Yes I just want to play on my own for a bit". MumA says it's not nice to ditch your friend. MumB says that ChildB often gets tired of company and likes to do her own thing sometimes, and she's been taught to speak up if she ever feels like having alone time.
ChildA spends the rest of the session crying while ChildB goes to play on her own. ChildA says to her at the end that she isn't a good friend, which upsets ChildB.
Who was in the right, and should either mum have done anything differently?
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Soft play situation - who is in the right?
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GlummyMcGlummerson · 24/10/2020 23:19
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