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My dog died and hour ago. I'm absolutely devastated.

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HarrySnotter · 12/01/2019 23:32

He was only 6 years old. He's been totally fine, no issues, asleep beside me on the sofa as usual. I got up to let him outside before I went to bed and he'd just gone. I can't believe it.

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mimibunz · 13/01/2019 00:04

I’m so sorry for your loss. Flowers

humblesims · 13/01/2019 00:04

Flowers so sorry what a horrid shock for you.

HeronLanyon · 13/01/2019 00:08

Op I am so so sorry. You will be in shock and it’s not something you get over quickly at all. Look after yourself. Don’t worry if anyone seems not to understand or says something unfeeling. Your grief is real. I am really sorry. It is tough and hard because such an awful shock. Flowers

LuluJakey1 · 13/01/2019 00:09

That must have been the most awful shock for you. I am so sorry. They steal our hearts. We have two cats and I love them to bits. But I always think it's beacuse we love our pets and they love us and give so much back that it hurts so much. So sorry about your boy. Flowers

huuskymam · 13/01/2019 00:09

So sorry for your loss ❤❤

amprev · 13/01/2019 00:09

This is so sad and shocking - sending strength. Our dogs are amazing.

dellacucina · 13/01/2019 00:09
Flowers

So sorry for your loss

rosydreams · 13/01/2019 00:13

i remember my aunt saying her lab jumped on the sofa one day and suddenly died it was his heart.Quick, you dont see it coming then it just happens.

By the sounds of it though he was well loved heartbreaking but at least you know you gave him a good life

cowfacemonkey · 13/01/2019 00:15

What a terrible shock for you and your family. Such a young dog to lose unexpectedly. If you can at all try and take some comfort in that it sounds very much like he didn't suffer and quietly slept in peace next to those that adored him. I know that's not really any comfort as it's so soon and so devastating.

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HarrySnotter · 13/01/2019 00:17

Yes we've had him from a baby. He was 9 weeks old and the chubbiest most gorgeous wee thing you've ever seen. But oh my god he was a hideous puppy, he was so naughty. But from the minute we had him we loved him. Every ridiculously greedy, hilarious loveable, lazy part of him.

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rosydreams · 13/01/2019 00:20

thats whats funny about labs greedy sods with such personality my aunts one would sit his head my lap when i was at the dinner table giving me that puppy eye look rofl

mouthkisses · 13/01/2019 00:21

Terrible for you, I'm so sorry.

As a PP said, it must have been a very peaceful death, and beside those who loved him. What more could you ask for him. I'm sorry his death was premature. He sounds like a lovely dog. Your missing him is his legacy. Xxx

landmarkfuture · 13/01/2019 00:23

My heart hurts for you. You must be in a terrible state of shock. It's such an awful thing to go through.
My lovely dog passed on the 22nd December. We went from cancer diagnosis after a CT scan, to him being put to sleep at our house within 2 weeks. That was sudden enough. I'm still having bouts of crying my eyes out every day for him. And I'm just thinking of him all the time. I miss him so so much. It's like a physical pain.
Over the next few days, be kind to yourself, and don't underestimate the effect it will have. It is such a big loss. Our animals are our best companions. They are our constant companions too. They are such a huge part of our lives. So many little automatic thoughts we have for them every day. And it's those thoughts that make it such a big loss. Constant little reminders that they're not there. I'm not trying to upset you more, just prepare you for the immediate few weeks after tonight. But never feel like you're over reacting to his loss, and don't listen to anyone who might say less than pleasant things about your grief.
I'm still waiting on getting my boys ashes back. We have chosen a lovely wooden box, with some nice words we wrote engraved on it, and even a picture of him at his happiest on it. I honestly can't wait to get his ashes, I will feel like a little bit of his presence will be back. But maybe it will be something you would like to do?
Right now, have a drink, be it sweet tea, or something stronger, and try to take in the situation. I'm so, so sorry for you. Such a horribly sudden way for you to lose your dog. I'll be thinking of you, and him. Take care.

ozymandiusking · 13/01/2019 00:24

I'm so sorry to hear about your poor dog. It's such an awful shock for you. x

sollyfromsurrey · 13/01/2019 00:25

He may have had a canine stroke. If it's any consolation, it would have been completely painless. My heart goes out to you.

danceyourselfsilly · 13/01/2019 00:25

I am so so sorry HarrySnotter - that is just awful. We had to have our dog put to sleep on Xmas eve after a very short illness. It is devastating - my heart goes out to you all. There are no words.

ChorleyFMcominginyourears · 13/01/2019 00:26

Devastated for you! I have a 6 month old white lab, had her since 8 weeks and couldn't imagine losing her ever so at 6 years old and out of the blue is just horrendous! So sorry for your loss, I love chocolate ones xx

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HarrySnotter · 13/01/2019 00:30

@mothkisses What more could you ask for him. This really made me cry. We couldn't ask anything more for him really. He was usually with me anyway and the thought that he died right beside me, snuggling in as usual makes me feel he was comfortable. I hope so anyway. I'm sure he knew how much we all love him.

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BitterAndTwistedChoreDodger · 13/01/2019 00:32

I am sincerely sorry for your loss.

I have lost a lot of pets over the last decade, some suddenly, some slowly and some I have had to make the decision.

It is horrible however it plays out, always a shock, even if it is expected, and always a genuine emotional wrench.

Take comfort in the fact that your darling was truly loved. Someday, perhaps in the future, another dog may be lucky enough to fill the vacancy in your heart.

mirren3 · 13/01/2019 00:34

So sorry to read this, what a shock for you and DH. As PP have said it must have happened so quickly he didn't feel anything.
Have a family day tomorrow with your DC if you can.
I adore Chocolate Labs, and have a fox red one just now, there are no dogs to compare with Labs, walking dustbins on legs and the absolute best friends for children.

HoppyHop · 13/01/2019 00:34

How awful for you. I'm sorry 💐

tablelegs · 13/01/2019 00:38

I'm so sorry OP. Thanks

BF888 · 13/01/2019 00:46

I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your boy, it’s something I’ve experience recently with nearly 3 year old dog. It’s honestly one of the worst things, and it’s strange as it can completely feel like a twilight zone.

She suddenly died but had been okay all day It happened on a weekend to, and didn’t want to take her to the vets, she was put into her bed with her blanket. Didn’t bother taking her to the vets as I’ve worked in one and it can be an insensitive process, so took her to the pet cremation. Got paw prints and her ashes in beautiful box, which is bizarre for the brain to catch up with at times.

My heart really does go out to you and your family. They’re such big parts of the family and they love us so much. I’m so sorry. Flowers

I don’t really know what to say as it’s still so raw for you, just take one day at a time, of you need compassionate leave off work definitely take it. Also www.bluecross.org.uk/pet-bereavement-and-pet-loss are helpful and they have a phone line you can call everyday for support.

Lots of love x

RedTulip86 · 13/01/2019 01:00

So sorry OP 💐

ImNotKitten · 13/01/2019 01:08

I’m so sorry OP. What a terrible shock for you. Your love for him radiates through your posts, he must have known you adored him. I’m sorry he has been lost at such a young age, he clearly had 6 years of love and care from you all. Some animals live far longer but don’t enjoy the same care.

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