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What was your word for geeky/uncool growing up?

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DuggeesWoggle · 20/09/2019 17:03

Was just about to add to the 'describe your childhood in 3 words' and realised one of the words I would have put probably wouldn't be recognised by lots of people.

Ladgin - no idea of proper spelling. Meant uncool/geeky/embarrassing. I was extremely ladgin growing up - holidays spent going to castles in Wales or on steam trains (thanks Dad) instead of all inclusive in Benidorm like everyone else at school. Happy days Grin.

We were in North Yorkshire, 1980s/90s. What word did you have for this, whereabouts and when? Just wondering how far the ladgin-ness spread?!

I'm 38 and wish there were more opportunities to say ladgin in my day to day life.

OP posts:
youarenotkiddingme · 20/09/2019 17:40

Square
Need.

LemonAddict · 20/09/2019 17:41

Gay.

Sorry, but it was.

Sittinonthefloor · 20/09/2019 17:42

Square, keeno, nerd, sad

FaFoutis · 20/09/2019 17:42

Pasty

LemonAddict · 20/09/2019 17:42

To clarify - sorry but it was the word we used.

NameChange84 · 20/09/2019 17:43

We used "sad" alot. There was much "That is so SAD". Sad meant uncool. About three years down in school years used "gay" to mean uncool. I think that insult lasted about ten years based on friends of that age and children I went on to teach.

Losers, Geeks, Mingers, Weirdos, Freaks were things cruel children frequently used to describe anyone that wasn't popular or sporty. Alot of these children were bullied into isolation and then became "Billies" (Billy no mates). Any boys who were not super masculine were called gay regardless of sexuality - "gay boy" "girly boy". Girls that didn't fit a gender stereotype were called "ugly bitch" "frigid" "tranny" "hermaphrodite" "it" or even "tight hole". Angry There was no middle ground. You were either popular or conformed to the expectations of the popular kids or you were bullied. There was alot of alliteration "Lorna in the Corner", "Minging Mandy". Many individual children were victimised into being seen as untouchable, even to themselves. There was lot of fake crosses held up or pretend sprinkling of holy water towards these individuals.

It was a private school and anyone that wasnt middle or upper class would be referred to as "Chavs", "Townies", "Slapheads" or "Pineapple Head" (the last two referring to the tight high ponytails that was in fashion amongst working class girls at the time).

I am so relieved I'm not at school anymore.

louderthan1 · 20/09/2019 17:43

Molly

SunshineDays2019 · 20/09/2019 17:43

Mid 80s at school. A geek would have been called square. Boys we fancied were lush, and the opposite was crude!

sodrained · 20/09/2019 17:49

Neek

WitchSharkadder · 20/09/2019 17:49

This thread has reminded me of the word spod, haven't heard/used that in years! But it was what we called nerdy people, and we'd use dweeb or geek too.

Does anybody else remember using the word 'doody' to mean cool?

userabcname · 20/09/2019 17:52

Boff - I was a boff. Also Larry as in Larry Loner (I wasn't a Larry as I did have a couple of good friends!).

Cheeseoncrumpets · 20/09/2019 17:54

Swot

fedup21 · 20/09/2019 17:54

I’d forgotten sad!

Yes-we used that loads.

Grimbles · 20/09/2019 17:55

Oh yes, Billy no mates!

Another couple were jipswade and jodacky which were variations on jippo and Joey (deacon) which were banned (kids are awful Sad)

SmellMySmellbow · 20/09/2019 17:56

Boffin

Parttimewasteoftime · 20/09/2019 17:57

Boffin defo or cakey

Hushabyelullaby · 20/09/2019 17:59

It was Boff in London and when I moved to Shropshire it was Square.

Propertyofhood · 20/09/2019 17:59

Oh yes, also 'sadcase'.

UncleMatthewsEntrenchingTool · 20/09/2019 17:59

Keeno

DistantVworp · 20/09/2019 18:00

Spod! I haven't said that in 25 years and had completely forgotten about it

Hushabyelullaby · 20/09/2019 18:01

Oh and that was v late 80's/early 90's

fedup21 · 20/09/2019 18:03

And sad sack

Scentsandsensible · 20/09/2019 18:08

90s London - sad and boff too!

iklboo · 20/09/2019 18:14

Boff or Tefal Head

PandaG · 20/09/2019 18:19

Boff or spod. 80s Norfolk.