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What do you buy your cleaner for Christmas?

30 replies

elliollie · 07/11/2019 19:43

I've employed a cleaner for the first time this year. She only does too hours a week but she has changed my life! Should have done it years ago. I want to get her something for Christmas to show how much I appreciate her.
Would you buy her a present or give her a bonus? If it's a bonus, how much would you give her?

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elliollie · 07/11/2019 19:44

Clearly, I meant two not too Blush

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MaidenMotherCrone · 07/11/2019 19:44

I'd give a bonus.... the amount depends on what you can afford.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 07/11/2019 19:49

I give a weeks money generally. Sometimes more, sometimes less depending on financial circumstances.

RaininSummer · 07/11/2019 19:52

A new duster.

Sorry only being silly.

Pol16 · 07/11/2019 19:53

I gave mine a Seasalt ‘Box o Sox’ (seven pairs). I think they were on offer with 20% off so came out at £28. She genuinely loved them and is the sort of person who prefers presents to money. I suppose it depends on the cleaner and what you think she would prefer. A bonus or vouchers for her favourite shop would also be good.

reluctantbrit · 07/11/2019 19:59

Ours get a weeks clean as an extra bonus plus chocolates or processo. I don't know my cleaner good enough to guess about home decor or other items.

DisplayPurposesOnly · 07/11/2019 20:10

As per PPs, it depends on the cleaner.

I have a gentleperson's agreement with mine that I buy her posh toiletries (Clarins, Elemis etc). Stuff she wouldn't buy herself. If I gave her ££ it would end up in the family pot so it wouldn't be for her.

Northernsoullover · 07/11/2019 20:12

I had a marks gift voucher last year. It was most appreciated. It was 15 pounds but I thought that was rather generous.

BinkySodPlop · 07/11/2019 20:13

I give mine an extra week's money, plus this year (was very new last year), a L'Occitane Xmas bauble gift. It was less than £10, but looks and smells good.

Winterdaysarehere · 07/11/2019 20:13

Cleaner here.
Appreciated gifts include :
Posh scarf!
Posh Smellies!
Nice photo frame!
Nice purse!
Always get paid for Christmas fortnight also.
Less appreciated but still nice to get gifts :
Biscuits
Chocolates
Wine
As the above 3 are assumed to be shared by family and dc!!

Waterandlemonjuice · 07/11/2019 20:14

I give a weeks pay and a bottle of wine

8by8 · 07/11/2019 20:15

Always cash - I usually give one week’s cash (roughly), and add something like a posh chocolate bar to the card.

elliollie · 07/11/2019 21:36

Great thanks. I think I'll give cash and a bottle of something for her and her dh and maybe a selection box or something for her dc.

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Pollaidh · 07/11/2019 21:41

Depends on (1) how good they are, sounds like you've got a good one, and (2) their family/financial situation.

For good cleaners I've had who were single mums and struggling, I've gone for something nice for them as a treat (really nice chocolates, or a good quality hand wash/cream set (Molton Brown, White Co, Cowshed etc), plus between 1 week and 2 weeks' pay as a bonus. On the basis they need cash but spend it all on their family, so a nice treat makes them feel valued too.

For a cleaner I'm secretly hoping will leave, a supermarket box of chocs and 1 week's pay.

Needallthesleep · 07/11/2019 21:57

Always cash. She is wonderful and I never want to lose her, so give her £50.

rosybell · 07/11/2019 22:02

Would it be ok to give a cash bonus if we use a cleaning agency? Our cleaner is fantastic, and it is the same one every week, but would she have to declare it to the agency - does anyone know?

Frazzled2207 · 07/11/2019 22:09

I would def consider a cash bonus if I had an agency cleaner.

I am already thinking about it- but my cleaner I know is comfortably off and does it part time as a hobby! Maybe a nice bottle.

moanyhole · 07/11/2019 22:27

Cash chocolates and wine

BackforGood · 07/11/2019 23:00

Another who does a week's money.
I don't know her well enough to get a gift. Always hate it when people buy me something I don't like / won't use - it seems such a waste of money, which I still hate today, but found incredibly frustrating when I was short myself.

MsPepperPotts · 07/11/2019 23:15

Same here my cleaner who is now my PCA and helps me with everything and she has changed my life so much for the better in so many ways.
I give her a weeks money(she doesn't get paid if she doesn't work) and usually something that she has mentioned she likes. Halloween Smile

HappyEverIftar · 08/11/2019 05:18

We give a month's salary. Our lovely cleaner is a very young single mum and she really does go the extra mile. I know if I asked her if she'd like a gift she'd say no, so although the cash I'm sure goes towards looking after baby, I'm hoping she has some leftover for her. Though perhaps after reading this, I'll be a bit more thoughtful and get her something just for her.

reluctantbrit · 08/11/2019 09:17

We used an agency until last year but pay the cleaner herself directly. I always gave her the cash in a Christmas card.

Our cleaner is single with adult daughter so she has the choice of eating the chocolate herself or sharing. Last year I added a chocolate santa for her grandson as the chocolates wouldn't work for a toddler.

I may look at the L'Occtaine baubles this year as well.

MinnieMountain · 08/11/2019 10:30

We give ours a week's money.
Does everyone pay over Christmas regardless?

reluctantbrit · 08/11/2019 11:36

For us it depends. Our cleaner takes the time off so we don't pay as it comes from her, not us.

A previous cleaner would come unless it was 24-26 or 31-1 but we normally declined as we didn't want to do a cleaner-tidy-up. In these cases we paid 1/2.

SunshineAngel · 08/11/2019 11:46

I made mine a chocolate hamper last year. Before she left each week we'd have either biscuit or some chocolate and a brew and I paid attention to what she picked, then made a hamper out of her favourites. Including some nice little festive treats and her favourite wine too. She seemed to like that! I don't know why, but I hate giving money as a gift, as I don't want to seem either tight or too extravagant.

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