Just been chatting to dd (5) about boyfriends in school (off the back of another thread) just to see if she knows anyone in school wity one. Hopefully to lead on to a discussion about them not being a good idea.
She just told me she has just broke up with hers 
She said a boy in her class (same age) wanted to be her boyfriend and has kissed her twice. Once in the play house which is fully open and once he took her behind it. She didn’t like it. She discribed it as a peck on the lips.
I asked why didn’t she tell me, she said she thought I would go mad like when I tell her off for messing the living room up 
She isn’t fazed by it but I feel dreadful.
I’ve spoken to her lots of times about what to do if some one does something she doesn’t like as there was a few incidents when said boy and another boy has kicked her or pushed her. Maybe she didn’t equate the two.
But I’m also really upset with myself that she was scared to discuss this because of what my reaction should be. She is now watching Sponge Bob not a care in the world. I’ve been sworn to secrecy.
I’m so uneasy with this. I don’t like the fact he actually took her behind the play house so no one could see, that tells me he knew he was doing something he shouldn’t have be.
His mum is lovely, apparently he told his mum after the first time.
I don’t feel this is normal. Or is it? I’m going to email his teacher (who is also lovely) and see if she can discuss with the children about boundaries and what’s acceptable. Dd should not be being led anywhere private in school.
Or am I over reacting?