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Just to remind you

127 replies

S0CKS · 20/09/2019 18:08

Here's a little reminder to get ya through the day!
Please remember to take your meds today!
And remember to drink water!
And, if you can, try to eat something!
Your health is very important, and you have to take care of yourself.
And also, please remember to find some balance today.
If you're doing too much, rest. Advocate for yourself. Get the rest you deserve.
If you HAVE to do stuff, at least make sure you're listening to your own limits.
Your limitations are not the same as the person next to you.
You have to listen to yourself
And take care of yourself.
For yourself.
And for me.
I'm so proud of you for getting this far.

Happy Friday everybody!

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Propertyofhood · 21/09/2019 09:16

You could tell this had been lifted straight from FB or Bodyposipanda or similar's Instagram.

Grin at the first reply!

However if it does help someone out there then I'm not gonna grumble.

RosaWaiting · 21/09/2019 09:20

“If it doesn’t resonate with you, is it harming you?”

Well, I suffer with depression and anxiety and it’s given me the rage so.....maybe! I’m not on Farcebook and don’t really come across this kind of thing so it was quite the “who invaded MN” moment.

SilverySurfer · 21/09/2019 09:57

Ugh.

Nousernameforme · 21/09/2019 10:33

Mumsnet is sharp and a bit bitter but witty and clever. It is a place that just because you have pushed a baby out doesnt expect you to become a serial fb reposter of inspirational shite

If you want to cut and paste something like this do it on facebook. If you want to take the time to write your own words about how you hope people with mental illness are looking aftet themselves then maybe post it over in mental health.

Mumsnet is a wonderfully caring place who ive seen be there and support women through some truly awful life events but its never fake and never twee.

DaphneFanshaw · 21/09/2019 10:43

Yep, keep the mental health stuff over in mental health where it fucking belongs. We don’t want that shit in chat. Hmm
Also, make sure whilst there everything is written in your own words.
This is how things have always been done.
Hope you’re taking notes op.

Butchyrestingface · 21/09/2019 10:44

If it doesn’t resonate with you, is it harming you?

It pure gied me the dry boak, does that count?
Wink

S0CKS · 21/09/2019 10:47

Sorry in order to insult me I would need to have to value your opinions nice try though.
If you don't like it then that's entirely your opinion and your welcome to them but your opinions are just that yours so i don't give a flying fuck. Yes its from Facebook sorry I forgot everybody with mental health issues has Facebook and whether they are my words or somebody elses the sentiment is still the same.

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NerrSnerr · 21/09/2019 10:48

Mumsnet is a wonderfully caring place who ive seen be there and support women through some truly awful life events but its never fake and never twee.*

No, Mumsnet is never twee. I must have imagined all the DD, Dcat (and the Dpony I saw this morning).

Mumsnet is what the individual user wants it to be. If someone wants to post a poem to try and help others then why not, just scroll past if it's not for you.

You can really see why so many kids are so unkind online because it's learnt behaviour. Why not accept that other people are different?

Bunkerlife · 21/09/2019 10:57

Why can't it be in chat, lots of posters appreciate the message. MN doesn't have to be filled with antagonistic comments, insults and downright nastiness. Socks is trying to spread some love and kindness so if you don't appreciate it go away, hide the thread or go and wash your towels, cook a chicken, clean your toilet or draw a parking diagram.

Sockbabies · 21/09/2019 11:19

I agree with @Bunkerlife and @NerrSnerr.

If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all.

Peace and love and all that! ❤️

iklboo · 21/09/2019 11:20

Why can't it be in chat, lots of posters appreciate the message

Daphne is being sarcastic about all the negative Nancys.

Bunkerlife · 21/09/2019 12:10

Yep, keep the mental health stuff over in mental health where it fucking belongs. We don’t want that shit in chat. 
Also, make sure whilst there everything is written in your own words.
This is how things have always been done.
Hope you’re taking notes op.

Doesn't read as sarcasm, reads as unpleasant and nasty

DaphneFanshaw · 21/09/2019 12:19

Shock of course it was fucking sarcastic.
I’ve already posted about my struggles with anxiety, so I am quite invested in being able to be open and honest on here and in rl about mental health issues.
It was in response to the post directly above mine.

DaphneFanshaw · 21/09/2019 12:21

I am also surprised that you thought my post was unpleasant and nasty but you were fine with nousernames. Who basically said what I did, just without the sarcasm.

NerrSnerr · 21/09/2019 12:22

I thought it was clear that @DaphneFanshaw was being sarcastic. It was @Nousernameforme who was being an arse.

buttonz · 21/09/2019 12:26

You're proud of me???

I've already explained on the other twee thread that I am a serial killer in a high security prison...

ChardonnaysDistantCousin · 21/09/2019 12:27

Of cause talking openly about mental health issues here and in RL is important.

Cut and paste of cute FB posts is not a open and honest discussion, it’s a just that, unnecessary cute cut and paste nonsense about it.

DaphneFanshaw · 21/09/2019 12:32

Several posters have said that it helped them though, so surely you could just ignore a bit of twee cutesy stuff if it helps someone who is struggling?

ChardonnaysDistantCousin · 21/09/2019 12:35

And other posters have said it's annoyed them.

It is annoying and patronising nonsense.

NoSauce · 21/09/2019 12:36

The more stuff like this is posted the less impact it will. It’s just FB memes. Nobody really gets inspiration from them.

donquixotedelamancha · 21/09/2019 12:36

“If it doesn’t resonate with you, is it harming you?”

If people think it's vapid spam, and say so, is it harming you?

It's not other MNers responsibility to be 'kind', no matter how silly the post. This is a discussion forum.

Isleofdreams · 21/09/2019 12:39

If it annoys you, hit the hide thread button. Problem solved.

ToLiveInPeace · 21/09/2019 12:40

OP, thank you. I feel like shit today because I've not been looking after myself and it's spoiling our holiday too. Thanks for being kind.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 21/09/2019 12:40

Can't believe there are people here trying to dictate what other people should and should not post just because they don't personally like it. Post whatever you want OP.

WhyBirdStop · 21/09/2019 12:41

If things like this were actually helpful to mental health issues, the NHS wouldn't be in a mental health services crisis, because social media is awash.