Can you ask your husbands/boyfriends a question for me?

[LowBatt]

And settle a discussion with me and DP.

Ignore feminist principals for a minute

“If you had to choose between coming home from work to an immaculate house, dinner cooked for you, washed and ironed clothes and a lovely pair of smiley happy kids but NO sex ever again OR you can come home to a messy house, DIY dinner, a pile of dirty clothes and you have to sort the kids out but you get the ride of your life every single night for the rest of your life, which one would you choose?

Husband says he just wouldn't come home! Party pooper 😆

DH says alternate days for each option. Greedy!!

I would love to come home from my massively stressful job to a cooked meal, sorted out kids. I’m great at masterbation. However I’m a woman

Dh has gone to bed but I think he'd say No1 - ride of his life every night - that sounds like our first year together - it was great but we were 20 years younger - now we just crave a good night's sleep.

Hubby says it's not a fair question he's a neat freak haha but also every night is abit Mcuh lol

He just grinned and said "who with?" he's very pleased with himself for that. Good job we have rule of funny in this house.

When pressed, he's going for option 2.

@ImNotShpanishImEgyptshun 😂😂 what a cheek. You should’ve responded with the MN classic ‘did you mean to be so rude?’ 😂 he would’ve been stunned into silence at such wit

I'm not asking him, but he'd definitely choose the former. I'd choose the latter. No matter how hard I might try, the former is impossible.

Stupid question. You couldn't have 'the ride of your life' every night.

Plus, ffs, it's not a fucking binary. Women aren't sex or cleaning machines. We're individuals. With thoughts and feelings. Anyone who could ask that question has a problem.

@Jashartsx I replied with "you would say that to your wife on her due date?" To which he replied "yep and you can absolutely quote me on there" 😁 He's a sweetheart really.

He just grinned and said "who with?"

:-)

I would choose option 2 myself.

#1 as he's obsessed with tidiness

haven’t asked him but i know he’s choose the same as me; 1! sex not huge priority to either of us but as a sahm and a wfh dad our home and surroundings are very important to us and happy children make for a happy life!

He said the rogering sex, he doesn't mind helping out around the house.

He said 1

As a man, the latter, but then I always pulled my weight with children and housework.

He said if he did the cleaning, cooking, keeping children happy, would I give him option 2 every night. Deal. 🤔😁

The sex one. He couldn't really care less about the state of the house and DIY dinner would mean him eating junk food every day which would delight him.

2nd for mine.. Although he did ask if he could have the first but, still have blow jobs!!
I've been too good to him.

DH puts up with the latter without the sex atm so I'd be confident in saying he'd definitely choose 2

My dh asked if there was a middle ground where the clothes are in the process of being washed and the kids are happy but he has to do the rest before a mutually enjoyable shag?
Fair play to him, he's very fair!

I would love number 1 / DH would love number 2.

I bloody knew I was right

DP went for the former, I thought most men would go for the latter.

FWIW, he’s option 1, I’m 2

Obviously 2. OP didn't say a dirty house but a messy house, IMO there's a difference. Also in no.2 the children are specifically unhappy just in no.1 they're happy. And personally a relationship without sex which has previously had sex involved is not something I could live with never mind my husband! No.2 sounds much more like real life (ok not every night) and enjoyable than living like a Stepford
Wife thanks, and my DH would definitely agree

The first option. He's a major clean freak.