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TheGreatWave · 04/07/2020 23:51

Slight tweak to the suggestion, but here it is.

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incognitomum · 06/07/2020 11:38

Maybe we should start a private book of faces page?

HesterShaw1 · 06/07/2020 11:38

There are a few too many "no ways" in my last couple of posts.

I guess you get my gist?

NothingIsWrong · 06/07/2020 11:44

@incognitomum

Maybe we should start a private book of faces page?
I would be up for this
BogRollBOGOF · 06/07/2020 11:57

I'm a fb user. I've never been offended by my friends showing off --showing what they've been up to. Grin

DS1is happy with our holiday plans. I've said what the site is like, these are the basics on offer, and anything else that opens up is a bonus (I'd hope that play areas/ restaurants can open now... I'd love it if the outdoor pool could be operational by mid-August... I'm not holding my breath though) And I've talked about what's in the area. So much natural variety, and he's a natural geographer like me Grin

Fortunately DS2 has now finished his Bitesize music tasks which made me want to chew up my own ear drums.
I'm now understanding "unschooling" better. As everyone else crashes and breaks up early for the summer, mine are finally getting better with engaging with some learning.

Willow2017 · 06/07/2020 12:04

On an entirely separate note, my dad had to fill out the track and trace forms to have a dinner in Morrisons cafe yesterday. Is that the norm in cafes now? If, for example, you pop in for coffee and cake?
My argument was if he was on his own at his own table and someone down the opposite end of the cafe tested positive for it, why should it affect him? They're sat separately, there's social distancing in place, he's not had any interaction with them so why? He said that viruses don't have boundaries, are in the air so could be anywhere so in that case, as I pointed out, social distancing is a waste of time? Or am I missing something?

That's what the guidelines said they had to do at first but within a day they have been told its optional, you don't have to give your details!
Typical over reaction by gov i presume because the cafes are usually busy.
But you are told which table to go to, only one person at till, no moving around in cafe, all the screens are there between tables, staff have to wear damm visors now. The day before opening when doing takeaway food and drink no visors! Now suddenly it's a disease pit. Yet you can wander round the supermarket with no masks, contact details etc.

Staff have to clear tables and wash and then sterilize them themselves customers aren't allowed to put trays on the racks now. It's all to keep customers safe!

Tbh if i wanted to go out for a meal its my choice and my risk assessment. I wouldn't want the staff to be jumping through hoops and doing more work than they already are in a busy restaurant just to 'keep me safe'. Jmho.

Paradiseinportugal · 06/07/2020 12:04

Could people stop tormenting them selves about a possible Winter lockdown. It isn't Winter and it hasn't happened yet, it might never happen.
These are completely strange times that we're living through, don't borrow trouble from 4/5 months ahead, in the clear and certain knowledge that NOBODY knows what's going to happen next.

TheAdventuresoftheWishingChair · 06/07/2020 12:04

I would be up for a Facebook group too - it would be nice to be part of a sane group on there and I'd love to put names to faces even if there was no link between our rl name and our name on here.

Drivingdownthe101 · 06/07/2020 12:05

I’d also be up for a Facebook group, but we’d have to be careful not to be infiltrated by dementors Grin

Supermarketworker06 · 06/07/2020 12:05

Jeremy Vine show now on radio 2, debate about lockdown, plus mask rebels. How long before I throw something at the radio? Discuss.

AnxiousElephant77 · 06/07/2020 12:06

I’m still here in the wings and would be up for that too.

countrygirl99 · 06/07/2020 12:09

it would be nice to have a Facebook group I didn't have to mute. About the only things on my feed now are photos on the village nature page and DH posts a lot of them.

Mascotte · 06/07/2020 12:12

We'd need some strict screening questions,like "Do you agree lockdown would have been better if we'd been nailed into our houses?"

Drivingdownthe101 · 06/07/2020 12:13

‘Do you think eating crisps on a bench equates to mass murder?’

rookiemere · 06/07/2020 12:14

I'm semi up for a FB group - would be nice to see people in person - however FB is my haven where mostly what I post on is my virtual running group.

