I want sexual conversion therapy to convert me to lesbianism

[alittlelower]

Because all the men I meet are sexist gits. Probably because I am middle aged and all the decent functioning men are married. I feel like I should just give up and wait for the widowers to appear.

Anyway, here is my recent experience in total:
No1 Called me 'babe' (I hate that), called me sweetheart when I disagreed with him. Not interested in foreplay - just sticking his dick.
No 2 Bigged himself up as a marxist - feminist - facebook feed full of feminist stuff like reposting the 'rapist is you' protests - hit me on the arse with a wooden spoon, pinned me down with my wrists during sex, when I struggled to get free, held me down harder.
No 3 - never touched me during sex, just stuck his dick in then asked me if I wanted to be his sex slave.
No 4 - chatting online to guy who seemed nice but then called me babe and talked about hitting me over the head and dragging me to bed.
Needless to say of the above they were very short lived, or ended immediately after terrible sex experiences. I'm fucking fed up. I wish sexual conversion therapy were a thing. I'd be paying to convert to lesbianism.

Well that and the fact that op doesnt fancy women. So is neither bi or bi curious. Wistful thinking because it might be an easier life if we could date women is not the sand thing as sexual orientation.

But I do think a sexuality orientated towards women is a thing that can be dormant but awoken if you meet the right woman. IMHO. Nothing to stop you finding out. Look online is what one does nowadays surely?

ffs

Onalongsabatical, I really think title was tongue in cheek. I can admire a beautiful woman, her eyes, her lips or breasts, but I really could never get myself aroused from fondling breasts or kissing a woman. Tried it. Sometimes you are just straight, and thats ok 😂

Just out of interest, what is a political lesbian?

I am heterosexual and married but do sometimes think that I would really enjoy a relationship with a woman. However I have never had a sexual experience with one so it's all a bit theoretical.

Try online, maybe for other bi curious women. You'll almost certainly get more orgasms with someone lesbian or bi, but maybe not with someone 'bi curious' but at least you'd have fun trying

Honestly though. Those men! Where are you finding them?!? Do you talk about what you want and like beforehand?'hetero relationships are crap for that but it's a good thing to practise. Set your stall out, tell them you like to dominate men and make them into your sex slave, you won't get any nonsense with wooden spoons then - unless it's you wielding it . They won't be all that disappointed if you just tell them to make you cum in a strict voice, instead of tying them to the bedpost and whipping them (unless that's your thing of course). Win win

There are just as many horrible people who are woman as there are horrible people who are men.

I think you have had a really traumatic time (and been raped). After a abusive relationship I have chosen to be alone and the relief is enormous. I’d happily be like this forever. Would like a third baby though ☹️

A political lesbian is a woman who has decided for feminist reasons to have relationships with women and not men. I actually think the proportion of women who are really straight and couldn't is probably quite small. Of course there are some. But less than you might think.

@MaybeDoctor
I think a political lesbian means choosing lesbianism in order to support feminism and fight sexism.
So they regard their sexual orientation as a political choice.

There are just as many people who are woman

Just the one then?

'Horrible'

Oops sorry @onalongsabbatical
You got there first 😊

Relationships with women are so much nicer. I got lured back by the dick but am throughly fed up with the lack of consideration and romance.

And to a PP I once got unsolicited boob pics from a woman on a lesbian FB page

@Samtsirch no probs, you added more nuance to the explanation.

If (when) i end up single again, without a doubt, i shall seek out a lesbian relationship.
I'm sick of men too. Even the good ones are complete dickheads, and I've always enjoyed women - although funnily enough, not so much as friends?

@Skelebat thanks for answering that! Lots of men seem keen to show their dicks off to random women but as a woman, I've never felt the desire to send a dirty pic to a stranger!

Thanks both!

It was only the once so a rare occurance.

Funnily enough I've never gotten a dick pic but never really spoke to blokes in a flirty way online

You can never force or convert your sexual orientation, but I do understand why some straight women want to.

As a bisexual woman, who is married to a woman and does still find men attractive, I can honestly say that there is no comparison. Women (well..my woman specifically ) are awesome! The connection is on another level and I hear it again and again.

Saying that, if you have absolutely no desire for another woman and the thought does absolutely nothing for you, you can never genuinely change your sexuality to something that it isn't. Plus, you don't want to waste another woman's time who is genuinely questioning their sexuality. You could end up unintentionally hurting someone.

I don't know what the right answer is OP. I don't believe that all men are dickheads though.

There are a lot of good ones out there. The challenge will be finding one of them.

The connection is on another level and I hear it again and again

Yeah, thinking about, I don't think there's ever been a real connection between me and a male partner. I may have enjoyed their company, but I don't think there was much of an emotional attunement from them to me. Maybe I have just had terrible relationships though.

The last lot don't sound great

As I get older, I separate out my needs. My female friends are so much better for emotional support and connection. Male sexual energy has its own place. Female sexual energy is different again. I certainly don't want a full emotional relationship with a man again. I haven't met any that are capable of the emotional depth that I want.

(Strap ons are much better than cocks btw. You choose the size and they never go soft)

I have had some horrendous experiences with men starting from abuse of all kinds in my childhood and also domestic violence, sexual assault. So I avoid relationships with them. Could you not just do that? It isn't possible to make yourself lesbian?

Or is this meant to be a light hearted thread and I am missing the point?Apologies If I am.

What does happen is that women often find out they are more bisexual over time. I mean I am very happy with my husband, but people like beautiful women like Gilian Anderson try women out in their forties and like it! I am not a scientist, but reading articles about sexual neuropsychology is very interesting! Maybe one day we'll have nanobots or something which will allow us to alter who we are into. I can imagine you aren't the only one who wants to be a lesbian!

Do you know what, I did start this thread as a bit tongue in cheek, but upon reflection, I don't think I do like men that much - at least not emotionally/ romantically: just sexually. But I've always had sexual fantasies involving women. Maybe I should think about this more seriously.