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Lindos123 · 05/08/2020 19:27

Have been with fiancé a long time he’s not always been reliable. We don’t live together so after some time apart have had some more time together. Because of lockdown couldn’t see each other.

I saw him on a Thursday, he went home to pay his rent Friday morning so he says.

He said he didn’t do facebook as he doesn’t understand it but on the Friday lunchtime after he’d gone his name came up on my phone. A photo of him. I had his sons Facebook before. His son has the same first name.

He said his son helped him update it.

He told me he hadn’t been out to the Liverpool game on the Tuesday he wasn’t interested only in seeing the trophy given.

This was on weds he told me. Then when I rang him on the Saturday I asked if he’d been out he said no. The background photo was in a pub and recently as hand sanitizer on wall and social distance sign up.

So recently he’d been out. Why lie twice about being out. He was very drunk and smiling in the photo and very smug that was taken and I don’t know who took it.

I went to ring him back on the Saturday to see why he lied in the Saturday about it and he wouldn’t answer his phone all weekend !

I just don’t know what I’ve done wrong.

I’d booked us a holiday on the Wednesday and he was happy.

His ex girlfriend is in the Facebook who he had children with who he hates ? His kids are old enough to tell their dad anything so why still be friends with the ex ? He’s played

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GoshHashana · 05/08/2020 23:58

What's Liers??

PickwickThePlockingDodo · 06/08/2020 00:20

Op has said it was a typo, she meant Liars.

Just get rid OP, life's too short. I hate liars.

Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 08:29

I will thank you. Sorry I confused people in the heading !!

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CatBatCat · 06/08/2020 08:42

Don't marry him.

AdaColeman · 06/08/2020 08:47

LTB!

WitchDancer · 06/08/2020 08:59

Are you sure he has split up from his ex?

FilledSoda · 06/08/2020 10:53

I'd have suspicions that you're a secret fiancée , sorry OP.

Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 11:42

I think you might be right about the ex.

I’ve said hello briefly on the phone to one of his children who in his 20’s but have never met them.

I think I’ve been messed about too long.

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Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 11:43

That’s what I’ve been wondering, will now be strong and walk away

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Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 11:45

LTB what does that mean ?

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Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 11:45

No I won’t marry him now

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PickwickThePlockingDodo · 06/08/2020 12:03

It means Leave The Bastard.

Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 12:50

Oh I thought so, yes I will thanks

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Xiaoxiong · 06/08/2020 13:22

You've never met his kids, you live apart, he spun you a line about his "awful ex" that he supposedly hates but he's still friends with her on facebook while he isn't friends with you on FB, he wouldn't pick up the phone all weekend, he lied to you about not going out, he had to go home "to pay his rent" - I mean what century are we living in, does he pay his rent in cash?

Sorry OP. I think you're making the right decision to dump him like the flaming piece of shit he is.

UnholyStramash · 06/08/2020 13:40

I thought this was going to be a thread on naming a new baby. Grin And I was thinking ‘No, no, no, not Piers as everyone will associate the name with Piers Morgan’.

OP, what do you get from this relationship?It’s not clear to me how you feel about him, obviously you’re upset because he seems to have been lying - it’s not clear why he’s lying, if he is. You need to talk to him and decide if you want to be in a relationship with a liar. You call him your fiancé - it’s not a great idea to marry someone you don’t trust. That’s an understatement really. You need to talk with him face to face.

Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 14:29

Thank you you’ve all helped me make it clearer in my mind. I know I’ve got to let go

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Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 15:50

Thank you

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Lindos123 · 06/08/2020 17:28

Thank you, you’re so right

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