Wondering about the ir35 cocerns when its been about for sooo long, that i feel it should be very much a known entity to navigate?
I agree with the work/life balance issues that are inherent in a lot of work (high or low paid, but seems to be a lot of men will be able to succeed in high remuneration work purely as a result of lack of, or minimal, family responsibility and a dp doing 'wifework'.
We do see a lot of those 'wifework' women in the aftermath (on MN), discovering they have severely reduced/no reasonable work prospects while the man hides his actual financials and tucks away money to avoid the divorce settlement.
It's inspiring to see those women that are earning excellent reward for a role that also allows good family time and isnt a death sentence!
I just completely can't agree that stressful work is limited to higher paid roles! Work-related stress and other ill-health issues are prevalent in many work environments.
Also long hours and extreme amounts of commitment and dedication and just shere hard work are well distributed. There are high suicide rates amongst doctors,but also vets, and also those in work that isnt really recognised as valuable or holding status!
I dont know how teachers in the country's mainstream education do it - hats off (some are shit, but there are.some amazing vocational educators out there that ive had the privilege to work with and see effects on my own dc; same with nurses, foster carers and many many other amazing people and their contribution to supporting/improving communities for others).
As a dm i wouldn't want to miss giving my dc close parenting relationships on which to build secure loved young adults entering the earning/contributing world.