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I’m going to be a granny 😍

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Spotsbeforemyeyes · 11/06/2019 14:32

DD (24) told us yesterday that she and her partner are expecting their first child.

It’s earlier than they had planned by about 4 years but hey ho.

She is the eldest of 6 on our side and her chap is the eldest of 3 on his (he’s 30)

It’s exciting isn’t being it? We have young dc still, youngest is 8, they're all excited.

I’m a bit worried about her mental health, she can’t be fragile, but other nanny and I will keep an eye out, we’re both local.

Just wanted to share. ❤️

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Faster · 11/06/2019 14:33

Ah congratulations OP. Wonderful news x

Turbototty · 11/06/2019 14:35

Ahh that’s lovely - congratulations! My oldest is 24 and youngest is 3, but no grandchildren on the horizon yet. Very exciting for you x

Jonette · 11/06/2019 14:36

Exciting for you all - hope her pregnancy goes well.

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DramaAlpaca · 11/06/2019 14:37

Aww, congratulations Flowers

BenWillbondsPants · 11/06/2019 14:38

Lovely news, congratulations!

Spotsbeforemyeyes · 11/06/2019 14:39

Thank you. Her chap is worried that he doesn’t know what to do. It’s very sweet

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thefuriousfuggler · 11/06/2019 16:01

That's lovely news - congratulations Flowers I have just been lucky enough to be there for the birth of my new grand-daughter and was worried about intruding on their privacy, but I have since had a lovely hug from my son in law who told me that they couldn't possibly have managed without me there. Made my day!

ParanoidGynodroid · 11/06/2019 16:51

Congrats! How very lovely for you all. 🍾

MrsMozartMkII · 11/06/2019 16:52

Congratulations!

SecretWitch · 11/06/2019 16:52

How lovely! You sound over the moon🥰

Spotsbeforemyeyes · 11/06/2019 18:25

AWw furiousfuggler how lovely. I’m a Doula and DD’s has always said she’d want me there but I don’t want to intrude.

I don’t have a mum, she died when I was 11 so I never had a mother figure when I was expecting any of mine. My mil (rest her soul) was quite distant.

I am excited. I’m worried too that she’s still quite young and they like their holidays. She had a tough few years as a teen , she’s had abusive partners in the past so it’s a big relief that she’s found someone lovely.

It seems a bit unreal that my baby will be having a baby. 👀

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CakeNinja · 11/06/2019 18:28

How lovely, congratulations! A new baby is always exciting news but very special that it’s your own grandchild Smile

BlackPrism · 11/06/2019 18:46

It's good to be a young nana! Many years left with the grandkids! I'm 24 now and like your daughter am not planning it for another 5 years. I worry DPs parents won't have long with them when we do as they're already late 60s 😭

MrsTommyBanks · 11/06/2019 18:54

Congratulations Flowers

Batshittery · 11/06/2019 18:57

Congratulations. Thanks It will all work out for them, despite their worries. We know how that feels.

Bluerussian · 11/06/2019 18:59

Congratulations!

Ninkaninus · 11/06/2019 19:01

Being a parent is the making of many young people, myself included. Flowers to you and to your DD and her partner.

He doesn’t need to know what to do, he will learn. I’d advise him (and her) to start with the viewpoint that they are equal partners, and that means he needs to be 100% invested in parenting and in sharing the shitwork/‘wifework’ - that’s all he needs to do!

Congratulations, and enjoy it!

Rollerbird · 11/06/2019 19:04

Congratulations
It is THE BEST being a grandma
You can't imagine how lovely and different it feels compared to being mum.
👍👍🍀

Spotsbeforemyeyes · 11/06/2019 19:15

Aww thank you, you’ve all been so lovely. IVE him not to worry Rory about it and he’ll know what’s to do when the time comes.

LUckily other grandma is lovely too. THE other grandad lives overseas but close enough to get to from time to time.

It’s going to take so long to pass the next 7 and a half month s isn’t it? 😂

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Spotsbeforemyeyes · 11/06/2019 19:16

Sorry about a PST and typos. ipad has a mind of its own.

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DisgraceToTheYChromosome · 11/06/2019 20:07

Congratulations! Ninkaninus is spot on, DGS was certainly the making of DD and DSIL. FlowersCakeWine

If you would like aпу clues as to what it feels like, my thread in Classics ( www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_classics/2955799-To-clap-my-hands-and-skip-about-in-a-elephantine-manner?pg=1&order= )gives some idea. DW and I have never been so happy.

NellWilsonsWhiteHair · 11/06/2019 20:15

Congratulations! I was 24 when I had my first too, also a first grandchild. My mum was at my birth (both my births, in fact) and has been a wonderful grandmother - actually it’s been a really lovely development of our mother-daughter relationship too, starting with my first pregnancy. Lovely lovely times ahead for you all. ❤️

Absolutepowercorrupts · 11/06/2019 20:23

Many congratulations to you 💐I was told very early on in my DDIL's pregnancy and it was so frustrating to have to keep quiet, yes, I felt like you, my baby is having a baby. Well not literally because I'm the Mil, I felt honoured to have been told so early.

JellyNo15 · 11/06/2019 20:49

My first Grandchild is only eight months old but she has brought another level of joy. I provide childcare a couple of days a week. An it is wonderful to watch my DS and DDIL being parents.

Spotsbeforemyeyes · 11/06/2019 20:51

disgrace I remember your thread. Going back to have another read now. Thank you

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