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What gift items do you remember from your childhood which would never be gifts today?

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FredaFrogspawn · 02/07/2020 22:34

Another thread ended up accidentally debating the fact that ashtrays were common gifts for weddings or twenty first birthdays. I remember big marble or onyx ones, and ones on a stand which went by the arm of the chair. No one smoked in our house and we still had a shed load of these things.
Another thing I remember is steering wheel covers, in pleather. What were those about?? And leather covers for the TV listings magazines we all had to have before papers printed what was on with ‘Radio Times’ self importantly embossed on them. (My dad kept his TV Times in there and ringed the programmes he wanted to watch with a Quink ink capitalised ‘Tell Dad When This Is On.’)

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letsgomaths · 05/07/2020 08:55

Long before my childhood, I expect lots of little boys would have received the following present in their stockings: a tie. They must have been thrilled! In my dad's Meccano set (a much more fitting present), the metal box containing the tools and nuts was embossed with a picture of a smiling little boy, wearing a tie, as they did in the 1950s.

@Cornetto69 I remember seeing other children doing woodwork at my primary school (aged 5), but for some reason, I never got to do it myself.

Were sleeping masks a thing 20-30 years ago? They seem to be a popular present now: shops such as Claire's Accessories are full of them. But I could imagine some children nowadays being less than thrilled to receive one. "I can't see anything!" they might say.

gingerpassthegin · 05/07/2020 09:21

Oh dear I still use notelets. Autocorrect doesn’t even know the word. The shame.

Soap on a rope.

wanderings · 05/07/2020 09:26

Are Wendy houses still popular?

Someone in my class at school told us about the elaborate way she was presented with one. Her mum took her on a short car journey, which was actually back to her own house, but she didn't know that, because she was blindfolded. She was led inside the Wendy house and sat on a chair, and the curtains over the windows were closed. She was then told to take off her blindfold, to make the gradual and thrilling discovery that the house was in her own garden, and that it was her very own!

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HansBanans · 05/07/2020 09:38

Always used to get an annual. It was always something like The Beano, The Dandy or Dennis the Menace. And those artsy fartsy glass jewellery boxes that you decorated yourself.

Also salt-dough items were quite popular for children in the 90s if I remember correctly 😬

Fishfingersandwichplease · 05/07/2020 09:41

I think you are allowed to stay somewhere else for a certain amount of time (3 months maybe?) before you have to declare it to the council.

sueelleker · 05/07/2020 09:47

Are bath bombs not just a modern version of the bath cube?
They're similar, but bath bombs fizz; whereas cubes just used to lie there sadly and disintegrate.

StopTheWorldImGettingOffNow · 05/07/2020 10:00

Rubik's Cube- I list this one because I never see them around today. do they still make them?

Absolutely - my DH is a speed cuber Blush and he's teaching my 4 year old as a party trick Grin

Gingernaut · 05/07/2020 10:08

cubes just used to lie there sadly and disintegrate

Ah yes. Getting into the bath and feeling the gritty, sand-like remains of the cube under your arse is the reason why I don't buy cubes or bombs. Yeurgh! 😖

dancinfeet · 05/07/2020 10:10

The game Perfection / Superfection. You had to set a timer then try to complete the puzzle before the timer expired, or the platform would jump up and shake the pieces off. It was sudden, loud and violent and frightened the shit out of me every single time. But I still played it, and jumped out of my skin.

Those little net stocking selection packs that always had opal fruits in, and my mum pinching the opal fruits when she thought I wasn't looking (!). Packs of plastic Shrinkles to be coloured in and baked in the oven and a new pack of felt tip pens. Avon kids makeup and bath stuff that made me itch but got used anyway.

In the 90s it seemed to be a thing to buy all men (especially young blokes) random products with the Guinness logo on. Guinness glass (useful), Guinness shower gel, Guinness T-Shirt, Guinness egg cup, Guinness coasters (hmmm), big fluffy novelty Guinness slippers shaped like a glass (WTF?!) . Also, any novelty giant slippers (dinosaur, monster feet, various kinds of dogs all seemed to be very popular) that were a general trip hazard and always fell off your feet halfway up or down the stairs, were a big thing in the 90s. Ladies always seemed to get various household appliances for Christmas like a sandwich toaster or deep fat fryer, or for smaller gifts, towels or tea towels. Men got socks, ties, cufflinks, golf themed gifts or boxer shorts and liquorice all sorts . No one in our house played golf.

