"If you are good, ambitious and hardworking there is little to hold you back".
Where to start....By the time your three, the amount of language variation you've been exposed to in a well educated family is significantly higher.
Then there's access to a decent education where educators have expectations of you, support from home to read, write. If you're in a poor area, we are, schools are fighting so many battles.
Drug addict parents, children being evicted, 8 different first languages in DD's class when she joined, 10 at the stage we decided to use our economic privalege to move school.
Six mums in the class had no real English. Barely litterate unengaged/ actively abusive parents/ carers, several children who were in and out of care, several children sofa surfing, children who haven't seen many hot meals in their lives.
Many of those children have enormous potential but you could see the complete lack of educational progress support and ambition for them. How can they have the same ambition as a child who sees at home and has drummed in the pathway to progress?
Cost of further study beyond school when your family are strugling and over crowded and think you'll fail so not only don't support you but undermine your confidence in the guise of being realistic.
Cost of transport to get to interview, cost of a suit, ability to know how to behave entering a professional environment you haven't had exposure to.
Its not that it can't be done, its that these barriers are big and exhausting to get over and over and over. Its not any one thing, its the sum total of all of them.
Are the carers and cleaners putting in 60plus hours a week not good and hardworking? How when at minimum wage when they finish work exhausted with money that isn't even a living wage are they not held back from seeking further study/ progression/ a career?
So many of these things run in cycles, unless we break the cycle we wont move forwards.