My children have been playing in unsanitised trees, and on untested impromptu rope swings for months.
I gave up steering them past playgrounds when it was confirmed that 3 months off school was not enough and that they were going to spend at least 5.5 months away from school, friends and teachers. Yet still they see other members of the community walking past our house to school. School is virtually across the road so they have to see it most of the times we go for a walk.
They have not seen their far flung family since Christmas.
I haven't been able to arrange for them to play with their friends, everone else has other priorities or social phobias.
They have not hot access to an age appropriated edication. Ds2's teacher keeps in touch, DS1's teacher has not contacted him directly since 20th March.
They can't handle phonecalls / zoom, and cannot access their scouting meeting.
Their other sports/ extra curriculars are suspended indefinitely. For DS1 in particular, this matters because with his dyspraxia all progress is hard won and easily regressed.
I can't get started on DS1's EHCP application, this may well affect secondary transition as really, he needed it before y6... I've been banging my head against the system for 3 years already.
They are 7 and 9. They have made far more than enough sacrifices for far too long already. We gave up walking on past accessible playgrounds weeks ago.
First time, my bright, lively cheerful 7 year old had spent days moping around, being angry, ranty and rude, quite frankly he was depressed which is heartbreaking to see in a child who is naturally so sunny.
We went for a walk. Outdoor gym was accessible. I let them play. Main playground locked up and overgrown. Then off the main park, a housing estate has a smaller community playground we walked in. Never before have I enjoyed such a lovely hour shivvering on a bench in a sharp wind from the sheer joy of watching my children climb, balance, swing, bounce, run. It ignited their imaginations and bought joy to their hearts.
It's not just about playgrounds, it's a metaphor for all the other combined deprivations that are harming a generation of children.
Fuck the guidence. We play at our own risk.