Can you ask your husbands/boyfriends a question for me?

[LowBatt]

And settle a discussion with me and DP.

Ignore feminist principals for a minute

“If you had to choose between coming home from work to an immaculate house, dinner cooked for you, washed and ironed clothes and a lovely pair of smiley happy kids but NO sex ever again OR you can come home to a messy house, DIY dinner, a pile of dirty clothes and you have to sort the kids out but you get the ride of your life every single night for the rest of your life, which one would you choose?

Dh would choose 1. I'd choose 2. It's always been that way unfortunately.

But I'm not going to try and force him to have sex, it's less cruel to force him to do all of the chores while he's furloughed!

DH said the first one and he will go for a wank 🤣🤣

He said he would have the sex

I had a menopausal/hormonal blip a couple of years ago. I wanted sex all the time. It lasted about 4 months. DP said in future he would be careful what he wished for.

Dh says he'd take option 1. Apparently dealing with the kids and no dinner is a deal breaker. We clearly aren't matched because I'd pick the opposite.

Mine says 2 unless he has a headache.

He would say 2 but I'd say 1.

Mine says 1 he would find someone else for the sex

I couldn't enjoy sex or any other sensual pleasure ie eating etc in a dirty house. DP same.

Second one for us both, thanks 😄

He went for option two, he also pointed out that he does most the laundry, the cleaning and my son isn’t his so not his to feed, bathe etc.

My DH said he'd choose the housework and happy kids.

I said he could always choose the sex and pay someone to do the housework, and he said he could pay someone for the sex for that matter!!

DH is now in the doghouse!

@Justmuddlingalong

I had a menopausal/hormonal blip a couple of years ago. I wanted sex all the time. It lasted about 4 months. DP said in future he would be careful what he wished for.

ha ha lightweight!

He said the ride of his life obviously.

Apparently he’d choose the latter.....but still moan about the lack of the former 😏

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I think it will be very overcrowded in the dog house after this thread 😂

I’d go for number 1 (though it would be a tough call), DP would go for number 2 without doubt

My DP said no sex and I don't get to do anything that is a double blow, so definitely be the latter for him. He loves cooking, cleaning and sex...lucky me 🥰🥰🥰

DH says he really doesn’t care if the house is tidy, he doesn’t mind cooking and he can wash his own clothes, but could we knock the amazing sex down to every other night because he’s not a machine.

1 for both of us

1. He doesn’t care about the house.

I’m a messy bugger and not attracted to women so would definitely prefer to have the first type of wife please.

Dh said 2. I dont believe him as he has such a poor sex drive and he is sick of making dinner every night.

Both say 2.

DP would go for number 2, because getting to cook dinner is a good thing. I'd like to think the possibility of sex would play into it, but frankly, we have a sleepless toddler, so I'm fairly sure it's the cooking that would swing it.

Before I ask him, I can imagine without being put on the spot and forced to choose, a high number of men will believe they should have both.

I will now ask him, but I think he's going to go for option 2