Name changed for this.
At work the other day we where in a situation meaning we where outside for about 2 hours. I didn’t have a coat but I was given a blanket. However there where times where I took it off. Every time I did so a colleague would come up to me and physically put it back over me and said something on the lines of “babe you need to wear this” bit weird but fair enough (the organisation probably can’t afford for me to be ill).
Anyway, at one point I took the blanket off and my Colleague came behind me put on the blanket and said “you’re so cold, I will warm you up” and started to massage my back. I felt really uncomfortable, but didn’t want to create a scene.
The weird thing is this person is usually really professional and considerate when working, so part of me thinks it didn’t come across how they intended it to. They have also been really good to me (in a professional way).
But I do work in an Industry where sexual harassment is ridiculously high. I feel scared to complain about it as the person is very senior and there would be too many problems at my current workplace as well as potentially damaging my career.
Any advice/ information that people could give me, thanks