Willow2017 · 06/07/2020 12:19

I have the most boring facebook ever apparently. No photos no updates I just use it for kids school and cadets. Now I have to use it for work as apparently talking to people doesn't work these days. Never been on it as much in my life. But if it was a closed group then I would be up for that. (If i knew how to stop anyone at work seeing it)

Mrsfrumble · 06/07/2020 12:20

Apparently 90% of passengers on the TfL network are complying with the mask thing. And people aren’t wearing them in supermarkets because it’s NOT MANDATORY IN SUPERMARKETS!! But let’s ignore the facts and bang on about how everyone else is stupid and deserves to die so we can feel superior, shall we? Hmm

Drivingdownthe101 · 06/07/2020 12:21

@Willow2017

I have the most boring facebook ever apparently. No photos no updates I just use it for kids school and cadets. Now I have to use it for work as apparently talking to people doesn't work these days. Never been on it as much in my life. But if it was a closed group then I would be up for that. (If i knew how to stop anyone at work seeing it)
You can set a group to ‘secret’ and then no one else can even see it exists.
Ibake · 06/07/2020 12:23

I think we would probably quickly work out who was who but I personally don't have a problem with that. MN is interesting in it's anonymised status, so much of SM isn't, and I personally think it gives too many people license to behave like dicks, liars and bullies. Given that none of us are like that on here maybe a FB group wouldn't scare us. I always find the fear of outing on other threads fascinating as I've never once written something on here that I wouldn't say IRL.

One thing that would be an interesting social experiment is we would then be revealing our true selves to a trusted group of virtual friends without context of background - and would that change some of our views on each other? For example, the other day @Dowser asked me if it was our own place in France and I didn't reply because I didn't want you thinking I was a wanky, cheshire wife, 2nd home owner when I have been trusted with information on some of you re the massive financial worries you are currently facing. I might be all of those things (!) but it doesn't mean I lack compassion re other people's circumstances or not realise that I am very fortunate. Indeed MN allows me to understand other people's lives in a way that my RL friendship groups just don't expose me to as I live in a very narrow slice of society. I have been very grateful to MN for helping me to think differently. These threads are preciously non-judgemental but would that be true if you could put faces to names?

Gosh, sorry, bit of an essay! Hopefully you get the gist.

Dowser · 06/07/2020 12:34

I’m still fighting with people in caravan pages on fb
What is wrong with these people
Grrr

Bollss · 06/07/2020 12:38

didn't reply because I didn't want you thinking I was a wanky, cheshire wife, 2nd home owner when I have been trusted with information on some of you re the massive financial worries you are currently facing

Nooo don't feel like that! Were all in different situations. I don't resent anyone in a better situation than me, or think badly or it. If you've got it bloody well enjoy it!
Like you say you're understanding and sympathetic and that's why I love this thread because so is everyone else.

I would be fine with a fb group. I don't know whether it means you can see my personal page but it's mainly pictures of ds anyway so you'll all be bored to death Grin

bookworm14 · 06/07/2020 12:38

I’d join a Facebook group. The Us for Them England FB group is full of anti dementors but also has an unfortunate number of 5G tinfoil-hatters and other conspiracy theorists.

Willow2017 · 06/07/2020 12:39

Thanks Dowser will look into that.

Ibake I don't think anyone would bat an eyelid if you had a French chateaux or a mansion in Cheshire, I certainly wouldn't. Everyone has different lives and just because i cant afford something doesnt mean everyone else has to pretend they cant either. Diversity makes life interesting.

I can't stand the posters on here who just because they have never experienced something jump straight in with sarcasm and "I have never had to deal with that so it never happenes." crap. Happens on every subject under the sun. Or worse still "Never happened to me it must be your fault." Serious lack of empathy and the ability to see beyond your own life experiences on here at times.

incognitomum · 06/07/2020 12:41

I'll start a private F B page any idea of a name? You can message me for details.

Bollss · 06/07/2020 12:42

@bookworm14

I’d join a Facebook group. The Us for Them England FB group is full of anti dementors but also has an unfortunate number of 5G tinfoil-hatters and other conspiracy theorists.
I've noticed that too. They've started deleting the conspiracy theorists, thankfully!
incognitomum · 06/07/2020 12:44

Tis made Grin message for name.