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ADs crave hotel breakfasts garnished with phallic strawberries

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BogRollBOGOF · 03/10/2020 09:18

Oh for the good old days of a breakfast buffet.

Back when you could make plans and reasonably expect them to happen. When you could turn up spontaneously and browse or linger at your leisure. When you could meet whoever you like and give them a hug

But until those days return, here's some more AD chat about life, the universe and phallic fruits...

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Evenstar · 06/10/2020 17:41

@Willow2017 I haven’t noticed any effect like that with steroids on previous occasions 😂 but I think there is a known effect where people feel amazingly well and that might make Trump worse! Feeling much better today and I do wonder if I had a very low grade chest infection and hadn’t recognised it without the symptoms I would normally get until it exacerbated my asthma.

MissEWeatherwax · 06/10/2020 17:48

I don’t think we will ever be allowed to hug people ever again. I’m not a hugger. Life is just so boring. My DD’s bubble has just burst, she can’t leave house or garden for two weeks. She has only been in classroom with person, not sat next to them or anything, so not worried. No symptoms yet.

BogRollBOGOF · 06/10/2020 17:54

Hugging will be back. I'm not sure if it will come with a great fanfare, but the human urge for physical contact is too great to supress.

It's a bit like socialising selfies. People naturally pull in together on autopilot. It doesn't mean they actually wereall bunched together all evening.

One school fire confirmed as arson. Other still being investigated...

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RobinHobb · 06/10/2020 18:02

[quote Ibake]@Reedwarbler IMHO 'oh for fucks sake' is quite possibly the finest expression ever invented. [/quote]
I could not agree more

justasking111 · 06/10/2020 18:15

DS is in the centre of the covid storm in Leeds, all around halls and uni. have said just keep food in and your head down. He and girlfriend are happy as clams just being together again luckily.

TheOrchidKiller · 06/10/2020 18:16

Have just got in after a long & crappy day at work, have much catching up to do.

Local restrictions on the verge of being imposed here although my address might just escape (not that it helps the majority of people).

Students being blamed - horrible comments on local paper from residents. Students contribute massively to our local economy though.

I think @Dominashantotto lives near the same city as me (you mentioned Stabbo in a past thread) so I've been thinking of you.

I had an angry rant on MS Teams about what a dystopian nightmare this is. Got a lot of thumbs-ups in agreement.

Worried about a colleague who keeps crying. They're not coping with this.

Boris' comments that Britain "can't return to normal" really upset me. I think it was a poor choice of words on his part. It's one thing to aim for improvements but to describe them as being "not normal" isn't a good way to say that.

Tired & fed up.

justasking111 · 06/10/2020 18:17

I am still cuddling, gave DIL a cuddle on her birthday, grandson and I lay on sofa together this afternoon watching minions. Life has to go on.

DominaShantotto · 06/10/2020 20:04

Yeah that's the one @TheOrchidKiller - if they lock down the city radius we should just escape but I reckon they'll just do it by the whole postcode area and we'll get got. I'm kind of resigned to it - it's basically a national lockdown by stealth creeping over the country.

The cases are starting to pop up in my uni as well - uni have announced 11 but the word is it's at least 20+ (term started yesterday). I'm just throwing my all into the online stuff but it's really crap watching everyone flounder with technology taking up half of the sessions.

RealityExistsInTheHumanMind · 06/10/2020 20:22

And all these kids that are locked down to stop them 'killing their grannies' will not get a vaccine next year. They'll be told, well done, Granny has her injection you can all go out and catch it now.

DominaShantotto · 06/10/2020 20:34

Friend is currently mildly freaking out trying to move her tuition work back online in advance of it - the local rag are practically wetting their pants in excited anticipation of it all.

Orangeblossom7777 · 06/10/2020 20:59

Guardian reporting on this in quite a balanced way...

www.theguardian.com/world/2020/oct/06/scientists-call-for-herd-immunity-covid-strategy-for-young

RobinHobb · 06/10/2020 21:10

Bbc headline about number of deaths has worried me, taken away any positivity I was feeling about the future.
For the first time I feel like we are never going to get our from under this.

TheOrchidKiller · 06/10/2020 21:11

@DominaShantotto
They've published in The Post (so it'll be sooooo accurate) that certain areas within postcodes are not part of the restrictions. So we live within a postcode on the danger list but are in an excluded area. That's if they don't change their minds.

It doesn't help much. I've been trying to explain to DM (& may have lost my shit a bit in the process) that people living in the city cope by relying on family, friends & neighbours popping in & running errands for each other. Young mums with small kids see each other in each others' homes every day because they always have done- life is hard, they get by because they have each other. Going to the pub isn't about getting bladdered, it's about getting a cheap hot meal that they wouldn't make at home. If they fail to turn up at the pub because they've collapsed at home a mate will check on them later & get help.

