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16MO not walking yet- should I be worried?

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missesschmisses · 06/02/2019 22:36

DS is 16MO and is not yet walking independently. Should I be worried, or doesn't anyone have any words of wisdom for what I can do to encourage him? He has been crawling since 10 months, will happily walk all over the house with a walker or holding two hands, can climb the stairs at the speed of light and cruises against everything. As soon as he is encouraged to go it alone he plops down the floor and gets upset.

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WhenLifeGivesYouLemonsx · 06/02/2019 22:44

My son didn't walk until 18 months. He'll start walking soon :) just keep encouraging him I.e. walk him holding both hands, let him cruise around furnitures, etc.

OhWotIsItThisTime · 06/02/2019 22:46

DS1 was 17 months, I was 18 months.

Is your baby hitting his other milestones? Have a word with the HV if you’re worried.

missesschmisses · 06/02/2019 22:47

He is hitting all other milestones, yes

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DianaT1969 · 06/02/2019 22:49

Sorry, not an expert, but is he fairly heavy or tall for his age? A friend's baby walked at around 18 months, but he was heavy and had older brothers and a sister who got everything for him. I think that he didn't see the need to walk.

legolimb · 06/02/2019 22:51

My DS was 17 months old. He had been cruising the furniture for a long time, and walking holding hands but just not independently.

I wouldn't worry. He'll be up and off when you aren't looking.

walkingtheplank · 06/02/2019 22:52

My children walked at 15 and 17 months having been able to get around by crawling for some time - I don't think they saw the point in exerting themselves when they could crawl perfectly well. They were both rather chubby (now skinny) so perhaps their weight was too much to raise up.

I don't think you should be worried but if you are, have a quick chat with a health visitor.

BlueWonder · 06/02/2019 22:54

I don't think my friend's daughter walked until well after 2, she was carried everywhere, anything she wanted was passed to her....she just didn't seem to feel the need to move under her own steam. Now a lively and active primary schooler.

schopenhauer · 06/02/2019 22:54

My dc was 17 months and is now absolutely brilliant at walking, running, jumping etc. Was good at talking and fine motor skills but just took her time to walk. My HV kept making me see her to check up on DC but she didn’t do anything except observe her. Vaguely mentioned physio if no improvement but it wasn’t needed.

missesschmisses · 06/02/2019 22:55

I'm going to get him weighed next week so will speak to HV there. He's not particularly tall or heavy, he has always been on the 25th percentile. It's reassuring to hear from other mums, thank you. So used to people asking incredulously 'he's not walking yet?!'

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heyjude12 · 06/02/2019 22:56

Hes still within normal ranges for not yet walking

123drink · 06/02/2019 22:57

Mine is 13 months and not walking and has already been referred with a date for mor March. Hmm IMO kids do as they will when they are ready. I'm not overly impressed with our referral but hey

mayathebeealldaylong · 06/02/2019 22:58

How many people do you know that can't walk? We all learn eventually.
I didn't talk really until I was 2 and haven't shut up since Wink

NorthEndGal · 06/02/2019 22:59

My guy never crawled, hated tummy time, and could barely sit up at a year (he was so chubby he rolled over).
At 18 months, he hauled himself up on the side of the coffee table , and was walking within a few hours.
He never did stuff on time, but then would catch up and overtake peers.
19 years later, it's pretty much the same story, and he is still our little old man.

gower4 · 06/02/2019 22:59

None of mine walked until 18-19 months. If he's cruising that's good. A physio told me not to walk them holding hands and not to use a walker. They're actually better off crawling than walking with someone else. They need a strong enough core to self-support and they get that through the natural stages of getting upright, even if it seems to take a while.

CheeseFan · 06/02/2019 22:59

My daughter is nearly 16 months and also not walking quite yet. She took a couple of steps the other day and seemed pleased with herself, but has refused to since!

I’m not worried, apparently my brothers were around 20 months when they walked and I know she’ll get there, some are just keener/more confident than others.

I do get annoyed by people making comments who hardly know us, saying she should be walking by now. F off!

MistressDeeCee · 06/02/2019 22:59

DD2 walked at 18 months.

NorthEndGal · 06/02/2019 23:00

Except now he is skinny, 6'1", and beardy

AnyFucker · 06/02/2019 23:01

If there are no other issues, that is quite ridiculous 123

Op, your boy will walk when he is ready. Sounds like the building blocks are there. He is still well within normal milestones. Don't worry.

musicmaiden · 06/02/2019 23:04

19 and 20 months respectively with my two. Cruising a good sign. Nothing to worry about!

Crunched · 06/02/2019 23:06

My three were all over 19 months when they walked.
They weren’t particularly heavy but had/have long legs ( DS is 6”5’ now).

bonzo77 · 06/02/2019 23:29

Ds1 walked at 16m. DS2 &3 at 21 months. Me at 23months. Considered far far end of normal. My younger two also were late with sitting (9 and 8months), and crawling (11 and 13m). All quite caught up now (aged 6 and 3).

JockTamsonsBairns · 07/02/2019 00:54

Dc1 was 17 months, dc2 was 21 months - we thought dc3 was some sort of prodigy when she walked at 13 months Grin

MsPavlichenko · 07/02/2019 01:00

Not walking at that stage would only be an issue if there were issues with other motor functions. Which there clearly are not.

Tolleshunt · 07/02/2019 01:01

My DD walked independently at 17 months. She is very hypermobile, which likely contributed to her walking towards the latter end of the development window.

LaurenOrdering · 07/02/2019 02:19

DD was 19 months old when she started walking. She never crawled just moved around by bum shuffling.

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