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Half birthdays

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ridiculousridiculousness · 08/02/2019 22:06

Settle a disagreement for me:

Half birthdays...for or against?

Today has been our ds 3 and a half birthday. He's had cake and a day of choosing what he wants to do, eat etc.

One of us was all for this. The other against it (but still enjoyed the cake!) and claim it's a fad that will disappear soon.

OP posts:
Boobiliboobiliboo · 09/02/2019 09:07

Xmas marks the (1/4) birthday of someone nobody actually knows, but people spend months and months over that?

Boobiliboobiliboo · 09/02/2019 09:09

Marathons have half way markers.

Youmadorwhat · 09/02/2019 09:10

No way! Birthdays can be expensive enough!! It’s a good way to set an unrealistic expectation though! 🙄

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RaffertyFair · 09/02/2019 09:11

Xmas marks the (1/4) birthday of someone nobody actually knows
What does that mean? As far as I know no-one celebrates the birth of jesus 4 times a year ...

namechangechanger · 09/02/2019 09:13

No sorry this sounds really ridiculous. I've never heard of anyone celebrating their half birthday HmmConfused

Boobiliboobiliboo · 09/02/2019 09:15

If Jesus existed, he would have been born in September. So celebrating his birthday in December is actually a 1/4 birthday. And people go mad over that, indulging their kids for days and days, ££££s of presents, nights out etc.

But noting that you/your child is half way to the next birthday (not with cards or presents or parties) is setting them up to be spoiled? Okay?

fussychica · 09/02/2019 09:16

WTF! I never cease to be amazed by some of the stuff on MN. Totally ludicrous.

Boobiliboobiliboo · 09/02/2019 09:17

It’s a good way to set an unrealistic expectation though!
What do you think is happening on half birthdays?!

Mari50 · 09/02/2019 09:20

I have heard of half birthdays but I thought it was an excuse for winter babies to have a party on a (potentially) sunny day rather than in the depths of winter.

BrokenWing · 09/02/2019 09:22

Nope, thankfully, never heard of half birthdays here either.

RaffertyFair · 09/02/2019 09:22

If Jesus existed, he would have been born in September
Grin

Leaving aside the complete illogical nonsense of that sentence, the point is that Christmas is an annual event.

Boobiliboobiliboo · 09/02/2019 09:25

Leaving aside the complete illogical nonsense of that sentence,?

You aren’t aware of the origins of December festivals?

CostanzaG · 09/02/2019 09:25

I know someone who's kid was born on Xmas day. They do a half birthday for him but that kind of makes sense.
No need for it in any other circumstances.

Boobiliboobiliboo · 09/02/2019 09:25

the point is that Christmas is an annual event.

So is a birthday (once a year)
And a half birthday (once a year)

Boobiliboobiliboo · 09/02/2019 09:26

No need for it in any other circumstances.

And also no law against it. 🖕🏻

Crushedvelvetcouch · 09/02/2019 09:27

I have my half birthday, parents always called ut my 'un birthday' on 30th June.

My real birthday is utter shit. I hate winter and refuse to celebrate my birthday then, so I don't. Grin

CherryPavlova · 09/02/2019 09:27

I have only seen it once for a child with a January 3rd birthday. That was instead of not as well as.
Generally children are being raised in a ridiculously egocentric way already and society is bearing the cost.

SweetAsSpice · 09/02/2019 09:27

DS was born on Christmas Day. Several people have suggested we do this to celebrate his birthday. We haven't yet (he is still very young) amd not sure if we will. Just feels wrong. Can't articulate why, just does!

Whisky2014 · 09/02/2019 09:27

No, it's not a thing. And it shouldn't be a thing...

SweetAsSpice · 09/02/2019 09:28

And* Blush

RaffertyFair · 09/02/2019 09:28

Boobiliboobiliboo I am perfectly aware.

I'm pointing out that using Christmas to support the notion of half birthdays makes no sense. It would only work as an argument if there was a September celebration as well as a December celebration.

BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 09/02/2019 09:29

My half birthday was only relevant because it was my friend's full birthday

RaffertyFair · 09/02/2019 09:29

And March and June

BlackCatSleeping · 09/02/2019 09:29

So, are you going to tell us which party you are, OP?

Actually, it was DS's half birthday yesterday, but it never even came on our radars. Just worked it out from this thread.

sparklefarts · 09/02/2019 09:33

Shock people do this?!? MENTAL !

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