We only have one car. So my DH has a car and I don't. It does limit me a lot due to my location. I miss out on going out with my DS ( he's not at school yet) I cannot justify taxis on social activities.
I had to get a taxi to a hospital appointment recently that was relatively local and it cost £11 each way. I have previously got the bus which in comparison is about £3.90 return, but the time factor in doing this is massive due to a walk to bus stop and then long walk other end to the hospital. Taxi or car to appointment 10 minutes. Bus I would need 55 minutes, but would prob end up there an hour early and take a lot longer to get back due bus times, being just once every hour.
So I do feel I suffer not having a car. I can't go out with friends as I used to. I know some trips I did were bad environmentally, like driving somewhere different to walk the dog, but it is very restrictive to be a SAHM and be stuck in the same area all week. It does affect your mental health. You worry about things like emergency trips to the doctors. It's a 45 min walk and not on bus route so have to get taxi if DS is unwell. I can walk this, I have but I already walk my dog and I can't take my dog to the doctors.
I am only near one bus route. If I take this bus to the big town it's 45 minutes ride to get there. So I need 1 hour and 5 minutes to get there with walking to bus stop. If I drove it would take 12 minutes door to door.
I can't even get a bus to my local leisure centre. I would need to walk 30 minutes to get to a stop on its route. Again it's 8 minutes by car in comparison.
We couldn't afford to keep running a second car, so I miss out and so does DS. If you're in a good public transport area it can work, I'm not. And people look at you as if you're crazy when you say I don't have a car. I sometimes find it easier to say I don't drive, which of course I can /do at weekends when DH isn't at work. It also makes me feel poor, which we are I guess 