New knickers and socks were a staple of the christmas stocking in the 1970s and early 1980s in our household, as was the annual new ballet and tap shoes two sizes too big for me as I went to dance class; these were to put away for when I grew into them. Those plastic handbags that came flat and you clipped the seams together, and everything small fell out of the holes, so you had to put a plastic bag inside your bag to stop you losing your belongings. Little leather purse on a long string to hang around your neck with your name stamped on (usually picked up by middle class Aunt and Uncle back in the summer on their holiday to Spain, where they could have the name of their choice printed on various items at the local market). Ceramic sign for your bedroom door with little picture, your name and stating that it is your bedroom in case visitors were unaware of the fact or in case your mum forgot which was your room, and pencils from the Studio catalogue with your name on them. All very coveted if you had an unusual name that wasn't on the usual personalised fare found at the seaside such as pens, notebooks, rubbers and rulers. Why it was so exciting to get a pencil with your name on, I'll never know but I remember the thrill of unwrapping a pack of pencil crayons from my godmother with my name on, and my mum telling me that under no circumstances must they be taken to school, but must be kept at home for 'best'. We were always keeping things for 'best' which meant keeping them in a drawer, box or on a shelf in their packaging. it was fine to get them out to take a wondrous look at them but under no circumstances should they ever be used. There was great uncertainty as to how important an occasion it needed to be to require the use of the 'best' items, therefore they generally never got used and so languished for years in their drawer, box or on their shelf until finally making their final journey to the charity shop circa 1999.

As a teenager in the mid-late 90's, the desirable gifts were a mini or midi hifi system with CDs, gold heart signet ring, gold hoop earrings and a pair of Doc Martens. I loved those Doc Martens and wore them all through sixth form.

Blackbear19 · 05/07/2020 10:27

Yip keeping things for best is a thing of the past in my house.

We have a bunnikins set that a friend was surprised to see me use daily. My logic is you either keep it for 'best' therefore it never gets used or you use it and risk it getting broken but at least it's used.

Novelty slippers Grin

letsgomaths · 05/07/2020 12:44

I love my novelty slippers! I have loads of pairs, here is my favourite pair. When I was at university in the late 90s, lots of students (both boys and girls) wore big novelty slippers round the hall of residence, and to dinner.

What gift items do you remember from your childhood which would never be gifts today?
Gatekeeper · 05/07/2020 13:30

@GellerYeller @MillyDilly

I've still got my Snoopy watch- was a Christmas present 1978. It came with a denim look strap which has long gone the distance but the watch itself still works perfectly Smile

What gift items do you remember from your childhood which would never be gifts today?
CompleteBarstool · 05/07/2020 13:43

Some of the things on this thread have reminded me of a slightly eccentric great aunt we had.

She lived in a village that only had a couple of shops and never went anywhere else. One of the shops was IIRC a sort of homeware/gift/general store place so we had some interesting presents back on the 70s. Hmm

One year my brother and I had these massive wrapped presents from her and got all excited (also relieved that it wasn't going to be a random ornament)...they were blankets. Plain, old fashioned bed blankets .

Notfeelinggreattoday · 05/07/2020 14:39

Bendy toys - stunk of rubber/ plastic i had a gonzo one
Cindy house and accessories , then barbie came along with her much more glam stuff
Roller skates , bog metal clunky ones

nephthys · 05/07/2020 16:03

Cinderella shoes made of pink plastic with silver glitter in them. They had thin heels and a plastic strip at the front to hold them on. I coveted them for years but my mum refused to let me have them.

I think the soaps referred to earlier were made by ‘Bronnley’.

The junior smokers kits had a pipe made of liquorice with red sprinkles on the bowl bit to make it look as if it was alight.

daysofpearlyspencer · 05/07/2020 16:19

Chemistry set with an actual Bunsen burner, you could practically build your own bomb.

Nurse outfits for girls. Doctors outfits for boys.

daysofpearlyspencer · 05/07/2020 16:22

Wedding presents were washing up bowls and ironing boards, ashtrays and Whitefield trifle bowls.

TinkersRucksack · 05/07/2020 16:25

@VanGoghsDog I still have Totes Toasties going strong that are over 20 years old. They don't make things like that any more sighs wistfully

luckylavender · 05/07/2020 16:28

China wimsey (?) animals.

luckylavender · 05/07/2020 16:30

@VanGoghsDog - Wisden is still a thing in the cricketing fraternity

TinkersRucksack · 05/07/2020 16:32

Muppet show soap in the shape of Kermit or Miss Piggy. I remember the Kermit one smelled lovely.

letsgomaths · 05/07/2020 16:40

@daysofpearlyspencer I'm intrigued by the actual Bunsen burner: was it one that actually used gas? Would you connect it to the gas supply, or did it have a gas cylinder? I had a chemistry set with a methylated spirit burner, but I was so terrified to use the it, even with my dad's help, that the set only came out twice in my whole childhood.

We had lots of practical joke items: "snapper hand", squirt camera/calculator, trick dagger which looked unsettlingly realistic (unthinkable now), snake in nut tin, snappy chewing gum, black face soap; these things were seen in the school playground regularly.

Also, boxes of conjuring tricks were popular. Would children like them now? I sometimes do tricks for my nieces: pushing a drinking glass through the table is my favourite one.

Elderflower14 · 05/07/2020 16:44

Soap on a rope!!

daysofpearlyspencer · 05/07/2020 16:51

@letsgomaths I used methalated spirit and a wick, I would be left on my own with it and a box of matches!

VanGoghsDog · 05/07/2020 16:54

[quote luckylavender]@VanGoghsDog - Wisden is still a thing in the cricketing fraternity [/quote]
Good to hear! I might sell his vintage ones on eBay!