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What's the age gap between you and your other half?

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FelicisWolf · 02/02/2019 11:44

Just wondering what age gaps there are on here for curiosity! There's 9 years between me and my DH and I always wonder if that is considered to be in the 'normal' or 'big' age gap bracket. (Not that there is such a thing but for arguments sake). What are the age gaps between you and your OH?

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Kintan · 02/02/2019 12:11

I’m 3 months and 3 days younger :)

amusedbush · 02/02/2019 12:11

He’s two weeks older than me. We were due to be born on the same day but he was two days early and I was twelve days late.

tomhazard · 02/02/2019 12:13

6.5 years.

wishywashy6 · 02/02/2019 12:13

10 years (I'm 36 he's 26)

LurkyMcLurky · 02/02/2019 12:14

8 years. He's the older one. Got together when I was 20. 26 years later, we're still going strong.

DumbledoresApprentice · 02/02/2019 12:15

I’m 15 days younger.

FlagFish · 02/02/2019 12:16

I'm 7 months older.

Babbaganoush · 02/02/2019 12:16

3 months.

vinoandbrie · 02/02/2019 12:16

Seven years. I’m younger.

MsJuniper · 02/02/2019 12:18

18 months (I'm older) - I went out with someone 16 years older before him and would never do so again. I love that we share cultural history and can have a good moan about the older/younger generations who obviously lack our superior insights and experience of the world. Love him reminding me I'm the oldest slightly less Grin

Crunched · 02/02/2019 12:20

I’m 20 months older- he never lets me forget it.
“Did you have Chinese Takeaways when you were a child?” etc.
Ha bloody Ha...

Thesnobbymiddleclassone · 02/02/2019 12:20

DH is 9 years older.

myidentitymycrisis · 02/02/2019 12:20

8 years. He’s older. I know I’ll probably be widowed.

bert3400 · 02/02/2019 12:23

11 years , I'm 51 DH is 40 . You would never know . I look very young for 51 and he looks very old for 40 . Been together over 20 years ...it's perfect

Mywifenow · 02/02/2019 12:23

22 years here... almost certain I’ll be widowed Sad

Evidencebased · 02/02/2019 12:25

He's 15 years younger.

The only tricky bit was telling him.
DC similar ages, so he had assumed that meant we were similar ages too.

DorothyZbornak · 02/02/2019 12:27

13 years. He's older. I can honestly say that the age gap has never been a problem.

ChristinaMarlowe · 02/02/2019 12:28

I'm 9 days older than DH. It's his favourite week of the year 🙄

DaphneduM · 02/02/2019 12:28

I'm 3 years older than DH. My dad was 20 years older than my mum, but they had a great marriage - mum died before him and he was very lost for those last years of his life.

Thecomfortador · 02/02/2019 12:30

Something under 2 years, I'm older. Sometimes it seems a lot but I think we just had different cultural pointers growing up.

Ribbonsonabox · 02/02/2019 12:30

He is older by 16 years.

CarpeVitam · 02/02/2019 12:32

My DH is 7 years older than me Smile

mizu · 02/02/2019 12:33

I'm 4 years older.

MillieMoodle · 02/02/2019 12:33

DH is 4 years older.

Ribbonsonabox · 02/02/2019 12:35

And yes the only downside is I will probably see him die and spend my last years alone... I do get emotional thinking that we wint get to do all the old peoples stuff together. Theres an old retired couple in the house next to us and they are always out gardening together in the garden and it makes me cry sometimes.....
We have two children, 4yo and 7months. Eldest born when my husband was 45 and so he will be retired when the children are still at home I'd imagine!

But we always say when you think about how long humans have been on this earth we were very lucky to be alive at the same time at all so what is 16 years difference!!

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