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Piers

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 19:27

Have been with fiancé a long time he’s not always been reliable. We don’t live together so after some time apart have had some more time together. Because of lockdown couldn’t see each other.

I saw him on a Thursday, he went home to pay his rent Friday morning so he says.

He said he didn’t do facebook as he doesn’t understand it but on the Friday lunchtime after he’d gone his name came up on my phone. A photo of him. I had his sons Facebook before. His son has the same first name.

He said his son helped him update it.

He told me he hadn’t been out to the Liverpool game on the Tuesday he wasn’t interested only in seeing the trophy given.

This was on weds he told me. Then when I rang him on the Saturday I asked if he’d been out he said no. The background photo was in a pub and recently as hand sanitizer on wall and social distance sign up.

So recently he’d been out. Why lie twice about being out. He was very drunk and smiling in the photo and very smug that was taken and I don’t know who took it.

I went to ring him back on the Saturday to see why he lied in the Saturday about it and he wouldn’t answer his phone all weekend !

I just don’t know what I’ve done wrong.

I’d booked us a holiday on the Wednesday and he was happy.

His ex girlfriend is in the Facebook who he had children with who he hates ? His kids are old enough to tell their dad anything so why still be friends with the ex ? He’s played

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GoshHashana · 05/08/2020 19:42

I don't understand any of that.

FlibbertyGiblets · 05/08/2020 19:46

Sounds such a lot of hard work. Romance isn't all flowers and kisses, ofc, but being suspicious of a smug photo, whatever that might be, being uneasy about whether your boyf is telling you the truth, feeling you've 'done something wrong', none of that is nice.

What to do? Tricky...

Waxonwaxoff0 · 05/08/2020 19:49

Thought this was going to be a thread about Piers Morgan.

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AriettyHomily · 05/08/2020 19:51

What does piers have to do with it?

ILiveInSalemsLot · 05/08/2020 19:54

I wouldn’t bother with this one. Find someone reliable who doesn’t lie.

MacduffsMuff · 05/08/2020 19:56

Sorry, I really don't understand this at all. Piers who? I don't know what you mean.

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:21

He lied to me on two different days said he’d not been out when the photo clearly showed he had gone out.

I asked him on the phone and when I rang in the Saturday he said he’d not been out again a lie.

I tried to ring him back and he wouldn’t answer the phone all the weekend

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:22

He was meant to come up and see me the Saturday night and did not. As I caught him lying ?

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:23

Sorry made a mistake

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:25

Sorry don’t know why piers came up meant to be Liers

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nancybotwinbloom · 05/08/2020 20:26

Sounds like too much hard work. Can you really be arsed with this?

A decent man would not fuck you about like this.

Get rid. Move on and block him and his son.

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:26

Sorry meant say liers not piers

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:27

Thank you I just don’t know what I’ve done wrong ?

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L8Bloomer · 05/08/2020 20:28

@Waxonwaxoff0

Thought this was going to be a thread about Piers Morgan.
Same here!

This was like a riddle from start to finish.

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:28

Thank you

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Mydogisthebestest · 05/08/2020 20:29

I’m confused.

Frownette · 05/08/2020 20:30

@Waxonwaxoff0

Thought this was going to be a thread about Piers Morgan.
Me too.

OP don't question what you've done wrong, distance yourself from him. He just fancied not telling the truth.

L8Bloomer · 05/08/2020 20:30

Ah, Liars!

@Lindos123 he sounds FAR too comfortable lying.

Even if he only lied to go to a football match, he is avoiding the truth. Why can he not just say where's he's going? His ''go to'' is to lie Confused

That is not what you want in a partner. Anybody who tells pointless lies is going to have NO problem lying about important things.

iklboo · 05/08/2020 20:35

Why lie over such small things? You'd not kick off at him if he did go out and tell you, would you - or have a Facebook page? It makes no sense to keep lying to you. Tell him to do one.

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:35

Yes you are right, I’ve got to let him go and move on

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L8Bloomer · 05/08/2020 20:38

Do let him go. I think constant lying is a sign of low self-esteem.

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:39

I will tell him, if he’d been honest it would have been ok, but he won’t friend me on Facebook but the ex girlfriend who had his children is friends with him on Facebook

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 20:40

He said he hates his ex !!

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MacduffsMuff · 05/08/2020 20:45

OP, you know you need to get rid of this arsehole. Flowers

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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 22:19

I will get rid of him

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