"NHS needs to change to save money, still sending appt letters for example" urgh! Yes!
Dd and I have BOTH on several occasions received appointment information by letter that didn't arrive in time for us to be able to go to the appointments! So "officially" we were DNA but what actually happened was we didn't bloody know!
On a few the postmarks on the envelopes showed they were POSTED after the appointment date.
On one occasion the LETTER Was dated AFTER the appointment date!
Wtf wastage is that?!
They seriously need to catch up tech wise for many reasons, but I understand this not happening as it requires funding!
Ludicrous that in this day and age until very recently my GP surgery still had only one phone number for EVERYTHING - appointments, test results, repeat prescriptions...
And no other method for contacting the surgery. They're slowly moving over to online appointments, and now have separate numbers for test results and repeat prescriptions.
But really in this day and age repeat prescriptions and test results should be available online.
"GP practices are pretty efficient - probably because they are small businesses that have always focused on profit as well as patient care." My personal experience means I would argue GP surgeries focus on profit often impedes patient care and creates additional costs elsewhere in the Nhs as a direct result of this!
BlackSwan - how long had your son had the infection?
You can't assume the people "bouncing around" were there unnecessarily, any number of conditions where people can be ambulatory and seemingly well when they aren't. I have a spinal condition, that sometimes flares up very badly at the worst times (weekends, bank holidays) that I've been advised not to delay getting assessed and treated, sitting - especially on hard a&e chairs makes the pain MUCH worse - I deal with the pain by pacing and Blethering to whoever is available on the phone (by text/whatsapp) in order to provide a distraction until I can be seen.
Dds disability can have a similar effect and again pacing and distraction techniques help.
Movement can help a lot with pain, as can distraction.