I’ve got to be honest, I’m a little entertained by some of these posts. The projections and assumptions that I acted unprofessionally, was awkward, condescending or openly judgemental are nonsense.
To those judging me for my judgement of others - have a think. My judgement of anyone is purely in my thoughts (until I anonymously post on an Internet forum, of course - however, this remains my thoughts, not my actions).
As I’ve already stated, I found no guidance internally, so I actively pursued this externally and, on finding it was right and proper, immediately rectified the situation, as per our legal rights. I did this without sharing my thoughts or opinions - they are mine and no one else’s business.
I do appreciate the ‘depends on circumstances’ posts. Some posters say they’d do it if being ill actually meant they’d missed out on a holiday. Absolutely! But they also say if it was a cold or such like, no way!
And to those who would hate it if I was their manager - fair enough. You’d hate it if you had a manager who researched areas they were unsure about and made sure you received your legal right, whether they agreed with it or not, without giving any indication of their personal views? Strange, but we are each entitled to our opinions