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Private gp for just one issue

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secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 18:17

If I go to a private gp about something will it be kept from my nhs gp ?

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stayingaliveisawayoflife · 27/03/2019 18:20

No they have to report back to your go so whatever treatment you have is added to your nhs notes. I have my depo injection privately but my doctor knows I have it.

secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 18:26

So there’s no option to have confidentiality

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BloodyWorried · 27/03/2019 18:29

They’ll probably ask if they can share with your GP. But even if you say no, if they feel it’s something that needs to be shared for your care they will. For example, they won’t prescribe something and not tell your GP (especially if it’s a more significant drug).

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Mumof1andacat · 27/03/2019 18:36

Why can't you see a normal nhs gp?

AmyFl · 27/03/2019 18:46

They will not automatically tell your GP that you've seen them. I've seen a private GP and they've never shared it with my own NHS GP.

AmyFl · 27/03/2019 18:47

And I've had prescriptions from my private GP, the details of which were not shared.

HavelockVetinari · 27/03/2019 18:49

It depends. If they prescribe medication they have to tell them because it might affect future clinical decisions. If they prescribe an addictive drug they absolutely have to tell them because you could be an addict seeing multiple private GPs to get a fix.

HavelockVetinari · 27/03/2019 18:50

N.B. if you're after diazepam forget it, a private GP wouldn't prescribe it without your medical records.

VanGoghsDog · 27/03/2019 18:50

I've seen a private consultant in the past and my GP was not informed.

Walkingthedog46 · 27/03/2019 18:50

I used to work for a private GP. Information was not routinely shared with patient’s NHS GP unless the patient requested that it was.

crosspelican · 27/03/2019 18:52

My private GP has never shared my information with my NHS GP.

I went a number of times when I was breastfeeding DD2 and had recurrent agonising mastitis with myriad symptoms of infection and my usual practice was useless taking the pain seriously. They kept telling me to nurse through it and come back next week if it wasn't better when I was in huge distress. Private GP gave me antibiotics AND worked with me on latch, positioning and feeding frequency and I never had it again. Love the NHS but 8 mins isn't enough for many problems.

mynameiscalypso · 27/03/2019 18:58

Nope, I've never had them share info (not least because I never provided the details of my NHS GP). Consent is hugely important!

mynameiscalypso · 27/03/2019 18:59

Also, I've been prescribed all sorts privately (both from a GP and a psych) and my NHS GP has never been informed. This has actually included diazepam (re what PP says) but that was from a consultant psychiatrist rather than a GP.

secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 19:06

Private Counselling referral and/or antidepressants

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secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 19:06

I do not under any circumstances want my nhs gp to know

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WeaselKingHenry · 27/03/2019 19:41

Give a fake name to the private GP?

secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 19:49

I hadnt thought of that. I don’t want to be deliberately deceptive I just want some help from somebody who won’t then cause more stress for me

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WhatNowRandy · 27/03/2019 19:56

You'd need a doctor for the antidepressants, of course, but not counselling if you're able to have it privately. You can just find yourself a counsellor and contact them, and while many will ask if they can contact your GP in an emergency, it's not something you need to agree to.

I've seen a private consultant and my GP remained completely ignorant. I was actually really keen for there to be some information sharing, but apparently this was impossible in practice for these particular parties...

Other option if you really want to be secretive: a private doctor abroad - cash pay.

Prequelle · 27/03/2019 19:58

havelock Grin

secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 20:02

I just want someone to help me that I can trust you and to get some treatment

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WhatNowRandy · 27/03/2019 20:05

I found my private counsellor from the BACP website.

ColdToesHere · 27/03/2019 20:08

I have a private GP in West London that I’d highly recommend if that helps.
She never shares info with my NHS GP

secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 20:15

Thanks I’ll have a look
My nhs gp was so unhelpful and unpleasant that I’ve struggled now for a further four months and I can’t do it anymore but her words ring in my head and I can’t risk it.

I had depression as a teenager and had a bad few years I’ve had pnd before
I was feeling bad after my youngest and she said given my history if I had it again or even any sign of it that the relevant people would need to decide can I actually cope with my baby and meet his needs
I panicked and started to try to also give bottle feeds as was terrified if I get found out he would be taken and if he couldn’t take a bottle he wouldn’t be able to have milk.
He’s over a year now I feel no better but I’m too scared to tell my gp so I need to go private if it’s confidential

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secretiveFromnecessity · 27/03/2019 20:16

Yes please coldtoeshere

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Hiphopopotamous · 27/03/2019 20:18

A private GP will still be bound to notify safeguarding teams if there are at risk children in your care.

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