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Class teacher gift - approx 55-60 yrs old no partner no kids

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EnchentButteler · 03/07/2019 13:00

Begging Looking for inspiration for a class teacher gift to be bought between 25 parents please! Lady is approximately 55-60 years old, wears no wedding ring/goes by Miss and has no children. Would love some ideas for a joint class gift around £50. Thank you for reading.

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MrsDimmond · 03/07/2019 21:56

As a similar aged single woman, partner status is relevant. In the past year I have had a bottle of champagne that I couldn't drink by myself even if I felt so inclined, and won a meal voucher for more food than I can eat at a location inconvenient to friends and family. I suspect spa days can be a bit flat on your own.

With all due respect WitsEnding your relationship status and age has nothing to do with those gifts not being well matched to you.

Plenty of single women would enjoy sharing champagne or a spa day or a meal out with friends.

Equally, plenty of married women may not!

A gift needs to suit the individual . Relationship status really is not relevant.

Cookit · 03/07/2019 22:01

I think stationary is a crap gift.

As you say, she’s probably had loads of tat over the years. How do you know she’d love stationary? Over something she could actually pick herself...?

Just get a John Lewis voucher and maybe some flowers or whatever if you want to add something more personal, but the bulk of the present should be a voucher of some sort.

Hellywelly10 · 03/07/2019 22:04

Yes john lewis all the way there are tons of brands on there and not everyone has an amazon account.

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Sandybval · 03/07/2019 22:06

John Lewis voucher.

Loveislandaddict · 03/07/2019 22:07

Vouchers for theatre
Flower bouquet subscription

LynetteScavo · 03/07/2019 22:14

A bunch of flowers, and a John Lewis voucher.

AndromedaPerseus · 03/07/2019 22:20

Liking class card, flowers and vouchers

mumwon · 03/07/2019 22:24

fancy tearoom voucher

federationrep · 03/07/2019 22:32

Schools are so underfunded and teachers buy so much resources themselves. At Christmas I gave DD's teacher blue tack, pritt sticks and white board pens (on DD's suggestion). Teacher gave DD a note that said "thank you for the very useful present, it is much appreciated". We got her a Costa gift card, again DD's suggestion.

federationrep · 03/07/2019 22:36

Posted too soon - me "what things do you know your teacher likes?" Dd - "she's always ready for her coffee". Grin we're in Scotland so school already finished up.

Pieceofpurplesky · 03/07/2019 22:42

Please don't get her stationery or a subscription to stationery. I can't think of a worse gift as a teacher (I am secondary so few gifts other than wine). Our desks are a mess, we have no time for pretty notepads and pens go missing ..

Vouchers and let her get something she actually wants

Pieceofpurplesky · 03/07/2019 22:43

Federation useful is the only word she could politely use for a gift like that. That's not a thank you. It's an insult.

Furries · 04/07/2019 00:13

Blimey, I’d be totally underwhelmed with stationary as a gift.

Really think voucher is the best bet. I’d go with Amazon as there’s then so much choice for spending - I’ve had M&S and John Lewis vouchers in the past, but have always felt limited by what’s on offer. At least with Amazon they sell pretty much everything (apart from a husband/kids/ready made family etc etc)!

MidniteScribbler · 04/07/2019 04:20

Stationery is a crap gift, a bit like giving a carpenter a cheap saw but with diamonte- so isn't it wow.

Best gift I ever received was multiple boxes of white board markers. Teachers get very excited about stationery.

OP, last year I made up a class gift for the teacher. I cut out a heap of differently shaped leaves in different shades of green, and had the students write a lovely message to the teacher on one. I then drew the trunk of a tree on a piece of A3 paper, and placed the leaves all over the tree. I placed it in a frame ($10 at the cheapie shop) and then made vinyl lettering on the front 'Thank you for helping us grow' and the class name and year. Teacher loved it and has put it up in her room. Cost about $20 (aussie) all up.

Akanishta · 04/07/2019 04:43

We collected £140 from DD's Year 6 form, and are giving the teacher:

A thank you card signed by all parents
A bottle of wine
Box of chocolates (Hotel Chocolat, ~£23)
John Lewis voucher worth £100

floraloctopus · 04/07/2019 05:10

I'd be delighted with whiteboard pens and glue sticks as the lack of them is a nuisance every day and has an impact on how some lessons are taught.

IAmAlwaysLikeThis · 04/07/2019 05:16

Vouchers.

