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Is my baby gifted?

292 replies

Daddynotmummy84 · 06/06/2020 00:13

Hi all. First time poster, long time lurker.
With this being my first child, and the current issues making it difficult to compare my son to other babies development, I thought I'd ask for opinions here. A little of where my boy is at. He's 17 months, almoat outgrowing his 18-24 month clothes (bloody expensive). He can speak around 80 spoken words and 40ish in sign language. He's able to stack things really well (his best so far was 14 blocks). When it comes to puzzles etc he does the shapes in the slots really easy, same with the animal pizzles etc. Also, he only has to see you do something once, occasionally twice, and he can do it himself (within limits obviously). To this extent he now has to have his own tool kit and power drill out when I do DIY to do his own little project. He feeds himsel, helpa with food preparation, loads and unloads the washer and drier, even walks around picking up bits of rubbish to put in the bin or pulls the vaccum out and uses it (it's always on, the plug is behind a secure lock so he can't get to it. What I want to know, is this normal for a kid his age?
Oh, I feel I should mention he was crawling at 4 months, walking at 7 and a half months. At 9 months he wasn't speaking, other than the odd word, but could make 3 worded sentences with sign language.

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NewModelArmyMayhem18 · 06/06/2020 08:31

It would be really interesting to know what % of people who are deemed gifted are also neuro-diverse (I suspect that it's high).

notgoodreally · 06/06/2020 08:32

I don't think you can really tell when they're toddlers. DH is a genius according to IQ but I'm sure he wasn't ridiculously advanced as a child. Obviously watching him now as an adult it's obvious he's not your average bloke.

Although as @GrumpyHoonMain said it can actually lead to undesirable traits due to sheer boredom.

LuluJakey1 · 06/06/2020 08:32

@Somewhereinthesky Yes, it has come so easily to him we think he may have been Isaac Newton in a previous life.

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icansmellburningleaves · 06/06/2020 08:34

Oh OP you’ve really set yourself up for this piss taking. Don’t give a small child a label like this. You are setting him up for failure, not to mention setting yourself up for huge amounts of ridicule.

Onesnowynight · 06/06/2020 08:36

Ds took part in a university study due to his language skills and reading ability at 2. He’s not a genius and still struggles to use the washing machine and dishwasher. Don’t get overly excited. Just enjoy what he can do and accept that much. Best was a lady in Asda when he went in dressed as Bob the Builder ‘Do you want to be a builder?’ Ds looked at her and said not I want to be an astrophysicist’. Did that make him a genius? No, my step father just read the Times to him each day and it was a word he liked. (Although her ‘what’s that?’ Reaction was better 😂)

OutwiththeOutCrowd · 06/06/2020 08:36

He sounds like he's going to be something more important than gifted - helpful!

(He may also be gifted.)

Healthyandhappy · 06/06/2020 08:37

Apparently I was having full conversations at 17 months like a 5 yr old. I'm not gifted some kids do things at different rates. But your baby is lovely and healthy and hes a cleaver boy. Crawling at 4 months I presume u mean dragging his belly on the floor not chasing the cat round the house. Walking at 9 months my husband did this. My dd whose 5 started talking at nearly 3.5 4. All at diff rates. But enjoy your beautiful baby and plx dont compare

Somewhereinthesky · 06/06/2020 08:39

Really, Lulu? Is it so funny to take a piss? Good for you. Having gifted child comes with a price, for me at least. Mine has so many negatives in his life, but his gift is one thing that keeps him going forward. And worry started as a baby, because he was so different before he was even a year old. But yeah, some parents with healthy normal children with no significant worry can take piss out of them just for fun. Great.

BigBreakfast · 06/06/2020 08:40

DS1 could identify all the letters before he could talk and amazed people with this jigsaw skills at 18mo. At 19yo he's lovely but decidedly average. Grin

He sounds great but you have a long way to go.

MittensTheSerpent · 06/06/2020 08:41

Best was a lady in Asda when he went in dressed as Bob the Builder ‘Do you want to be a builder?’ Ds looked at her and said not I want to be an astrophysicist’.

Awful. If a child of mine said anything so priggish I'd be embarrassed.

NewNNsoShootMe · 06/06/2020 08:42

If this is real then be careful what you wish for OP.

Flibbitygibbit · 06/06/2020 08:42

Oh yes. dS1 could play a mean game of Jenna at 2 months.

Flibbitygibbit · 06/06/2020 08:43

Jenga ... auto correct 🙄

ThisIsMyStory1 · 06/06/2020 08:44

My second DS was reading at 17 months, like actually sounding words out and reading, it was utterly bizarre. He's nearly 4 now and you can't get anything past him and he reads for fun, but he still licks the dog and tried to kiss the toilet yesterday. All about balance 🤷🏻‍♀️

coronabeer23 · 06/06/2020 08:45

Crawling at 4 months I presume u mean dragging his belly on the floor not chasing the cat round the house

@happyandhealthy My 3rd was proper crawling at 4 months, long before he could sit. It wasn’t funny, it was extremely annoying. In comparison eldest was a good 11 months before crawling and 10 months sitting. Neither is a genius

Ducksarenotmyfriends · 06/06/2020 08:46

My brother's were thought to have a learning disability when really little. They've all now got phds, families, great jobs Grin

Soontobe60 · 06/06/2020 08:47

@PyongyangKipperbang

I have 6 kids. One has learning issues (29 and in discussions with a MAJOR company about marketing his latest game), one is bang on average (working in medicine) 2 who are officially gifted and 2 who may go either way.

With all of them, I wouldnt make the call until they are atleast 6 and even then, gifted in what? My officially gifted kids are gifted in different thingx.

Be proud and happy, but dont think about it too much yet.

How do you get to be 'officially gifted'???
MrsLully · 06/06/2020 08:49

Now seriously, OP. If your post is actually serious and not a piss take I apologize for joking around.
If your wee one can do all of those things, I would say they are gifted for sure Smile

HouseOfEdwards · 06/06/2020 08:49

Licking the floor or discovering an ancient archeological find?

My dd2 actually did walk at 8 months. As she was my second child I pushed her over immediately. I'd thought I'd had four more months of peace.

LuluJakey1 · 06/06/2020 08:50

@Somewhereinthesky
Have a Halo and read the OP. It isn't serious. None gives a 17m old a power drill!
The thread isn't about you. It's a joke.

FourPlasticRings · 06/06/2020 08:51

How do you get to be 'officially gifted'???

They give you a special certificate. Grin

I imagine it's by dint of school labelling you as such. My sister and I were both 'gifted' according to our secondary schools. Hmm

Nomorepies · 06/06/2020 08:51

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recycledteenager24 · 06/06/2020 08:54

i really think that op is taking the piss with this on the the back of another thread of outlandish things read on mn.
come on, do some posters really believe op's dc is doing ALL these things ? Confused

awesomeaircraft · 06/06/2020 08:54

I love the idea of a 17month old using his own power drill!

I picture baby Herman from Roger Rabbit Grin

belfasteast · 06/06/2020 08:56

OP in real life if your child even exists your baby is exceeding expecting milestones. On MN however, he merely sounds average Grin