We are trying to buy a house (offer accepted stage). Just discovered that adjacent (20 acre) plot is putting in for planning permission for a sports and leisure facility. The 'sports' section is fairly specialised, but essentially a quiet sport, but the leisure facility, amongst other things, wants to serve as a wedding venue. We know a number of the current local residents, all of whom are opposed to the development. We were sent a copy of the plans by the developers and have obviously Facebook stalked them where we discovered that one of them has a child that will be in the same class our child in Sept - name, school and age on open business fb account (new school for our DC). I was going to reply along the lines of "thats an ambitious project. Mostly we are ok with it but we have concerns re x and y. By the way, our kids will be in the same class at X school next year". DH says not to as it will freak him out, I think if he is stupid enough to put all his DC details on an open fb account going to get stroppy re planning permission he might as well know from the start that he's going to see us regularly for many years to come, and not just as a neighbour. Thoughts?