Snuggy Yes, accept the offered school, go on waiting lists / appeal. If come August you want to home school then decline then.
On the Secondary board some very helpful appeals people are very active this time of year. Post a thread with appeal in the title and they will help.
I'm not an expert, only an interested bystander.
You have to appeal for the school you want not against the offered school. You have to show why it is better. You can use many arguments except Ofsted rating and results. e.g
- extra curricular
- random things offered e.g. Latin
- pastoral care
You need to show why your child will be more disadvantaged by not attending than the school will be by taking an extra pupil.
e.g. Your child excels at trumpet, preferred school has brass band, offered does not
Your child has been doing 'latin club' at primary, preferred school offers latin offered does not
Your child has documented additional pastoral needs, and e.g. uses quiet area at lunch. Preferred school has special quiet lunch facilities, offered school does not.
heather I am not sure to what extent travel can be taken into account. Even if your DS needs you to accompany, they may think elder DD could travel independently. Post a thread in secondary titled 'Secondary Appeal, ADHD and travel issues' or something.