Chocolate or other edible stuff.

Best of all, picture or letter from the children (I have kept all of mine over the years.)

Or nothing. While I appreciate the thought, I often end up having to charity shop or regift stuff which I never enjoy much as I feel guilty.

Scarves/diaries/"fancy" pens - it's all wasted on me.

Northernknickers · 04/07/2019 07:14

PLEASE don't give her stationery! Or a diary/organiser. I'm a teacher in the same age bracket...we get diaries given to us by school every year (which for the most part go unused!) Stationery (lovely as it is) is either left unused or regifted (schools are full of paper, we don't need anymore 🤷‍♀️). I've lost count of the number of lovely notebooks and pens I've been given, which then get chucked in a drawer and forgotten about. I'm in no way unappreciative at all...my little ones love to give presents and the pride in their face when I open them is actually the best present of all to me. I just hate for money to be wasted unnecessarily.

My favourite presents in the last few years: a White Stuff floaty scarf (worn it so many times it's almost part of me 😊), an Odeon gift card, Waterstones gift vouchers, a beautiful rose tree in a pot that had my name which sits proudly on my patio, and a stone bird bath, also sitting on my patio. I've also received Pandora charms as I wear my bracelet everyday. The girls in my class love to look at all the charms and hear the different stories about each one.

Your children will know quite a lot about their teacher...if you ask the right questions you'll learn what she likes (or dislikes!). Mine know, for example, that I am allergic to chocolate 🤷‍♀️ I do still get the odd box, which I leave in the staff room.

Personally I don't expect (or want) anything off the children, but IF it's given, I feel bad if I then know I'll never use it. I love my little lovelies...they are 'my present' every September (and I get to enjoy them for a whole school year 🥰🥰)

Loveislandaddict · 04/07/2019 07:17

“I love my little lovelies...they are 'my present' every September (and I get to enjoy them for a whole school year.”

What a lovely sentiment.

IamMummyhearmeROAR · 04/07/2019 07:34

My best gift ever was pressed flowers in small piece of home made paper. I framed it and 20 years later it still hangs in my home.i remember the child’s name and her family so clearly because of the beauty of this small thoughtful gift.

Pinkmalinky · 04/07/2019 07:35

Why do you know so much about her personal life? Very weird. I was Miss -maiden surname- when married to my exH. My DC’s have both surnames and I didn’t want to lose my identity. She may well be married or have a partner, why does that affect her gift anyway? Confused.

Amazon vouchers sound great. I teach college level so barely ever get gifts, might have to go into primary teaching.

chatnicknameyousuggested · 04/07/2019 07:37

Oh come on, OP is only trying to give some context, irrelevant or not!
Gift voucher, token... definitely not flowers as she might be going on holiday the next day.

SallyWD · 04/07/2019 07:44

I'd get restaurant or spa vouchers or vouchers for a shopping centre (our biggest shopping centre sells vouchers you can spend in any shop). I'd prefer that to amazon vouchers.

sashh · 04/07/2019 08:00

Is this primary school?

A class set of glue sticks and coloured pencils.Teachers are having to buy these type of supplies.

www.viking-direct.co.uk/en/p/6409737?cm_mmc=Google--pla_gen_writing-instruments_gosc--writing-instruments-_-6409737&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI9e7hp9ea4wIVJTbTCh2-ywYhEAkYASABEgLt5vD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Also an electric pencil sharpener and or stapler. You wouldn't believe how much time it can take to sharpen pencils.

www.amazon.co.uk/Electric-Sharpener-Automatic-Student-Professionals/dp/B07R4142JF/ref=asc_df_B07R4142JF/?hvlocphy=1007249&linkCode=df0&hvptwo&psc=1&hvnetw=g&hvadid=345505853020&hvpone&hvlocint&hvpos=1o4&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl&hvqmt&tag=mumsnetforu03-21&hvtargid=pla-752001768137&hvrand=3847823177811382386

For everyone asking about the relevance of a partner / children I have bought presents such as a photo shoot of someone's children. It can be relevant.

IamMummyhearmeROAR · 04/07/2019 08:19

It’s not unusual for a class to know a lot about their teacher. My class know all about my girls, my husband, my pets. I weave my life into my teaching.
Personally I would not enjoy glue and whiteboard pens but at least I’d use them. Unlike the 5 Best Teacher mugs I get annually. I regift most chocolate/candles/body stuff as I don’t have use for them. I’m honestly happy with a home made card or a hug.