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Which cloth pads do you recommend?

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ThreeLittleDinos · 20/10/2019 11:01

I'm boycotting always. And I figure I should finally take the leap into re-useables. What do you recommend?
And can I wash them with cloth nappies or on a separate wash?

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ThreeLittleDinos · 21/10/2019 09:39

And as bellinisurge said. Feelings have nothing to do with any of it. Except from when girls and women the die in period hurts, miss out on education, mocked and loose credibility. Over their period. That's when feelings matter and that's why it's so important to make these products for women and girls.

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PhonicTheHedgehog · 21/10/2019 10:13

I’ve been @. I’m traumatised. I’m going to have to have a lie down and a cup of tea.

Thanks for the heads up about what “mens” means on the screenshot. That’s very interesting. I did wonder if it was meant for menstruating or for men’s. It seems it’s for menstruating. Unfortunately you then blew it by the faux biology lesson.

PhonicTheHedgehog · 21/10/2019 10:22

Oh, only females menstruate. Not all females do, but only females do.

If anyone is bleeding from between their legs they are either female or a male who needs urgent medical attention.

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Bluewavescrashing · 21/10/2019 10:24

I got some on ebay. They are really soft and comfortable. Much fresher than disposable ones and I never have to buy any again!

Shirtyllama · 21/10/2019 11:00

The imse vimse pads are great, I've got the cotton jersey ones and they are soft and wash really well. I put them in a small bucket or plastic container with cold water and a teaspoon of salt first, rinse, and then wash at 60 as they suggest, no staining.

Beamur · 21/10/2019 11:23

jeslan
Thanks for coming on here and talking with us about your product. As you can see from the comments, your current users really rate your product but many prospective ones are unhappy with your approach to inclusivity.
Only female people menstruate. Not all females menstruate, but anyone who actually is experiencing menses is female.
Instead of genderwashing your site to remove this fact, you could not do both? Your product is for a female function but not everyone identifies as a woman.
You can say that out loud. This product is for women and other people too.
The removal of the word woman is important.
Everybody's feelings matter. Inclusive includes us all. People is impersonal.

Butterchunks · 21/10/2019 11:44

I asked this recently and had many recommendations for honour your flow. I've just purchased some but not used yet so can't recommend yet but I have noticed that they regularly do 20% off on Sunday evenings (they advertise when this happens on their Facebook page so it might be worth a follow).

Skyejuly · 21/10/2019 11:48

Honor your flow

CornedBeef451 · 21/10/2019 11:57

I've just bought some from here and really like them;

www.ladydaysclothpads.co.uk/

HugAMale · 16/02/2021 03:43

Having just read this thread looking for recommendations on period pads I've come away thoroughly disheartened and pretty surprised at how the thread turned. It seems a lot of people here are either misinformed or wilfully transphobic. I'm hoping the former.

For those that simply aren't that clued into gender stuff (which is fair if you've not had need to be) I'l just clarify that advertising period products as for people who menstruate is to help people who don't identify as a woman or girl but do menstruate (without excluding women and girls) such as non-binary or transgender. These people can have very serious complexes around periods and making it a little easier for them by using more inclusive language is just compassionate and costs nothing.

I am a very strong advocate of feminism and have been for a long time but the anger of gender inequality on this thread seems misdirected.
For those quoting the suffering and embarrassment periods can cause especially in 3rd worlds I would remind them that non typical gendered people who menstruate are also in that group. They also experience all the bullshit that comes along with periods except they get an extra dollop to deal with. Trans people are also more at risk from being persecuted, murdered, ostracised, ridiculed and committing suicide. It’s not a competition, I'm just pointing out that if compassion is your reasoning they are just as deserving.

The choice of words here don't cause any harm or incite anything insidious against women’s rights The reactions on this thread seem just that, knee jerk reactions. In the past (and still today annoyingly) minorities (including women) have been met with the same sort of reaction from white men when they wanted to be included. If and when they were eventually allowed, time past and nothing bad happened. This is much like that.

Menstruation doesn't define a person or their gender; many cis-women don't even menstruate and never have. Let’s be real here the people who you should be angry with are not browsing menstruation products and absolutely there is no danger of people forgetting how menstruation works given that half the population will have some experience. The choice of inclusive language is not going to perpetuate suffering only alleviate a little. You don’t even need to understand it you just need to be willing to believe someone else’s experiences without judgement.

When fighting inequality it's important to try to punch up, not down.

@ThreeLittleDinosittleDinos @SarahTancredi @galvantula @PhonicTheHedgehog @GeriAtric @bellinisurge

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