Twenty five years ago tomorrow since ds1 died....

[Elderflower14]

Feeling very sad. He was born prematurely... He had a brain haemorrhage at birth.. We had to make the decision to switch off his life support two hours later...
I've been thinking so much... Would he be married now and would I have grandchildren?
Mum and I were driving home just now and Stay Another Day came on the radio... I was sobbing... That was No 1 when ds1 was born.
Ds2 is coming home tomorrow and we are going to the grave... Just wish I had both of them with me... 😔 😔 😔 😔

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Sending so much love to you OP, and to all the others who’ve shared their losses.

Ready to go to the graveyard... My friend gave him the bauble a few years ago and I thought it had blown away... Was lovely to see it again just now....

Lots of love to you and to Jack Elderflower

Thinking of you and Jack today OP

Oh I'm so sorry to hear you lost your little Jack. Christmas must be so painful for you. Thinking of you and Jack today xx

😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 😔

I think people are so busy at this time of year that they forget that so many carry grief like this especially at Christmas.
Hugs and prayers for all of us who have lost someone close, especially if that someone was tiny

I’m sorry @Elderflower14 my first dd would have been 14 next month. I spent over a month in hospital not knowing if she would live or die. Christmas Day on the ante natal ward wasn’t a good place to be. Much love to you x

Sending much love and wishes for peace and comfort to all on this thread who have suffered such incredible loss.

Thank you everyone for all your kind messages... My friend gave me a J Candle which I lit with his others last night... 💙

Hugs.