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Fruit is NOT a special dessert.

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CCaK · 21/04/2020 18:02

Discuss.

I won't say which side I'm on.

Is a special dessert fruit?

Or

A big gooey sticky toffee pud/cheesecake/pie and custard.

OP posts:
Ilovesausages · 22/04/2020 04:06

Fruit on its own is not dessert

But IMO fruits are beautiful and can go with a dessert to make it exquisite

Like poached pears, orange caramel, trifle, any fruit pie or crumble, lemony anything! Chocolate with any berries.

So for me, plain fruit - no. But fruit and something delicious would win me over.

Aridane · 22/04/2020 06:07

Fruit is really expensive once you get to the nice stuff like raspberries and a luxury / treat when you’re feeding hungry mouths

daisychain01 · 22/04/2020 06:11

We had some lovely raspberries yesterday. Really sweet and fragrant. Best of the season so far.

Banana fritters and ice cream nice.

Forest fruit crumble, nice with custard

Boring fruit in a bowl with nothing added, a bit miserable.

ivykaty44 · 22/04/2020 06:14

Rhubarb, slowly cooked add Greek yogurt
Melon & strawberry’s with a scattering of blueberries
Hot fruit salad with star anise

Sweetener12 · 22/04/2020 06:32

Nope. Fruits are what we have to eat everyday and dessert is a special nice treat. I wouldn't consider an ordinary food to be a special treat.

Winifredgoose · 22/04/2020 06:41

It depends on the context. For example, at the moment I buy a couple of mangos a week. My children love them, and on the day one is ripe, it is definitely a treat for them to have it after lunch etc. So it is a 'special dessert'. Similarly once a week as the moment we will have berries with cream, and it is viewed as a treat, and therefore 'special'.
However, if it was my husbands birthday, or we had guests for a special meal or just sunday lunch, and I excitedly went and fetched a ripe mango to peel instead of a cake/dessert such as you describe, there would be disappointment and it would not seem special.

Goatinthegarden · 22/04/2020 06:43

Fruit is what I put in a little tub to snack on at break times at work to keep me away from chocolate.

I haven’t really eaten much fruit since lockdown. I much prefer veggies...

MIL always serves soup for lunch and then brings the fruit bowl to the table and offers it round. I find that weird, it would never occur to me to eat fruit AFTER a meal. I would either have a proper dessert as a treat or nothing at all.

Strugglingtodomybest · 22/04/2020 06:50

A fruit salad which someone else has made is definitely a treat imo.

I'm not sure that apple and banana counts though, I think you'd need at least 3 fruits to qualify as a fruit salad.

megletthesecond · 22/04/2020 06:55

Fruit is not dessert full stop.
It's a snack or goes with breakfast.

MyFamilyAndOtherAnimals1 · 22/04/2020 07:01

Fruit is something to be eaten before a meal - not after!

GlamGiraffe · 22/04/2020 07:05

Nice fruit is pretty much a daily thing in out house, my daughter and I love it (although I hate strawberries which is highly controversial😂)
Whenever I fo a really fancy dinner, I AM the dessert queen so along with my molten chocolate mousse cake, baked Alaska, souflees, etc I always fo a plate of really lovely fruits. Ripe mango and super sweet pineapple, lychees, dragon fruits, great charantais melon if I can get it, and raspberries. I fo get the strawberries gorceveryobe else. When they are beautifully prepared and ripe they ate wonderful. I tend to go for the fruit or plain ice cream I'm not into cooked fruit.

So @CCaK which camp are you in?

YinuCeatleAyru · 22/04/2020 07:09

traditionally fruit very much is a dessert - "eating" apples (as opposed to cooking apples) are also known as Dessert Apples. the very word Dessert initially meant a fruit course (properly done with beautiful cascading fruit arrangements).

obviously something with cream and chocolate and lots of fat is a fantastic end to a meal but we shouldn't let that be our default assumption for how a good meal should end. I would agree that "ordinary boring" fruits don't make a "special" dessert, just an ordinary dessert. but more unusual or difficult fruits like a whole fresh pineapple for example could certainly be special.

Mominatrix · 22/04/2020 07:21

Fruit is not a special dessert. It is an essential food group.

My elderly French in-laws eat is quite an old fashioned country way and they only eat fruit occasionally and only as a dessert.

I grew up in a very different way with cases of different fruit always around, and it was what we ate everyday throughout the day and not saved for special desserts. TBH, dessert was not a part of our diet as it is not part of the traditional cuisine that my parents grew up in, so it was not a part of our lifestyle.

I do understand that to my in-law's generation, except for summer fruit, it was just not around much and was seen as a luxury. However, today with even berries readily available frozen, it really is not a luxury.

squeekums · 22/04/2020 07:44

No chocolate, no cream or ice cream, no caramel or custard - not dessert to me
Fruit is a snack

scubadive · 22/04/2020 07:55
Biscuit
Waxonwaxoff0 · 22/04/2020 08:01

Fruit isn't a special dessert. It's an everyday staple.

We don't eat dessert really in our house. We only have it if we go out for a meal. Sometimes DS has a jelly pot after dinner.

Aus84 · 22/04/2020 11:18

Not a 'special' dessert, but if had after dinner, before bed than my kids would consider a piece of fruit dessert.

YgritteSnow · 22/04/2020 11:21

obviously something with cream and chocolate and lots of fat is a fantastic end to a meal but we shouldn't let that be our default assumption for how a good meal should end.

It is my default assumption and always will be Smile

PutThemInTheIronMaiden · 22/04/2020 11:38

Discuss?

No.

strawberry2017 · 22/04/2020 11:49

If someone gave me fruit for dessert I'd be so pissed off! That is no way at all a special dessert!

MrsMop1964 · 22/04/2020 11:58

My grandma and aunts had a policy of bananas only being for the grown ups when we visited in the 70s. Definitely a hangover from rationing. But even they would have tinned fruit cocktail with evaporated milk. Their special dessert was jelly and blancmange -the flavours rotated between strawberry, chocloate or vanilla on a 3 weekly basis. To me, fruit in its natural state is not special-it's what we have when I didn't get anything in for pudding.

ifonly4 · 22/04/2020 12:03

Someone from a poor family might think of it as a special dessert as they're family probably can't afford dessert or their five a day.

I don't generally eat puddings, but I'm more likely to have some yogurt and fruit rather than a chocolate or sticky toffee pudding.

Takemebackto · 22/04/2020 12:04

I would say fruit is a snack.

Wewearpinkonwednesdays · 22/04/2020 12:07

Fruit is never a fucking treat!!! Unless it's backed into a pudding or cake, even then I want it so sugary and sweet it no longer resembles the fruit it once was.
Anyone who offers up fruit as a desert or tries to pass it off as a treat needs punched in the face.

TeddyIsaHe · 22/04/2020 12:12

It is if it’s a really good fruit, like a perfectly ripe mangosteen or lychees. I’d take those over sticky toffee pud any day.

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