Mixing households isn't about them disregarding the rules, it's how they cope.
Without those informal social networks people's physical & mental health gets worse.
And in my experience they are actually more likely to try to stick to the rules without questioning them.

(It took a lot of getting used to, doing community health work, & having my appointments completely sabotaged by neighbours popping in -no doors kept locked- with a loaf, the TV Guide & this week's tablets, & they'd launch straight in with, "Saw Jean at the shops, she's looking a bit peaky, I'll go up after," like I just wasn't there! Now I just go with the flow, & can see how useful those interactions are.)

I'm sorry about your uni course. I had a meeting about HCP students today. We are planning to have students on actual physical placements but we know it won't be the usual experience.
We also know how much extra support new graduates will need in their first jobs on qualifying.

110APiccadilly · 06/10/2020 21:17

Apparently students in Manchester have been told off for having parties in their flats limited to those who have had a positive test result. I may be being thick but why is this a problem? If they're all already infected, I assume they can't get any more infected?! And at least they get to see other humans. What am I missing here?

RealityExistsInTheHumanMind · 06/10/2020 21:24

@RobinHobb

Bbc headline about number of deaths has worried me, taken away any positivity I was feeling about the future. For the first time I feel like we are never going to get our from under this.
Did it also say how many died in the same period from flu and other non covid respiratory conditions and did it say if they had comorbidities (not that this makes it ok, just that it has implications towards risk for others).
Willow2017 · 06/10/2020 21:25

[quote Evenstar]@Willow2017 I haven’t noticed any effect like that with steroids on previous occasions 😂 but I think there is a known effect where people feel amazingly well and that might make Trump worse! Feeling much better today and I do wonder if I had a very low grade chest infection and hadn’t recognised it without the symptoms I would normally get until it exacerbated my asthma.[/quote]
I have had plenty courses of steroids starting high then tapering off. Ruin your sleep and your appetite but haven't made me psycho yet😄

TheOrchidKiller · 06/10/2020 21:30

@110APiccadilly
Are they saying the positive students can't have parties with other students who are self-isolating in the same building? Because if that's the case, I agree with you. Obviously, if they weren't living there they shouldn't have gone.

But if they're all isolating together it's nuts to tell them off. It would be like all of us in my house self-isolating because one of us has got it, but not being allowed to watch TV together (we know how to party).

110APiccadilly · 06/10/2020 21:33

Ah, yes, if they're traveling to a building then obviously that's going to cause potential problems. But it sounded like it was within a hall? Have to see if I can find the article now.

110APiccadilly · 06/10/2020 21:35

Hmm, have looked at the article and I'd say it's not completely clear. www.theguardian.com/education/2020/oct/06/manchester-students-organising-covid-positive-parties

RobinHobb · 06/10/2020 21:42

@RealityExistsInTheHumanMind

No only this:
In a normal year, we can expect 1,000 admissions a day for flu and respiratory viruses by December.

So I guess within normal range. Just a bit down, I am beginning to think of day to day living as a slog to get through. I don't like thinking like this

Ibake · 06/10/2020 21:48

Am just reposting this here as per the above guardian article and the video link posted yesterday. Sorry to spam but I think this is the single biggest thing in the AD armoury at the moment. Please consider signing if you haven't already.

gbdeclaration.org/

BogRollBOGOF · 06/10/2020 21:50

The total lack of application of logic is mind-boggling. Who cares if a low risk adult who is well enough to party, parties with another low risk adult well enough to party, get together in a closed granny-free environment. What actual harm is at stake? Less than the harms of social isolation!

JV covered the funeral roolz today. That had me having a rant at the radio. He was pretty sympathetic to families suffering from ridiculous roolz on top of raw grief. One caller said that she had to distance from her own 8yo at a funeral. The air in my car went blue!

It is progress that these kinds of stories are getting out and being looked at more critically and it's not all clap for the NHS/ key worker heros any more.

In little shuffles of progress, DS1 should be able to resume his drum lessons soon. In person, in school.

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BogRollBOGOF · 06/10/2020 21:56

[quote 110APiccadilly]Hmm, have looked at the article and I'd say it's not completely clear. www.theguardian.com/education/2020/oct/06/manchester-students-organising-covid-positive-parties[/quote]
More students dead from drugs than Covid Sad

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RobinHobb · 06/10/2020 22:05

God this is bonkers
Who the actual fuck cares if they are all positive and feel well enough?!! Jeez.

Ibake · 06/10/2020 22:10

Saw this earlier. Basically shows that positive tests strongly correlate to student areas. This is a good thing, especially this early in the term. They should all be snogging the face off each other at the moment so that by the time they get home for Christmas they're no danger to their grandparents. Remember Wanksock told them not to kill granny (tosser) so he should be pleased to see these figures.

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